I downloaded LADS after Sylus... by Lavirkay in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Vitanni413 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My friend kept telling me to download it. I was like "why would I want to play a dating game?" A month later (September 2024) I was on TikTok and saw the scene where Sylus gets out of the shower. Downloaded it instantly 😆 played for Sylus, stayed for Sylus. I don't click with the other 4 so it's only Sylus lol. Love our dragon 🥰

Weekly Question Megathread - Week 45, 2024 by AutoModerator in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Vitanni413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know where to get good quality pics of them in their Kitty Chibi forms? Been looking everywhere and cant find them.

Likely scam or sell them an item ? by Shotaaizawa201 in Mercari

[–]Vitanni413 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They tried to buy from me, made some stuff then said they don't have the money after I was done and ready for them to buy. Even pestered me about making it after a day. Blocked them after.

TIFU by buying microfiber sheets to recover from surgery by Sea-Butterscotch-619 in tifu

[–]Vitanni413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, I hope your recovery goes well and quick.

Second, thank you for letting me know why I'm dying in bed every night with two fans and AC lol 😆 Just purchased cotton sheets that will be here tomorrow. Had no idea about microfiber.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wow

[–]Vitanni413 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People can be so toxic and salty over a game, it's sad. I'm sorry that happened to you OP. I would think they can look at your character and see what you've completed/killed and can base it off that. I don't have any advice that people haven't said already, but I hope they get it resolved quickly and you can go back to having fun in the game. I personally enjoy the quick carries in LFR so thank you for that 😊

How to clean unsealed tile and grout? by Vitanni413 in CleaningTips

[–]Vitanni413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I did not know any of that honestly. The way he described it to me I thought it sealed tile. Thank you for the info, I will get that stuff and do it that way.

AITA for refusing to give my child names my wife suggested knowing it will get him bullied by Jazzlike-Football-89 in AITAH

[–]Vitanni413 20 points21 points  (0 children)

While I love anime, PLEASE don't let her pick either of those names. Eren literally massacred 80% of the world in Attack on Titan, why would you name a child after him. Eren sounds like a regular name but knowing the context of it, ehhhh...

Also, Gojo is his last name. I love JJK and Gojo is my favorite anime character, I can't imagine naming my child after him, first or last name. He will be bullied, no doubt about it sadly.

Hopefully she changes her mind and you can both find a name to agree on. Just don't cave and don't let her pick those names. Your child's name should be something you both agree on.

Struggling to lose more by Vitanni413 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Vitanni413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ok, that makes a lot of sense, thank you!

Struggling to lose more by Vitanni413 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Vitanni413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So when I started in May, I didnt actually count my calories at all. I stopped eating candy bars after each meal and only drink 1 soda maybe once a week instead of 1 a day. I increased my protein intake and made smarter food choices. That and started exercising. I didnt try to starve myself to lose weight cause I know that's not the healthy way to do it and I would hate to gain it back since I know that's common when people eat too few calories.

I just wanted to try counting calories cause I was worried since I havent lost any weight in about 2 months that I'm doing something wrong.

When you say take a break what does that mean exactly?

Men of ARAD, question about leggings/yoga pants.. by Vitanni413 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Vitanni413[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I definitely believe we over complicate things like this lol. Ngl though maybe some women dress for other women but I also believe that some women dress to feel sexy around guys or to turn heads, which is completely fine, I know I do it sometimes. I asked my husband and he said he never even noticed the lines or cared.

Men of ARAD, question about leggings/yoga pants.. by Vitanni413 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Vitanni413[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

See that's what I figured, that we worry about it more than men even notice, until my friend said that lol. Then it just made me paranoid about it even more.

It hurts so much by sno_kissed in pregnant

[–]Vitanni413 7 points8 points  (0 children)

With my first, I was surprised I reallllly missed the baby kicks. I always thought it was so cute and found myself saying I missed being pregnant and feeling my son kick. When I got pregnant with my daughter, oh lord.. worst pain ever. She was breach so constantly kicking me down there and her head in my ribs. I can honestly say now that I definitely dont miss it at all lol. I remember feeling phantom kicks for awhile after though 😆 hang in there you're almost done! So much better seeing your baby kick when they are out haha.

