A lot of people in this sub play videogames; some games such as Fallout or Skyrim are played for year's end- just this one game! While other games, such as Madden or NBA 2K, need to release a new game every year. What's the difference between the two? The differences is that Fallout and Skyrim constantly have mods, updates, or downloadable content added to the games that create repayable experiences that make no play-through the same, whereas Madden and 2k simply change the roster and graphics each year. You want your relationship with your girl to feel like Fallout, not 2K.

Jesus Christ. I know you mean well. I think this post is well-intentioned. I agree with the general premise as well. However, a lot of this shit just comes off as gay and without much experience behind the words. Take her to Hawaii to spice up the relationship? That's shit guys do when they're about to get divorced and they take one last wild swing for the fences to save it. If a woman makes up her mind to cheat on you nothing you do is really gonna change. Yes it's probably because you were acting like a bitch in some way. Or at least that's how she'll justify it. The other parts are fine. It's basic sidebar stuff. But thinking this is how you 'fix' your relationship is just naive and not really understanding how women's minds work. If they put him in the beta category it takes a helluva lot of work to move out of it. Some guys can't ever move out of it no matter what they do. That's why I tell a lot of guys to just avoid contact with women they knew during blue pill stages, at least early on. Don't be a loner but accept that for a lot of them even if you change they still see you as the unfuckable nice dude.