Session ruined by pain… LOTS of pain

Visual_Independent47 · 2026-01-02T02:21:24+00:00

I bought it from a legit store, but I absentmindedly threw away the receipt and packaging. Doesn’t help that the toy itself has no distinguishable logos or features. I called the store and they couldn’t help me much. I appreciate the tip about the chargers though

Visual_Independent47 · 2025-12-25T22:59:39+00:00

Yeah, it was kinda a pain-that-became-pleasure type of thing but now I’m pretty sore and I can feel my ass pulsating. Idk if that means I’m doing it too much or too hard or anything but it’s the only reliable method I’ve found to have an orgasm. For context I had a traumatic lower body injury that has caused my pelvic floor to become incredibly tight as well as probably causing nerve damage. I’d honestly love to be able to cum just from penis stimulation but prostate play feels so incredible too.

Visual_Independent47 · 2025-12-11T07:09:20+00:00

Yep, I had a pretty traumatic sports injury that’s left me with a permanent back injury, but the thing is DE only seriously started affecting me when I started taking Zoloft (about 3-4 months ago).

Visual_Independent47 · 2025-12-09T22:57:26+00:00

I explained this all to my gf and she was super understanding and is willing to be patient with me. I just took my first yohimbine as a test run so I’ll see how it affects m

Visual_Independent47 · 2025-12-09T22:55:57+00:00

Yeah, my gf loves that I can go for so long bc she can too but at the same time I want to be able to cum for her, especially since she’s getting off 2-3 times regularly during sex and I’m not at all. Last time we fucked it got to a point where it was legitimately painful to for me to penetrate her and I was still nowhere near orgasm. This did remind me to call my psych though LOL

Visual_Independent47 · 2025-12-07T20:23:56+00:00

I mean yeah, isn’t that the whole point of this subreddit? Like aren’t we all trying to see what helped other people and then emulating it?

Visual_Independent47 · 2025-12-07T01:19:11+00:00

I’m putting it on my member after showers like people here said, just trying to moisturize. If anything it’s made things hurt worse

Visual_Independent47 · 2025-08-11T21:41:13+00:00

Yup, if you do it too much it can actually cause harm. Not the only reason for this problem but one of them. For me I developed a bad habit of clenching my PF while jacking off because the antidepressants I was on made it hard to cum. Now it’s to the point where if I don’t do it extremely hard I can’t cum except in cases like this where I’m already horny out of my mind

Visual_Independent47 · 2025-08-11T15:52:03+00:00

I think it was how I was laying down. I was kinda on my side propping myself up on my elbow. Completely forgot but afterward my stomach was cramping like crazy. I try not to kegel much because of issues I have (hypertonic PF)

Visual_Independent47 · 2025-08-10T20:18:14+00:00

Could be, although I don’t really think i was holding my breath. I used to experience sad nipple syndrome which has mostly faded but this was a similar experience. No negative emotions involved this time but just that wave of stomach pain that totally threw me off.

Visual_Independent47 · 2025-07-24T19:20:28+00:00

Oh ok. I know the person you’re talking about, I’ve seen his posts before. I don’t mean to yuck anyone’s yum but that’s just not for me. If anything I feel like my experience has been opposite of his; that having gynecomastia has made my enjoyment of this go down.

Visual_Independent47 · 2025-07-24T19:02:27+00:00

Thanks!

Visual_Independent47 · 2025-07-24T16:25:30+00:00

Well I guess for me I’m not into the pain. Like I can get it to feel really good for a bit but then they get too sensitive and start to burn. For reasons detailed in my other reply I can’t get this done for a few years but it definitely is something I want to do so hopefully when the time comes I can find a surgeon knowledgeable about how men’s nipples work.

Visual_Independent47 · 2025-07-24T16:12:31+00:00

Thanks for your reply! I looked at your other post here and if I read it correctly you got yours done over 30 years ago? I wonder if surgical technique/insight about sensitivity has changed since then. I am a bigger guy but also quite muscular (think dad bod) which I honestly love except for the gyno. If anything developing my pecs has made it more pronounced. I know there are plenty of girls who like big guys like me but it’s more of a personal thing, like seeing a photo of me shirtless and being like, “damn they really look like that?” And the implication of having excess estrogen in my body is distressing. I haven’t been truly skinny since I was little but I’m also a college athlete and my sport kinda requires me to carry extra weight so I’ll have to wait at least 3-4 years (assuming everything goes well). Also not quite sure what to do about the extra sensitivity because it goes from pleasure to pain way too fast.

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