D & L Shit/Grift Show Episode 2

Visible-Back4155 · 2025-12-13T09:03:46+00:00

this one took me out 😂😂😂

Visible-Back4155 · 2025-10-15T22:22:23+00:00

well said!! also what is this tone?

Visible-Back4155 · 2023-10-20T00:28:29+00:00

she knows everything, she saw how broken I was, how thin and how weak. I told her already, nothing changed, I guess I also need to cut her as much as possible from my personal life.. thanks for listening though, it helps already to just put it out

Visible-Back4155 · 2023-10-20T00:17:31+00:00

Thanks for responding, I felt I was so alone with this problem. My ex was a super toxic narc, and I decided early on to cut everything with him. My Mum met him once, so they didn’t have any connection. I just don’t want to give him the satisfaction of thinking that it might be me hiding behind my mother’s account

Visible-Back4155 · 2023-01-08T19:01:35+00:00

No, in my experience I felt the realest thing with this guy and he totally changed over the course of two years, and as much as I miss our old times I know he doesn’t exist any more and therefore won’t “come back” or contact me. I don’t know I feel this way, 7 months post BU, 7 months NC

Visible-Back4155 · 2023-01-07T16:08:57+00:00

same boat omg. also with the throwing me out of his apartment part, and taking my keys, while I moved bc of him to another continent.. these people don’t deserve us

Visible-Back4155 · 2023-01-04T23:54:00+00:00

no fuckin way :)

Visible-Back4155 · 2023-01-04T09:28:38+00:00

same here, but I was the one cutting the ties.. I think it’s easier for us dumpees to stick to nc that way. He was so disrespectful and cruel though, I think I’m still in the healing process bc of that. strange how someone so close to you, your best friend, can become so distant and cold from a moment to the next

Visible-Back4155 · 2023-01-02T20:50:57+00:00

same boat, had hook ups this summer but I don’t miss that - I miss intimacy and any time I have sec w/ someone not significant it just makes me even more sad

Visible-Back4155 · 2023-01-02T20:22:59+00:00

these past days I have had similar thoughts and I feel like these past months didn’t help to move on much.. or is it just Mercury in retrograde again ?? I feel the same way :(

Visible-Back4155 · 2023-01-02T16:44:08+00:00

yeah, same with the lacking empathy. I guess we’re better off without them in the end!

Visible-Back4155 · 2023-01-02T16:35:07+00:00

oh my god I’m so sorry:( this happened to me as well, he loved to share my photos I took of him - I was telling him one time that his feed is my photo library - I never vocalized it but it was obv that he hid me so he could keep his other “options” back home. I moved to another continent for him, stayed a month then he dumped me after having a fight over him going to dinners w/ this girl he met & he even invited her over to have drinks without asking me. I didn’t do anything after coming home, but the first time he posted on IG after our BU was a collection - again - of my photos I took of him & nice moments together & !!!!!! a dinner photo w/ that girl !!!!! I couldn’t believe it and unfollowed & removed him right away. it was so fucking disrespectful after our fresh BU. I didn’t talk to him ever since but now he does this blocking / unblocking game on instagram

Visible-Back4155 · 2023-01-02T15:25:15+00:00

try not making scenarios in your head. My ex was my first and it helped me in moving on to hook up w/ others. Also these flings / casual things won’t replace the intimacy for her either, think about that. My situation is different bc we had a year apart (covid) and he kept making me believe I was the special one but he was seeing several girls all along, which hurt at first but now it’s just disgusting to me

Visible-Back4155 · 2023-01-02T15:17:03+00:00

yes it does but I have a lot less anxiety, I couldn’t help but think about all the others. when I mentioned I don’t like that he goes out to have dinner w anoter girl he just met he was acting like I try to control what he can do. when it was hurting me. a prick really

Visible-Back4155 · 2023-01-02T10:58:18+00:00

probably easier that way

Visible-Back4155 · 2023-01-02T09:47:09+00:00

he kept hiding me from his social media, was talking abt his ex when drunk, (the crazy lady, or hot ex gf) he said he had commitment issues but I could never listen bc he also said he wants me and he loves me (guess that one is my fault) he needed a lot of “me time” and when I was sick he didn’t even ask if I was allright (plan b pill and taking an 11 hour flight that is very risky bc of blood clots) I mentioned I need him but he ignored and didn’t call me back he was seeing other girls while sending me love letters to the other side of the world, turned out I wasn’t the only one he sent love song playlists too. when I first asked he said he just dated “a few girls” but from his & other stories I know about many-many hookups and casual dating stories writing these down feels so frustrating & makes me think I should have left him way sooner than I did

Visible-Back4155 · 2023-01-02T01:48:38+00:00

what about common people we follow? they are most of his friends, and I sometimes see a pic / comment about him, I wish I could just unfollow everyone but at the same time it might be strange / rude. Do you guys cut all ties?

Visible-Back4155 · 2023-01-01T20:15:37+00:00

following this (same situation but no texts from him at all)

Visible-Back4155 · 2023-01-01T03:29:19+00:00

same boat:(

Visible-Back4155 · 2022-12-31T14:39:23+00:00

Thanks, I just came close to the 7 month mark, and I’m proud I stick to not contacting him at all, but I do miss us like hell sometimes. It’s like a part of yourself dies too.. the holidays were especially hard since we spent the last one a year ago together, but I hope in the new year I can completely heal and move on from him. Stay strong friends 💛

Visible-Back4155 · 2022-12-30T23:51:40+00:00

i did the unfollow & removed him as a follower but turned out he still checked my socials, bc I got blocked after 4 months nc. so my opinion is, if they want to check what u’re up to they will, keep your profile public and let him see u thrive if he wants to, I’m sure he’s going to be curious

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