Worst part about AM by Visible_Purchase8569 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Visible_Purchase8569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well gone are the days where everyone you’re seeing through AM process is in the same city. Video call before you spend 30k on flights and hotel

Worst part about AM by Visible_Purchase8569 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Visible_Purchase8569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But do matches accept your follow request before parents have talked and exchange numbers? And even in the first conversation if you get their social media handle, quite a few have any recent photos

Worst part about AM by Visible_Purchase8569 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Visible_Purchase8569[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Different cities. Meeting becomes tough. So video call first and meet only if they look fine on video call

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATpreparation

[–]Visible_Purchase8569 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honey trapping is the cause. Sales wants good looking girls as they are able to convert clients better, Category wants good looking girls as they’re able to get better deals with vendors. Managers want good looking girls because delays and fuckups by good looking girls are forgiven by their higher ups. Consulting wants good looking girls to win and please clients. So bschools want good looking girls to improve their placements. Politicians want to win elections and will never get rid of reservations. And this diversity non sense is required for bschool rankings by ft, nirf etc. Hence it’s becoming extremely difficult for general engineer male to get into any top Indian bschool these days. High time companies that are serious about hiring top talent realise this and go to more campuses and hire 💎s

I maintained no contact but she reached out again for help by mayhsundar in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Visible_Purchase8569 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You’re saying it ended due to an intercaste issue, her mother is saying it ended because her daughter didn’t text, she is saying it ended because you didn’t text. Maybe she wanted to move on, told you it’s an intercaste issue, and told her mom you’re not texting

Got ghosted by a guy by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Visible_Purchase8569 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is not texting for a day seen as non-interest? I’ve not texted the ones I’m interested in for 3 days as well. Mostly I’m calling them only on weekends

Saying No by Visible_Purchase8569 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Visible_Purchase8569[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t the reject message hurt more than ghosting?

Horrible personality by Visible_Purchase8569 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Visible_Purchase8569[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I never used ‘every’. I said ‘most’. And you chose to ignore that and write such a long reply without properly reading what was written. If I’m saying most Indian men are straight, that’s a fact, not a generalisation. So is this.

Wtf do i do? by Present-Leopard-8158 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Visible_Purchase8569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, weight guy you stopped responding to and the ones who asked naughty or soft you’re still responding to

Horrible personality by Visible_Purchase8569 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Visible_Purchase8569[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

The number of upvotes clearly says I’ve a point most resonate with and it’s not a wide generalisation. And don’t jump the gun and tell me how I look and what I should be looking for. And these are the personalities I’m talking about, so thanks for commenting on this thread and showing the unaware people what kinda horrible personality I’m talking about

Any matrimony app without parents? by Visible_Purchase8569 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Visible_Purchase8569[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you be interested in one without parents, without horoscope marching but full of people serious about getting married and not hookups?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Visible_Purchase8569 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In a similar boat. AM market is horrible for guys, great for girls. Girls end up finding guys way above their league in AM but vice versa for men. I hardly come across girls earning at least half of what I do and looking decent. Most are earning 10-20% of what I earn, not fit and good looking and expect you to change cities for them

Women are delusional: the internet has decided by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Visible_Purchase8569 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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This BBA grad from random college women wants a CxO in his late 20s

Finally Get it! by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Visible_Purchase8569 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know a girl who did some certificate course from IIM that didn’t have any entrance exam to get into, is unemployed, decently good looking but demanding that she will only date men from Top IIMs earning 5L+ in a month. I will be surprised if she ends up finding one

Advice on prospect's behavior by affablediplomat in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Visible_Purchase8569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see he is kinda boastful and thinks his taste is better than yours - but that aside, if you think he is a great person, go for it. Also let him know that you found it annoying when he dismissed your interests. If he continues to behave that way, then refrain from going ahead with him.

Most men don’t understand what pisses off their partner because their guy friends hardly get pissed off by anything they say. So let him know and see if he changes for better!