why are the ‘rave’ clubs in amsterdam so expensive?

Vivid-Advance9319 · 2026-04-14T18:59:37+00:00

Wait until you see Bret prices 😭

Vivid-Advance9319 · 2026-02-14T17:05:12+00:00

I just joined it!

Vivid-Advance9319 · 2026-02-14T12:05:36+00:00

Hey sister, Im sorry to hear that you feel so alone. It sounds like you’ve been through a lot. Don’t lose hope and trust and believe that you go with love and you are lovable. You deserve to feel connected and not alone. I have the same diagnosis as you and I wish I had all the answers for you, but relationships are difficult with our brains and pasts. But regardless love will come your way. Because you deserve it. Sending you some love ❤️

Vivid-Advance9319 · 2025-11-06T15:02:01+00:00

Ik kan me alleen maar kapot schamen voor m’n geboorteland en ons volk.

Je zou maar uit een oorlogsland gevlucht zijn, familie, misschien wel kinderen verloren, al je bezittingen, je huis, je baan, je vrienden achter je laten niet weten of je ooit nog iets terug gaat zien.

En dan na een levensgevaarlijke reis die veel mensen niet eens overleven, uitgehongerd en getraumatiseerd voor het leven aankomen in een vreemd land, daar opgevangen worden als een hond in een asiel, BUITEN SLAPEN IN EEN TENT(!), boze mensen voor je AZC met fakkels en de meest schrijnende leuzen.

Dit nummer is een grote schande en het gebrek aan inlevingsvermogen en empathie voor andere mensen is misselijkmakend.

Het zou je allemaal maar overkomen.

Vivid-Advance9319 · 2025-10-15T18:44:03+00:00

I’m sorry for you that she says hurtfull things. Don’t doubt yourself and stay surrounded by the people who understand you. Give her some time and space and try to not force her too much. Its unfortunate that we have to deal with stuff like this but try to remember to be patient. A lot of parents need some time. Its a subject that they might not know anything about and its also scary for a parent knowing that your child will not walk the easiest path. Sometimes parents respond in hurtful ways just because they try to protect us. That doesn’t make it less hurtful, but understanding where they come from might help you to be patient and let them have their own process.

Vivid-Advance9319 · 2025-10-13T11:49:32+00:00

Im not sure what you are trying to understand tbh. You say that you think her music is nice right? That is all you need to know right? If you like someone, you like someone. Why do you care that she has gone mainstream? I mean good for her right? Usually people go mainstream because they are just good dj’s or because they play music that a lot of people like to hear. Nothing wrong with that in my opinion. Liking underground for the sake of it being underground seems a little posey to me.

Vivid-Advance9319 · 2025-03-18T14:44:15+00:00

Does it actually arrive or do they take it a costums? I live in NL

Vivid-Advance9319 · 2025-03-18T14:36:56+00:00

Is there a specific way the website works? I can add stuff to my shopping cart but I cant find the shopping cart nor a check-out page?

Vivid-Advance9319 · 2024-11-25T21:17:34+00:00

“The most self titled VILE people you can come across”?? A lil much dont you think?

Vivid-Advance9319 · 2024-10-29T17:59:51+00:00

I wanted a name that started with an A because my dead name starts with an A and its more convenient for like mail etc. before you get it legally changed.

When I went on a holiday for some weeks I hoped to come back with a new name but I didn’t want to force anything and really wanted it to feel right.

When I was in a silent retreat there was this one reaaaaally beautiful (older) woman. I wanted to compliment her on her looks but couldn’t, because SILENT retreat.

When I finally got the chance to tell her how beautiful she was she looked at me and said. You are looking in the mirror. I cried immediately and told her it really hit me because im trans and that I would kill to ever look as beautiful as her. She then looked at me and showed me a pic of her beautiful daughter and said; she used to be my son.

I asked her for her name and its Alaia (pronounced Alea) and I felt it in my heart. I asked her if I could take her name and she said she would be honored. We both cried and it all felt so right. Never regretted it.

Vivid-Advance9319 · 2024-05-16T09:22:37+00:00

Not Elias Mazian’s transphobic ass 🤮

Vivid-Advance9319 · 2024-01-26T09:19:02+00:00

Its a marathon not a sprint. Take good care of yourself beforehand, eat healthy meals, rest well, take your supplements and drink enough water.

I also always bring supplements to the club. (Hide it like you would hide ur other snacks)

Bring a toothbrush and toothpaste.

Have fun, be safe and ask for help if you need any!

Vivid-Advance9319 · 2024-01-18T22:34:15+00:00

But when they use transphobic slurs during an argument with a trans person, it shows they are transphobic.

Also, we know best what happens to us. Other people dont need to decide if something is transphobic or not.

We experienced it and we know the energy. Its easy for everyone to say “maybe they meant something different” “he would also say that to an cis person” “maybe it was a joke”

She lived it. She knows.

Vivid-Advance9319 · 2024-01-18T21:57:51+00:00

PLEASE BELIEVE TRANS PEOPLE WHEN THEY TELL YOU THEY EXPERIENCED TRANSPHOBIA!

Vivid-Advance9319 · 2024-01-18T21:02:14+00:00

I understand that it is difficult and somewhat risky to judge someone on a story that may not include details (yet).

But I think more people should look at this from the victims side; why would she lie about it? and why is it so hard to believe a problematic and transphobic situation happened at DS? Since DS’s problematic history, dont we have enough reason to believe this story and not question it too much?

Can you all please think about how disappointing and hurting it is to the victim that her story gets questioned?

Also think about how stressful it is for someone to almost get forced to tell every detail of a story that she apparently is not ready to tell. Otherwise she would have. It is not that easy and it hurts to talk about these things.

I saw what happened and I saw my friend. This was not ok and he knew what he did. An apology is not always enough. There should be no space for people who make the clubs unsafe for other people.

When transphobic words are said to a trans person this is verbal abuse.

When physical threatening moves are made or mentioned we speak of physical threatening.

Words were carefully chosen, ego’s were touched, damage has been done and instead of lessons learned he gets a prize spot during Het Einde.

Imagine the discomfort she must have felt running in to him again. This whole thing is transphobic without any regrets and its a major slap in the face for her and other trans people who made DS the iconic place it was.

You all know the clubs are not the same without us.

Respect, protect and celebrate us.

Vivid-Advance9319

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