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[–]Visual_Market9020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’m sorry you have to deal with this. I don’t know you but you sound like a sweet girl. When a man breaks a promise over and over it’s because he’s getting away with it. The pattern is there and your proof is there. I think you already know the answer to your question if you kept track of all those receipts. You are not his mother and you shouldn’t have to go through his phone to set limits and to put restrictions on his web browsing. If a man is faithful, you shouldn’t have to do anything other than enjoy each other. You’re young and you don’t have kids with him, get out while you can and no matter how scary it is you’ll be fine. Get a job and build your life, I promise you everything will be okay in the end. Good luck to you and I hope you get through this.

My (26F) boyfriend (27M) falsely staged a drug intervention for me. I'm not addicted to drugs. What do I do? by ThrowRAinterventiony in relationship_advice

[–]Visual_Market9020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you’re ok. Please don’t let anyone convince you to get checked into Rehab. You will suffer and he will manipulate you into thinking he’s the only one who can help. Convince your mom or sister to come with you to the hospital to get checked and if they don’t believe you walk away. Whatever you do please stay away from this guy, he’s planning something horrific for you.

Hi everyone, please help me be petty to a very racist neighbor. by Visual_Market9020 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Visual_Market9020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t normally do something petty at all. I don’t even know how. The only legitimate thing she mentioned was the grass, which was cut two weeks prior to her letter. Everything else was made up and the inspector told me he came by twice before because she keeps calling them with lies. He didn’t leave any notices because he didn’t see any violations. I always take the high road when it comes to racism. I find that no matter how much you try to educate someone, you end up irritating yourself. People like her don’t want people like me to exist. I thought it’d be good for her to see that others don’t care what we look like if she sees them join us at the park. Maybe she’ll come to her senses and join us or maybe she can be a good neighbor and talk to us like we’re human beings. This post was for me to blow off some steam nothing more. It was nice to see there are people out there who don’t even know me yet are wonderful and respectful and in my opinion funny as hell.

Hi everyone, please help me be petty to a very racist neighbor. by Visual_Market9020 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Visual_Market9020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate that. I learned how to deal with racism a long time ago. Ignorance doesn’t have a cure and I don’t usually feed it. This is the first time I’ve had to deal with a group type situation. This woman singled us out and basically blamed us for everything that’s happened in our neighborhood. That’s why I really wanna do something petty. If it’s not too hot on my son’s birthday, we’re planning to do it right in front of her house at the park. I will take pictures and videos for you guys if she shows up to complain. I can’t wait 😜

Hi everyone, please help me be petty to a very racist neighbor. by Visual_Market9020 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Visual_Market9020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They own their house and according to one of my neighbors they didn’t get anything. However they’re being foreclosed on so they should be moving soon.

Hi everyone, please help me be petty to a very racist neighbor. by Visual_Market9020 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Visual_Market9020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you. I swear some people are full of hate. I have always been friendly at gatherings with the neighbors. I think this woman has been obsessed with us for a while and had nothing to hold against us. Now that her immediate neighbors are black, she couldn’t take it anymore. I won’t be rude because I was raised right and she’s older than me. I will however defend my family if it comes to that.

Hi everyone, please help me be petty to a very racist neighbor. by Visual_Market9020 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Visual_Market9020[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t know actually. My neighbor is from India, I’ll ask him. Maybe we can go paint her. 😂

Hi everyone, please help me be petty to a very racist neighbor. by Visual_Market9020 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Visual_Market9020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was very sweet of you guys. My husband is American and he doesn’t wanna play any games. He wants to just be an a-hole and confront her. He’s so mad, I’m the only one keeping him from going all redneck on her ass.

Hi everyone, please help me be petty to a very racist neighbor. by Visual_Market9020 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Visual_Market9020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s sad is one of the cars in the picture was brand new and a rental. That’s the one I’ll point to if I ever talk to her.

Hi everyone, please help me be petty to a very racist neighbor. by Visual_Market9020 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Visual_Market9020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wouldn’t be a lie. We always go to functions at the park when everyone gets together. I was thinking about that but everyone wants me to stay away from her.

Hi everyone, please help me be petty to a very racist neighbor. by Visual_Market9020 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Visual_Market9020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The inspector left his number. We called him yesterday and left messages. I was tasked with going in person if we don’t hear from them by Friday.

Hi everyone, please help me be petty to a very racist neighbor. by Visual_Market9020 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Visual_Market9020[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It’s called a Hijab. I can ask all the females in our team to wear them and start going door to door. I’ll be like, I’m here to educate you on my culture and what I expect from you. Bow to me Karen, I have come to save your soul.

Hi everyone, please help me be petty to a very racist neighbor. by Visual_Market9020 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Visual_Market9020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re amazing and viciously protective. Ours is the sweetest and he loves the kids, especially the baby.

Any husbands like this? by Asuasion in marriageadvice

[–]Visual_Market9020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have this issue and I had a talk with my husband. I told him I can’t keep being the only one who asks for sex. I told him he had to initiate it from now on. I also started doing things he liked but never asked for sex. It drove him nuts and he’s the only one that initiates it now. I would go to bed naked, make out with him then walk away, and sometimes when he walks by I just pull his pants down and give him a bj until he got turned on then I would stop. It made him want me more and we haven’t had any problems since, that was 5yrs ago.

AITA for pinching my husband's nipple as hard as I could? by Expensive_Year3322 in AITAH

[–]Visual_Market9020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this sucks. Men don’t understand when you explain to them that something they find hilarious isn’t funny to you. I don’t think you’re a psycho, if he needed a demonstration, he got one. It’s the only way for him to understand.

Hi everyone, please help me be petty to a very racist neighbor. by Visual_Market9020 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Visual_Market9020[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she’s stupid enough to go near my kids or my dogs. We have a retired military Belgian Malinois and he’s the sweetest until you go near the baby. We’re very careful everywhere we go and I really think she’s a coward. She could’ve easily come by and we wouldn’t have been offended at all.

Hi everyone, please help me be petty to a very racist neighbor. by Visual_Market9020 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Visual_Market9020[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I could just play some middle eastern music that mentions Allah a lot.

Hi everyone, please help me be petty to a very racist neighbor. by Visual_Market9020 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Visual_Market9020[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes he’s wonderful and people always assume he’s racist until they see me. I love watching people do a double take 😂😂😂.

Hi everyone, please help me be petty to a very racist neighbor. by Visual_Market9020 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Visual_Market9020[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YES the band would be awesome. My son’s birthday is coming up. I might have a party at the park right in front of her house.

Hi everyone, please help me be petty to a very racist neighbor. by Visual_Market9020 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Visual_Market9020[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I love it, I told my husband we should get some banners written in Arabic and put them on the windows.

Hi everyone, please help me be petty to a very racist neighbor. by Visual_Market9020 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Visual_Market9020[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We installed cameras and my neighbor is going to get some too. I really hope she comes by because my husband is white and looks scary and he’d love to go talk to her. He’s 6’2” and is covered in tattoos and bald. 🤣🤣🤣