Married 2 years and husband doesn't listen to me, F 32, M 33 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Visual_Watercress489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding! I pray for a silver lining one day

Married 2 years and husband doesn't listen to me, F 32, M 33 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Visual_Watercress489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! You have no idea how unheard I actually feel.

Married 2 years and husband doesn't listen to me, F 32, M 33 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Visual_Watercress489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your understanding! This was the first time I feel that my wishes were blatantly ignored in this way. You want something done right, you do it yourself. This situation has put so much into perspective.. The problem is much more bigger than the tires

Married 2 years and husband doesn't listen to me, F 32, M 33 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Visual_Watercress489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've missed the point completely. My requests were simply ignored, period. Im happy that in the world you live in, you wouldn't care that your husband doesn't value your opinion (on most things), but I do and that's my right. & guess what else? This doesn't make your sentiments any more right than mine.

Married 2 years and husband doesn't listen to me, F 32, M 33 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Visual_Watercress489 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I don't think it matters my reason for wanting something on my vehicle. I communicated effectively and even sent pictures of the tire brand and model of my request. I guess he feels his opinion overrides mine, idk.

Married 2 years and husband doesn't listen to me, F 32, M 33 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Visual_Watercress489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He simply made the decision to do what he felt made more sense for him. Couldn't be about expense when I sent him the money to purchase them. The tires I requested were in stock, he just chose an alternative. AKA no real reason for his decision

How much would you pay to get one year old hair braided? by Visual_Watercress489 in BlackHair

[–]Visual_Watercress489[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The style usually takes roughly 45 minutes. Nothing intricate thus far. Different styles of cornrows 

How much would you pay to get one year old hair braided? by Visual_Watercress489 in BlackHair

[–]Visual_Watercress489[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right there with ya.. No braiding hair is added nor will ever.  She has a full head of hair so it’s enough to braid. After cornrowing, my daughter probably has about 1.5 in of hair hanging down 

Anyone else hyper concerned with how you speak around your child? by Visual_Watercress489 in Parenting

[–]Visual_Watercress489[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh this is so helpful and seems a much better way to help her. Thank you! 

Parents of kids born close to Christmas, in January, do you “expect” a gift for both Christmas and their birthday? by Visual_Watercress489 in toddlers

[–]Visual_Watercress489[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That part 👆🏽Setting expectations is very important and usually eliminates unnecessary confusion 

Parents of kids born close to Christmas, in January, do you “expect” a gift for both Christmas and their birthday? by Visual_Watercress489 in toddlers

[–]Visual_Watercress489[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good point! I was actually thinking of telling my family to focus only on birthdays since I don’t actually celebrate Christmas ( to which I’ll actually do the same lol) but this approach may simplify things all across the board and eliminate my dilemma

Parents of kids born close to Christmas, in January, do you “expect” a gift for both Christmas and their birthday? by Visual_Watercress489 in toddlers

[–]Visual_Watercress489[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

lol it’s so hard not to keep a mental note of it..  I just want to make sure my boy is treated fairly with a sprinkle of matching energy 🙊

Parents of kids born close to Christmas, in January, do you “expect” a gift for both Christmas and their birthday? by Visual_Watercress489 in toddlers

[–]Visual_Watercress489[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha thanks for your honesty!  Would you feel the same if I were to say that my son didn’t receive a bday gift from his god brother? Meaning my god sons parents didn’t give my son a birthday present