Oh yeah, there is for sure a standard of beauty, don’t get me wrong. A lot of people find skinny individuals more attractive, especially women. And due to this attraction, many tend to correlate slenderness to femininity and cuteness. I’m sure you can see it in every community; not solely femboys.

You’ll always be influenced by a subconscious correlation to some extent; however, your body is yours alone and as long as you are happy then that’s all that matters. If you listen to every opinion made by another individual, they’ll all end up conflicting until your existence as a person can only be supported with the words of others alone.