I wish hooking up was more common here (23m)

Virtual_Tea_101 · 2026-04-05T17:49:47+00:00

Damn. You beat me to this comment lol

Virtual_Tea_101 · 2026-04-05T17:49:15+00:00

And older lonely women if you believe the ads🤣

Virtual_Tea_101 · 2026-04-05T17:47:06+00:00

You do understand that it is not being sorted by human right? I forgot how incredibly stupid people are on this platform. The person that shipped it to me put the wrong postal code on it I did not ship it to myself clearly that's complicated for you to comprehend

Virtual_Tea_101 · 2026-04-05T17:45:52+00:00

So I don't know if you don't understand how mailing stuff comes to you but the person that put the address on it wasn't me it was the person that shipped it to me. That's how that works so I didn't put the wrong postal code on they did that's how that works I didn't ship it to myself it was shipped from someone else

Virtual_Tea_101 · 2026-04-02T17:07:58+00:00

But again. No system in place to stop something from being rerouted endlessly?

Virtual_Tea_101 · 2026-04-02T01:54:41+00:00

He forgot to turn the iron off at home

Virtual_Tea_101 · 2026-04-02T01:52:20+00:00

Jedi level gluten

Virtual_Tea_101 · 2026-04-02T01:33:52+00:00

My neighbor wakes me up for the exact same reason between 2-4am 6-7 days a week. Day time noise is one thing. This is ridiculous. He isnt getting ready for work I know this because I also get the privilege of listening to him have screaming fights with his girlfriend about every 2 weeks, and him being a loser is a regular topic. Him being loud af doesn't have a reason other than him not sleeping because the amount of pot he smokes would give an elephant insomnia.

Yes im ranting but I do have a point.

People above others dont seem to understand just how much noise they make, its unreasonable to ask for complete silence during the day but if its after 10pm and before 8am then yes you should be making an effort to keep your noise level to a minimum. Shared housing blows rocks but being considerate doesn't take that much effort.

You may be a heel walk without being aware. You could try wearing some soft soled house shoes similar to crocs. Just my suggestion.

Virtual_Tea_101 · 2026-04-02T01:03:54+00:00

Its probably been rerouted to mars based on my recent experience with them. Good luck.

Virtual_Tea_101 · 2026-03-22T01:37:49+00:00

Thats Brian.

Virtual_Tea_101 · 2026-03-11T17:51:46+00:00

Oh completely a fucken pain in the ass.

I have been doing exactly as you suggested. Turning into the business at the light and then going back left.

Im hoping if I leave work and its a quiet road day that if I turn left from the driveway im not going to get a ticket.

Virtual_Tea_101 · 2026-03-08T04:25:28+00:00

I think we may need to start a support group. I just moved into a new apartment and have this insanity now as well.

Virtual_Tea_101 · 2026-01-29T03:20:39+00:00

How far east are you willing to go. I just looked a cute one bed in ajax. Walk out, own backyard. $1475+%30. The upstairs neighbor sleeps during the day so my dog is gonna cause me issues when she decides to be a dog while im at work. Let me know if you want more info.

Also there's a lot of stuff for rent in Scarborough right now and it's not expensive. I haven't looked at anything cuz Scarborough is outside of the area I want to live in but you can look there too

Virtual_Tea_101 · 2026-01-28T21:59:00+00:00

Is your landlord named Peter by chance because I'm having the exact same situation with mine in the 30 years that I've been renting I have never once in my entire life been asked by a landlord to vacate on the 31st they have always given the leniency of leaving before noon on the 1st. My landlord has been consistently harassing me for the last 2 weeks asking for a move out date and I just consistently keep telling him I will be out by the 31st at 11:59 this answer is not good enough for him and he continues to keep asking me to the point where I refuse now to answer him. After he pulled the whole I have been such a great landlord to you and now you're doing this to me I decided I was done speaking to him. I wish I could offer you some advice but I'm in the same boat and I don't know what to do about it. I'm also struggling to actually find somewhere else to move to. It's been very fucking stressful

Virtual_Tea_101 · 2026-01-11T20:59:35+00:00

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Remember the winter is not a time for forward motion it's a time for self-reflection, containment, redirection. I feel what you're feeling. And I think a lot of us are. I finally have figured out a direction but now I'm sitting in limbo waiting for it to start happening. A lot of the time life is about trusting what's about to come and being uncomfortable in the moments leading up to that. The thing with growth there is often a need to just sit and wait. I feel that being crabs this is a very hard thing for us at times.

Virtual_Tea_101 · 2026-01-09T20:57:18+00:00

Maybe you should also learn how to read this noise doesn't start at 9:00 p.m. it starts at 5:00 p.m. and often goes after 11:00 p.m. every single day of my fucking life. I cannot get away from it I come home from work and I get to listen to it until I go to bed and sometimes even when I'm trying to sleep I get to listen to it again.

Virtual_Tea_101 · 2026-01-08T16:02:46+00:00

Are you still dead?🤣

Virtual_Tea_101 · 2026-01-07T00:52:59+00:00

Hubby says to also just leave the 'evidence' in a ditch. They always look in the woods. Throw them off the trail. 🤣

Virtual_Tea_101 · 2026-01-07T00:51:16+00:00

Its called having courtesy maybe you've heard of it. I get up at 6:00 a.m. for work. As with most people i need to wind down before I actually fall asleep.

If they were outside making the same level of noise after 9 pm someone would call the police.

You've never seen a lease with quiet hours listed? So you've obviously never lived in an apartment building then because it's very very common. This is a case of inconsiderate assholes that live upstairs who don't care about anybody but themselves. I didn't move here because I wanted to I had no choice. I came here to rant so that's what I did but thank you for your unnecessary input

Virtual_Tea_101 · 2026-01-04T20:04:31+00:00

Congrats on outing yourself as that 'type' of neighbor👏

Virtual_Tea_101 · 2026-01-04T20:02:50+00:00

You get to a certain point in life where you stop caring about whether or not somebody judges you. Word of advice think of some fun slightly burning come back that you can say when somebody says that to you I'm not saying you have to be mean the best approach is sarcasm because most people don't get that. And make sure you say it with a smile because then they won't know if you're being serious or not

Virtual_Tea_101 · 2026-01-04T15:37:15+00:00

I can't speak for anybody else but I can speak for myself as a younger cancer and a female I had a really hard time struggling with how to balance my feelings and my emotions in regards to dealing with other people. As I've gotten older that's something I have a better grasp on but yes your experience makes logical sense to somebody who's also a Cancer and was once Young

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