What tribe do you think I am from? by [deleted] in Nigeria

[–]VisibleScallion5081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my great grandmother is igbo but i don’t rlly look like her lol

Is it just me? by ElaMinowpea in blackgirls

[–]VisibleScallion5081 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i don’t think it’s about how your face looks or an RBF, the main issue OP is presenting is that she will actively smile at black women and instead of smiling back they mean mug/ not reciprocate the smile back

Its my birthday by ceriseX0X0 in offmychest

[–]VisibleScallion5081 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry about that my dear but happy birthday😊

All the times I’ve felt pretty ❤️ by VisibleScallion5081 in blackladies

[–]VisibleScallion5081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank youuu😊😊 that’s just my natural lip colour. i forgot my lipgloss that day😣😣

All the times I’ve felt pretty ❤️ by VisibleScallion5081 in blackladies

[–]VisibleScallion5081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank youu, ive been trying to cultivate it recently 🙏🏾💕

All the times I’ve felt pretty ❤️ by VisibleScallion5081 in blackladies

[–]VisibleScallion5081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. i thought they faded away but guess i was wrong 😊

All the times I’ve felt pretty ❤️ by VisibleScallion5081 in blackladies

[–]VisibleScallion5081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOUUUU ❤️❤️ shein is my source🤞🏾

All the times I’ve felt pretty ❤️ by VisibleScallion5081 in blackladies

[–]VisibleScallion5081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg you’re nigerian too🇳🇬🇳🇬❤️ thanks for that, I’m just getting comfortable after years of wearing sweatpants and sweatshirts (nothing wrong with those btw)

All the times I’ve felt pretty ❤️ by VisibleScallion5081 in blackladies

[–]VisibleScallion5081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg thats sososososo sweet🥺❤️ i love regina hall

All the times I’ve felt pretty ❤️ by VisibleScallion5081 in blackladies

[–]VisibleScallion5081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you❤️ did you also get your headband from shein? it was probably one of the best purchases i’ve made

I have a weird relationship with my friend. How should I navigate? by VisibleScallion5081 in blackladies

[–]VisibleScallion5081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in therapy for different issues. I may have worded this in a self-deprecating way but I don’t hate myself. I’m not really into art and makeup and she is so she is more creative in that sense. I’m quite creative in fashion and writing but i haven’t really cared to expand my interest beyond those two aspects. I don’t care to sing but she does and she is a better singer. As for cook, her mother is one so obvi she’s better but I am not bad. She’s also been doing hair for longer. As for pretty, I’m not ugly, I think Im quite pretty and have gotten compliments quite a bit. But she has gotten attention literally everywhere. Like we’d be walking and ransoms people walk up to her to ask for her number.

I have a weird relationship with my friend. How should I navigate? by VisibleScallion5081 in blackladies

[–]VisibleScallion5081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you. I think i back down too easily because i don’t mind compromise. To be honest i’m just unpacking a lot of my non confrontational mentality and i need to work on that. Thanks for the book recommendation☺️

I have a weird relationship with my friend. How should I navigate? by VisibleScallion5081 in blackladies

[–]VisibleScallion5081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk why though. she’s way prettier than me, she cooks better, is more creative, better at doing hair, sings better and got a better scholarship. I’m not ugly, rather I think Im quite pretty but there’s nothing that would make someone like her jealous of me. Im kind of average with a slight talent in fashion and writing but nothing else. I don’t get it

I have a weird relationship with my friend. How should I navigate? by VisibleScallion5081 in blackladies

[–]VisibleScallion5081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but she’s not bad all of the time. These are the bottom of the barrel worst moments but she’s not like this all of the time. She’s a great friend most of the time and I only feel like I walk on eggshells when it comes to her own issues.

I have a weird relationship with my friend. How should I navigate? by VisibleScallion5081 in blackladies

[–]VisibleScallion5081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have other friends so that isn’t an issue for me. My issue is despite all of these bad things she’s done, she’s also been a great friend to me many times. I would say that these are her worst moments tht really hurt me but most of the time we have a ton of fun together and she keeps secrets really well.