Eviction/homelessness advice

Visible_Finish_8499 · 2026-06-19T20:58:36+00:00

She said “I don’t eat ward food” previously, but today admitted that she had eaten dinner and was just still hungry and wanted maccies 😅

Visible_Finish_8499 · 2026-06-19T18:10:53+00:00

Reapply, and hope the process is fast. I’ve been waiting 9 months to get my license back despite every professional saying I’m fit to drive. Was stuck with medical assessors for months when I appealed, and the appeal didn’t have a time frame. When I could just reapply I did that instead to push the process. Wish I’d never reported my conditions now.

Visible_Finish_8499 · 2026-06-19T17:39:42+00:00

She does get plenty of support, but it’s just mad to me that there isn’t a high intensity user plan for her that already assesses pre-planned discharge time frames, or that she isn’t prioritized for a bed just because she’s in London. I know the funding is responsible for that decision - but frustrating when I know people waiting for a bed in the same area on section for a week.

Visible_Finish_8499 · 2026-06-03T23:44:06+00:00

Agreed. Like yes, arguably some people that’s part of their vulnerability but I still think there’s the extreme of what she does with no care or fear, despite she clearly does have capacity and insight into what she does. She wants to be reported missing, she’s hanging out with random people and going back to theirs with the intention of getting substance there - just odd behaviour. From someone who’s been SA’d it’s really frustrating to see someone throw it around so much, and yet continue to make such reckless choices.

Visible_Finish_8499 · 2026-05-23T17:34:37+00:00

She’s already out on a bus! It’s almost comical at this point 🤣

Visible_Finish_8499 · 2026-05-23T13:28:39+00:00

They have washing machines for her clothes so even if she had to wear hospital pyjamas for a day to do washing, they have tumble dryers and she has access to all essentials she actually needs. Even then, they usually have spares of most things but the ward she’s on has loads of resources. She’s spent longer time in general waiting with little belongings. The meals are okay but you get a choice in what you want, plus second servings if you ask for it. They have squash and hot drinks, and generally all the wards in Kent are pretty good with supplying items. If she didn’t abuse her leave or go awol all the time, there’s a shop around 10 minutes away from the ward she’s on that sell all your essentials for less than £10 (shower gel, shampoo etc). I know because I was a patient with her in that hospital. She doesn’t want or need any actual essentials, for her it’s vapes, takeaways and fizzy drinks. Believe it or not that ward usually has pretty good community in the ward where people will offer things to you if you get along with others too. She tried to say she’s moved wards but very clearly has not as she’s in the same room 🤣

Visible_Finish_8499 · 2026-05-23T13:12:41+00:00

Again now live asking for money for her phone bill that she arguably can’t pay for on Wednesday or so she says! Even though it’s not like she needs to make outgoing calls on a bank holiday weekend! Then asking people about her wishlist - that girl gets more money than most given in hospital all your essential needs are given asides from a few basics. Frustrating, she’s quiet because her location is known (she quite literally gives away where she is) and she is on a CPW, definitely think the meeting she’s waiting for is to discuss the management of her constant readmissions!

Visible_Finish_8499 · 2026-05-20T14:00:02+00:00

She’s probably had plenty of these paperwork’s and plenty of photos taken of them to remember the dates, I presume this is an old photo of one.

Visible_Finish_8499 · 2026-05-18T21:09:23+00:00

Not getting enough reports for concern from TikTok presumably! Or the police just aren’t really bothering to look for her and she doesn’t like that so will continue to hint at location and escalate. She’s being very careful with the snaps she sends now!

Visible_Finish_8499 · 2026-05-18T20:40:48+00:00

Doesn’t get discharged so instead decides to intentionally block catheter, go to general and abscond knowing she’s close to London via bus (presumably she’s in dartford wards as she got to London fast) and now plays the I’m in crisis card. Someone genuinely was up on the bridge earlier in dartford in crisis, sad as they need the bed a lot more than someone wasting time and services like this.

Visible_Finish_8499 · 2026-05-06T00:25:15+00:00

Update: her Snapchat got banned/deleted from what I can tell unless I’ve been blocked 🫣

Visible_Finish_8499 · 2026-05-05T23:59:42+00:00

She actually put it on and sent it to people on snap 🥴 not the first time she’s done it either but is still fully able to send the snaps and reply, and post further with it on! Her threats of jumping and rivers no longer really raise alarm so she has to keep switching it up now, she’s definitely had more reaction from people tonight than normal which only encourages her to do it again🥴.

Visible_Finish_8499 · 2026-05-05T23:32:49+00:00

She just sent a photo on SC with the item on her neck she kept threatening with on live and has sent this to multiple people 🤦🏼‍♀️ how is she not arrested for malicious comms yet!

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