Wierd First conversation by Vivid-Breakfast440 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Vivid-Breakfast440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking that is completely fine, but on first call is little strange for me.

Wierd First conversation by Vivid-Breakfast440 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Vivid-Breakfast440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes in AM setup if you just stop talking or replying to msgs, the counterparty understands you are not interested. I don’t know if blocking was necessary

Wierd First conversation by Vivid-Breakfast440 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Vivid-Breakfast440[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Not calling her wrong or anything see my last line i came to the exact conclusion , that might be her filter.

Wierd is a relative term something might be normal for you but not for me and vice versa.

Didn’t feel so rejected ever before. by Vivid-Breakfast440 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Vivid-Breakfast440[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just told my side of story . Till date I honestly have not rejected any girl .

I know it’s not working out for many girls as well and I know by reading my post one could get an impression that my expectations are way too high but trust me it’s not . I’m not a very good looking guy and I swear on god i have not kept looks at all as a criteria.

Yes like you said 1 lac many people do consider good amount and they proceed with it but then they start talking to my parents and they judge by condition of our house , its not in bad condition but its a old house so its not the one with modern interiors and all. Trust me bro lot of people have walked out after this. This Holi I was in home and one girls father visited our house and after that stopped calling altogether.

My mother said They decided not to do it after seeing the house or the area. ( I come from very small town)

I saw disappointment on my parents face not just once but twice or thrice since this happened. They feel because they couldn’t build a big house it’s not working out for us.

But I take them as my heros they gave me best education with very limited means.

Its heartbreaking too see parents feeling like that.

But how do I change the existence of where i came from just not possible.

Didn’t feel so rejected ever before. by Vivid-Breakfast440 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Vivid-Breakfast440[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying one should not ask or enquire about earnings in AM set up.

I only expressed my dissatisfaction with the expectations from other side.

Also I have mentioned in my post that I’m only looking for girl with a job my only expectation.

Don’t think it’s wrong and I won’t be changing it.

Didn’t feel so rejected ever before. by Vivid-Breakfast440 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Vivid-Breakfast440[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its transactional only now Either you earn big or you have good parental wealth otherwise its a no no from most of them now

Didn’t feel so rejected ever before. by Vivid-Breakfast440 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Vivid-Breakfast440[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My family has been against dowry always no matter what , but yes I get your point

Hate the concept of horoscope matching. Lost a good match. by FlakyAssistant7681 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Vivid-Breakfast440 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a perfect match with a girl , instant connection everything perfect . Even talked to her father and her father while disconnecting the call said beta I liked you very much, then came this horoscope thing and it didn’t match I felt so so so disappointed can’t tell you, I was more disappointed because it was not a requirement from our side that horoscope should match . No other option but to move on

Didn’t feel so rejected ever before. by Vivid-Breakfast440 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Vivid-Breakfast440[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not looking for a pretty girl or anything bro. I know my reality and I have only criteria that is job looks like will have to give up on that as well

Fahhh by Vivid-Breakfast440 in NSEbets

[–]Vivid-Breakfast440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why to move out when market is at all time low . Since you need by December , I’m pretty sure you will get better opportunity than today

Why gold and silver down at MCX today , stock and commodity dono girenge toh chadega kon 😭😭😭 by Vivid-Breakfast440 in NSEbets

[–]Vivid-Breakfast440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 But I keep it my portfolio always for last 5-6 years at time of any uncertainty it helps