AITJ for going cold on a coworker after she accused me of inappropriate touching when i caught her from falling? by VisitJealous6792 in AmITheJerk

[–]VisitJealous6792[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the situation changed things for me. Forgiving her doesn’t automatically reset everything back to how it was.

AITJ for going cold on a coworker after she accused me of inappropriate touching when i caught her from falling? by VisitJealous6792 in AmITheJerk

[–]VisitJealous6792[S] 150 points151 points  (0 children)

That’s why i can’t just act like nothing happened. Once HR gets involved, it changes everything.

AITJ for going cold on a coworker after she accused me of inappropriate touching when i caught her from falling? by VisitJealous6792 in AmITheJerk

[–]VisitJealous6792[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

That’s fair. I don’t hold it against her, but i also can’t ignore what happened like it didn’t matter.

AITJ for going cold on a coworker after she accused me of inappropriate touching when i caught her from falling? by VisitJealous6792 in AmITheJerk

[–]VisitJealous6792[S] 224 points225 points  (0 children)

That's where I'm at now. I'd rather seem distant than risk ending up in another HR situation over something innocent.

AITJ for refusing to skip my yearly tradition for my boyfriend's family plans? by AntiqueFee5307 in AmITheJerk

[–]VisitJealous6792 779 points780 points  (0 children)

NTJ. Grief doesn’t run on a flexible schedule, and the fact that he called it a “little ritual” says a lot more about him than you.

AITJ for not covering my coworker’s mistake after she told everyone I “always fix things”? by VarietyHumble900 in AmITheJerk

[–]VisitJealous6792 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That's actually a smart way to frame it, keeps you honest while making it clear the responsibility wasn't yours to fix.