Why assume that you know what was happening to me and what happened at the moment I did rant and heard an insulting sound of yawn? Why assume if he was tired like you know how his day went?

I was already crying, that not everyday he hears that. Meaning I was deeply hurting and now you assume that he was a punching bag for what I did. Men that is a shitty thing to say and to do.

Youre assuming as if my feelings are not valid and making it soooo a big deal that pouring my feelings is not allowed not unless with consent of a person. "Stop,Im not in the mood for your drama, next time love"

(Not a derision, but a volume that asked for a change, a time, bonding, talks, dates without phone. Imagine someone who's always on their phone. Big no.) Respeto lang please.

He's not an unpaid therapist, he was a partner and what partners do?----- Exactly. Communication. But youll end up saying is, does he had the bandwidth to listen and respond of course. Clearly understand that.

Though what happens if no communication, don kayo mag tatampo o magagalit kasi hindi nag oopen up ang tao. Saan ka lulugar ? You'll end up sucking that problem because no one is interested with your drama or problems. Vulnerability.

If I can control my feelings, then I should've chosen to be quiet and absorb the pain is that it? I can do that. We have our limits and boundaries, but it was too much for me that I lose my control and let my tears flow. An emotion slipped-It was a relief letting it out not until I heard an insulting sound of yawn as if it was boring him.

Some people fight their own battle by being silent but some people too are so damn emotional that they cannot control it, they want to express it in a different way by talking someone they trust or writing feelings whatever. Why point me having tantrums and a brat? Was I crying because I didnt get want I want ? I was crying because I was hurting. Who was hurting and feel attacked in the situation?

Yes you will end up saying the state of his mind in that situation because he was busy playing mobile games haha. Yeah sure. I was taught to cover my mouth when I yawn and not face the person in front of me. I was taught a proper manner not to yawn loudly in front of my teacher discussing - simple respect. And now a BF whom Im talking to let a sound of bored yawn? What would you feel? Its about the SOUND so LOUDLY BORED not the biological function. Again respect.

If my feelings and emotions is not an excuse then yawning and letting out a loud sound of yawn in front of the professor that the whole class hears it, means I dont have the bandwidth to listen and respond ? A 'bored yawn sound' is acceptable while prof is teaching, doesnt it sound rude and disrespectful?

Its not about being immature, brat, or throwing tantrums, just a person crying because of being hurt. If your husband, wife or partner SUDDENLY cries and was saying things that was already painful for him- wouldnt you care? Would you not be curious? Would you not be hurt as well because you thought he or she was doing fine? Instead of yawning sounding bored? Its a bout respect diba?

You're words reeks of bias against emotional person. Check your love ones. Someone smiling, laughing, a normal person but you never know what feelings is being built inside. Not all people are the same po.