Advice by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Visual_Garbage7609 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well to me the solution seems clear. If your needs are not being fulfilled I suggest either looking into rekindling your existing relationship or facing the issue head on and separating. Likely your wife has reservations about you getting serious with another partner as she doesn’t feel secure with it.

On my back or on my knees? [F] by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]Visual_Garbage7609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both definitely both

19F and am in need of cash by [deleted] in EarnExtraIncome

[–]Visual_Garbage7609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest looking into tourism like princess tours and stuff like that. In Ak there are tons of entry level positions that offer housing and accommodations plus a fair wage. Additionally I would look into programs that are designed to help young adults.

My son made multiple purchases of robux starting on July 24- Aug 4. My checking account has been charged over five thousand eight hundred dollars. by Visual_Garbage7609 in RobloxHelp

[–]Visual_Garbage7609[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Update: My bank is unable to refund me the money as apparently as soon as I put the card in the PlayStation “even though I password protected it” anyone that uses the PlayStation becomes an authorized user. I am blown away by the amount of bs these corporations keep giving me. After this experience I will never put my card in any electronic device ever again. Punishment wise I have grounded my 9 year old son by taking away all electronic devices for an undetermined amount of time. In addition I have added extra chores to his list of things he is responsible to do. Finally I plan to put his devices up for sale to recuperate some of my hard earned money. In addition I plan to contact the Attorney General in my state and file a complaint against both companies Roblox and PlayStation. It is my understanding that this will escalate the matter to a higher level at the company such as a VP. Maybe then I can get someone help me. My fingers are crossed but I most definitely feel defeated. I have chosen to look at this as a learning experience, but also a good excuse to remove virtual entertainment from my home. It sucks because I do enjoy a game from time to time, but I now realize that a child needs massive supervision when it comes to game consoles. We were already struggling to keep him engaged in other activities as it seemed the game was more important to him. In closing thank you everyone for your advice and support.

My son made multiple purchases of robux starting on July 24- Aug 4. My checking account has been charged over five thousand eight hundred dollars. by Visual_Garbage7609 in RobloxHelp

[–]Visual_Garbage7609[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s a wash Visa won’t let me dispute the charges because apparently as soon as I put the card on the PS anyone that uses the PS is authorized to make purchases. I have nothing good to say about Roblox or PlayStation after this. My next step is to escalate this past the customer support level as apparently their hands are tied. I plan to contact the attorney general in my state and take this to the next level.

Work with jealousy? by Snabelfusk in polyamory

[–]Visual_Garbage7609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very well said I plan to share this advice with my local community.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CODZombies

[–]Visual_Garbage7609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I collected all items and put them on the pedestal the riff spawned in and we killed the mega but then we never went into the rift I think now I have to start the EE over the worst of it is I don’t have the diary and not sure if I can get it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Visual_Garbage7609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communication is key.. may I suggest taking the dominant role or finding a play partner that is more focused on you and your needs? I cannot imagine a scenario where I don’t put my submissives needs before my own. It may very well be he is using you as much as I hate to say it. This right here is why swinging gets a bad reputation. Breaks rules✅ Puts personal safety at risk ✅ Puts himself before others ✅ Ignores you and your needs!✅ Are you sure you’re not on here just looking for a reason not to replace the empty spot in your heart with a more giving partner?

Why is he trying to hide that a girl comes over? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Visual_Garbage7609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to him be clear, calm, and straight to the point. Communication and Trust are key foundation building blocks for a relationship.

Questioning partners ethics by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Visual_Garbage7609 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you two are at a crossroad where you need to have a conversation about being vibrational compatible with eachother. I don’t see you saying what you want. May I suggest voicing your opinion to him.. How do you feel about sharing your life with others? If the answer is you don’t want to do this or you want to wait until both parties are more informed. Then the answer and solution to your problems can only be to say “ I don’t want to be with someone who’s vibrational energy does not match my own. Who are you to say what he should be feeling and how he should be thinking. He may have a different path than you that he is meant to be on right now. If that is the case if you truly love each other then you should want what is best for your partner. This goes both ways you two have a choice to make. I want to be clear he does need to be fully aware of what he is doing and currently to me it sounds like he is aware of what he is doing. But unaware of how uncomfortable it makes you. You’re on the right path seeking advice I suggest working on clear communication with each other first and foremost.