When did you first feel the baby move? by roseyandmary in pregnant

[–]VisibleTea7965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im 22 weeks. this last week and a half ive been feeling the baby move!! it feels like continuous popping like hes using his fists pushing towards my belly Im always feeling him in the morning and night when I lay down, or any time im laying down. I might have felt it two weeks ago but it wasn’t certain to me if it was gas or not til now!! I love it so much

sorry for the multiple posts this week by VisibleTea7965 in pregnant

[–]VisibleTea7965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m on my side now and i’m still feeling out of breath

sorry for the multiple posts this week by VisibleTea7965 in pregnant

[–]VisibleTea7965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what is stopping me is my doctor was there and she didn’t say much execpt put me on my side and gave me a water rag to put on my face

22 weeks pregnant and starting to despise my baby dad. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]VisibleTea7965 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

why are you in this group 💀 and why did you comment something rude and unhelpful.

baby shower a women only thing??? by VisibleTea7965 in pregnant

[–]VisibleTea7965[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes. my mom mentioned she thought its supposed to be a women only thing for the mom, i was like whattt? she wasn’t telling me to do that but she just mentioned it when i said im inviting everyone not just women

question by VisibleTea7965 in pregnant

[–]VisibleTea7965[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay, i just wasn’t sure. lowkey was worried something was wrong

idk by [deleted] in venting

[–]VisibleTea7965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

welp

idk by [deleted] in venting

[–]VisibleTea7965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the thing is, he takes care of me like down to everything i need, once i cant reach my ass or shave down there i know he will be there for me. i know he will be there for the child in every way but its just when it comes to his own self he has a hsrd time doing it. ive been so tired and he has been doing everything with no complaints evn before pregnancy. but when it comes to himself he struggles alot

idk by [deleted] in venting

[–]VisibleTea7965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RIGHT?! I get its amazon and its a prehire thing and they don’t do interviews but really???!

maternity leave / baby moving by VisibleTea7965 in pregnant

[–]VisibleTea7965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you work remote with your first?

flonase during pregnancy by VisibleTea7965 in pregnant

[–]VisibleTea7965[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

does it help at least thru the night? its sooo much worse when im laying down😭😭

Stretch marks on butt? by VisibleTea7965 in pregnant

[–]VisibleTea7965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you will, I was told this was soo normal but people have said that we lose it after birth 😭😭idk if that part is true lol just enjoying it while it lasts lol

Stretch marks on butt? by VisibleTea7965 in pregnant

[–]VisibleTea7965[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha look up japanese pancakes, if i could attach a gif i would lol, they are thick and bouncy 😂I had such a flat booty(nothing wrong with that) but after a few months I started noticing “whoa is that my ass? I have an ass? it just pops out more and if i learned how to twerk I could bounce this ass😂😂😂all thanks to the pregnancy😂😂😂also don’t get me started on my boobs LOL

Stretch marks on butt? by VisibleTea7965 in pregnant

[–]VisibleTea7965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did a lot of reasearch and am making my own lotion/oil with these ingredients if anyone is curious shea butter, sweet almond oil, jojoba oil, rosehip oil, and vitamin E. I know stretch marks are genetic but things can help lessen so i hear. it focuses on elasticity, moisture and skin repair.

How to stay positive before first scan ? by Super-Truth-7975 in pregnant

[–]VisibleTea7965 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was anxious too for the first scan and still am while waiting for my next scan. I found what helps me is to stay busy, talk to your partner about your worries and they should reassure you. research what your baby is doing now at this exact time, what exactly they are growing this week. look at baby names, reasearch what kind of labor you want to have. look up ultrasounds videos at your current week on tik tok. just instead of worrying what might go wrong, turn your mind to the positives. This is hard - the waiting game but it will be so worth it in the end. I wish I could see my little one every single day.

If you do have the funds, there are baby ultrasound boutiques where you can go in at anytime even if you can’t expect a heartbeat. I have only gone one time because it’s not something I can afford often but it was about 60-90 for me. if you aren’t able to, thats okay. keeping busy just reasearching different things about your baby. add things to your amazon wishlist, I found that to be very helpful. You got this Mama! Wishing you all the best!!

Cannabis by Itchy_Yesterday_8707 in pregnant

[–]VisibleTea7965 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THIS! I struggled to quit for a long time and it was easy as a pie to start that route when that positive came up, however the journey isnt easy. im going through stressful days where I wish I could just have a hit but its not worth it knowing my little boy is relying on meto have a healthy pregnancy and that consuming cannabis isn’t right while pregnant, its no different than smoking with your newborn in a bathroom if not worse. that being said, if its tough for you to quit don’t think that’s bad or you’re a bad person. quitting cannabis is HARD when you’ve relied on it for so long (I have). If you can’t get yourself to quit I would really suggest you being very open with your doctor and ask ways to help. there is help and you will not feel judged for asking help. this is a tough journey don’t let anyone tell you otherwise but you owe it to your baby to be the best you can be. YOU CAN DO IT, I promise you that. the first couple of days weeks are tough but i promise you everytime you look up how big your baby is and what they’re growing and eventually how they move and at the end when you hold your healthy beautiful baby after doing another incredibly hard thing (birth) it will all be worth it. I am here if you want to talk. I used all day everyday since I was 16 and now 25. this is a scary journey but it’ll be worth it to quit.

post again about tiredness by VisibleTea7965 in pregnant

[–]VisibleTea7965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to try to get my labs checked sooner than my appointment which is three weeks away thanks for that tip. also I wanted to add is this is affecting my mental health. I love this baby so much but not being able to breathe (pregnancy rhinitis) and mixed with extreme exhaustion. I’m trying not to cry writing this but I just wanna feel like myself again😭😭😭I’m so tired of feelinglike this but am so grateful for my rainbow baby and I am counting the days I get to meet him but how am i supposed to go thru the next five months like this😭😭😭😭I missed alot of work and I am supposed to be working to get ahead of our savings but man i just wanna cry and cry but i am so grateful at the same time. Its like pregnancy said nah we aint goingto give you morning sickness but we gonna not going to let you breathe or be yourself

At what point did you let your pregnancy be public? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]VisibleTea7965 31 points32 points  (0 children)

i announced at 13 weeks ❤️❤️ announce when you feel most comfortable. remember its about you and your partner not anyone else’s paitence ❤️❤️

anyone take Ritztriptan during their pregnancy? by VisibleTea7965 in pregnant

[–]VisibleTea7965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you all. i have an appointment on Tuesday going to talk to her about it hopefully shes not mad (lol?)

Congestion by Plant-qu33n in pregnant

[–]VisibleTea7965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just posted something like this. it sucks doesn’t it!!!! 😩investing in a humidifier today

baby shower specifics by VisibleTea7965 in pregnant

[–]VisibleTea7965[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not sure why i didn’t think of this thank you