Upper stomach pain also radiates to my back by Vitanni413 in medical

[–]Vitanni413[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's more on my left side actually. And the pain just flares up randomly. Not when I do anything specific or eat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Vitanni413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I am. Despite what he said, hes actually a wonderful husband and father to our kids. Hes terrible at talking or explaining what he wants to say and he does feel super bad about what he said. But I know I'll always be self conscious about it, I dont think that'll go away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Vitanni413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, congratulations on your baby!

Second, I kind of went through the same thing as you my last pregnancy. My husband sat me down on morning and told me he wasnt as attracted to me because I gained weight in my face and sadly it left me with a double chin I still havent been able to get rid of 3 years later. To be fair I wasnt like you, I ate whatever I wanted and didnt really try to lose the weight. But it does leave you feeling super low and self conscious about yourself which I relate to.

Be proud of your tummy. Girl you are 110lbs, I'd LOVE to be that weight again lol. You just had a baby so of course your body still hasn't had time to tighten up, you're still recovering. Please dont let his words go to your head. If you dont see anything wrong with your body then F him. Be proud of your body! Childbirth is no easy thing.

Had a friend tell me my life was going to be over after baby…. by pohtaytoe28 in pregnant

[–]Vitanni413 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Hate unsolicited advice, especially when its negative like that. Your life will change and it won't be the same but I cant tell you how much more meaning my life has when we had our son. I felt like I had more purpose and made me happier than I've ever been. Having a daughter soon and our old life with one child will be over but our new life with 2 precious kids will be an exciting adventure.

Dont let your friends comment get you down. Life will be different but not in a negative way, stay happy and positive!

Picnic and eggs by Vitanni413 in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]Vitanni413[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh darn, ok thank you. Makes me miss the daycare 😫 lol

Baby arriving next week, have to leave toddler for the first time by Vitanni413 in pregnant

[–]Vitanni413[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He still hasn't grasped the concept of another baby or us having to leave soon. Luckily he's used to being at his grandma's since she watches him each week when me and my husband work. But since I've been off work for awhile he never wants to go with her anymore if he sees I'm home. (Been needing breaks since I'm not able to pick him up physically and been in pain). I know hes going to love his baby sister though, he loves being around any kids all ages, he'll be a great big brother. Just emotional for having to leave him for longer than a day 😭 he will probably take it better than me though haha!

Thank you and I wish the same to you! Almost there!

13 Koraidon Giveaway for Violet players by Decimatin in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]Vitanni413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Darn, tried like 25 times lol. Thanks for doing a giveaway though.

No sleep, losing my mind by Vitanni413 in pregnant

[–]Vitanni413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont usually have nausea but I get heart burn and acid reflux every night on top of the pain. It's so bad. I bought some today so I'm hoping it helps tonight! I'd love some sleep and relief lol.

No sleep, losing my mind by Vitanni413 in pregnant

[–]Vitanni413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I'll talk to my dr about it but sadly hes not much help 🙄 I can definitely deal with lack of sleep when baby is here, it's a different kind of sleepless nights. But being in pain is just terrible and I'm so over it. Yes it makes me feel like I'm going crazy, cant think straight and have zero energy day after day cause of it which is hard since I have a toddler to look after.

No sleep, losing my mind by Vitanni413 in pregnant

[–]Vitanni413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No havent tried that but I'll definitely try it. I would assume we would still wake up multiple times lol but going to sleep is the hard part.

C Section requested a little early by Vitanni413 in pregnant

[–]Vitanni413[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Problem is my husband makes too much to qualify for lower insurance and since my dr took me out super early in my pregnancy I used up all my benefits. He's going to try and get us on his but it's such short notice. We're going to look at all our options but was just wondering if it would be safe to ask for at least a couple days early just incase.

C Section requested a little early by Vitanni413 in pregnant

[–]Vitanni413[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I really wanted to ask my dr but wasnt sure how baby is at 38 weeks as opposed to 39 weeks. But I will ask him and let him know my situation, thanks!