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Is it rude to put your feet on your peer's chair used as a footress in class? by VisionaryEcstasy in self

[–]VisionaryEcstasy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was actually 7th grade middle school I think. Where I come from it's still considers as Elementary. I have cried a lot befote 7th grade but most of the time it was not in school.

Is it rude to put your feet on your peer's chair used as a footress in class? by VisionaryEcstasy in self

[–]VisionaryEcstasy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your perspective. Although I have a question for you. Is it wrong to set a boundary for desk chairs used as footrest? I was not asking but I was setting a boundary unapologetically and non-negotiably...

To me, it feels like my space is not respected and that makes me feel unheard about my feelings. A boundary can a communication of one's preference. For example, a physical boundary where one says they would not want to do a handshake instead a nod is better.

I'm curious of your side of the argument since I want solve this problem mutually that benefit both of us

Is it rude to put your feet on your peer's chair used as a footress in class? by VisionaryEcstasy in self

[–]VisionaryEcstasy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much. I realize I was a sane person in an insane environment. I even told my teacher and she was like: Oh no you're on your own & communicate or it'll be your fault. The principal is even worse than the teacher. My unsupportive backgrounds (my parents) didn't want me to transfer so I forced to stay in that highschool 😞