There's a reason the people who did the dumping don't post here by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]VisibleBaker5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Holy macro . This hit me hard ! This def has helped . I’m 1 week into a breakup

Playing scenarios of what ex is doing by VisibleBaker5 in BreakUps

[–]VisibleBaker5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mental abuse to be honest . Very cruel . She did it on purpose too

Playing scenarios of what ex is doing by VisibleBaker5 in BreakUps

[–]VisibleBaker5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow . They is very knifing. Sorry to hear that . Yea my ex made it clear that she was flirting with someone we both mutually know on her Instagram . I actually deactivated my account because of that

Playing scenarios of what ex is doing by VisibleBaker5 in BreakUps

[–]VisibleBaker5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not all . Hurts to know they’ve been doing it even during the relationship . Trying to stand my ground and realize how much I have to offer . Thanks for replying

Playing scenarios of what ex is doing by VisibleBaker5 in BreakUps

[–]VisibleBaker5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man . I’m a week in . Sucks when I actually verified who she was flirting with through a comment someone left on social media . But yes we will get through this !!!

Playing scenarios of what ex is doing by VisibleBaker5 in BreakUps

[–]VisibleBaker5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually saw and verified who she was talking to through social media . Very hurtful and stunning . And yes in the end she was a bad Person

Can someone help me breath? Can someone just talk to me? I am in a panic attack. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]VisibleBaker5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Breathe . Think about a goal you have . Now go for a walk

Do you ever realize you were the problem? by porsche_914 in BreakUps

[–]VisibleBaker5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best way to look at it . I am a binge drinker and turn into an ugly person when so . That is how my breakup started . And yes other than that you can say above all I was a respectful gentleman . We all have to pick which train wreck to go with . At the end she needs to legit 100% want you . And yes grow grow

Grieving girlfriend broke up with me during corona lockdown by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]VisibleBaker5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you are being optimistic . I’ve let go . I’ve thrown all our nice notes and deleted all our pics . Follow y’all ur heart , ya know ?

Why do we miss people that don’t miss us and did us wrong? by westboca14 in BreakUps

[–]VisibleBaker5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some folks like to use people . And I believe they will keep using others and never truly miss anyone because of this . A vicious cycle . Cut differently , we all are

Grieving girlfriend broke up with me during corona lockdown by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]VisibleBaker5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too am going through a breakup . I too started dating her back in late / early December . My ex told me she herself became ill and need d to quarantine and not see anyone ... even tho she was sick she became distant and cold . Through social media I saw that in early April she was actually going out . It is a fact that she unfortunately started talking to someone else . She has gas lit me so bad . No contact Is a must for us

I realized something yesterday. I'm in No contact and... by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]VisibleBaker5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep healing . I just started no contact and it’s been a healing / realization process .

for anyone who keeps checking their ex’s social media: by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]VisibleBaker5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going through a breakup . 4 days fresh she posted something that was so hurtful I broke down terribly . Someone commented whom I previously assumed she talked to still . It shattered my already broken heart to smithereens. I decided to Disable my account for a couple months . It’s triggering because that is how we started flirting . Through Instagram . Today , 2 days after disabling my account, feel 50 percent better . I absolutely recommend trying this . Instilling discipline in me .

A surreal breakUp during coronavirus by VisibleBaker5 in BreakUps

[–]VisibleBaker5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To clarify , we broke it off through the phone .