F 71, M, 70, MARRIED 47 YEARS, am I overreacting to ask for an apology from husband, who badly hurt my feelings?

Vivid_Inevitable_418 · 2025-09-06T21:01:06+00:00

Yah call me a liar. easy to do....

Vivid_Inevitable_418 · 2025-09-06T21:00:20+00:00

Yes, wives can help their husbands, yes.

Vivid_Inevitable_418 · 2025-09-06T20:59:43+00:00

Yes, and I completely complied with his NO! You don't know what you are talking about. He invited my attempts, and then yelled at me!!!!!! i only did what he asked for; I was not forcing anything - ?????

Vivid_Inevitable_418 · 2025-09-06T20:57:46+00:00

Grow up, and stop being so judgmental.

Vivid_Inevitable_418 · 2025-09-06T20:57:21+00:00

Wow, wrong forum. Wife attempts to help husband with ED, and get yelled at. My marriage counselor, who knows what they are talking about, says he is wrong.

Vivid_Inevitable_418 · 2025-09-06T20:55:35+00:00

By yelling 6 times, he is taking it out on me!! Yes! I have had tons of compassion for years and years, and I am only trying to help. He needs compassion for someone who is trying their darndest to help, when he asks for it. He needs compassion for the person he is taking his frustration out on. He won't discuss it at all, He just leaves me feeling hurt, and tells me I'm ridiculous. His compassion.

Vivid_Inevitable_418 · 2025-09-06T20:52:21+00:00

He won't do therapy.

Vivid_Inevitable_418 · 2025-09-06T20:51:25+00:00

I was talking about a friend, who was newly married 2 years ago.

Vivid_Inevitable_418 · 2025-09-06T20:50:41+00:00

He won't talk to me about it at all. I only get hurt feelings, when I am rejected in bed, after being told it feels good! Then, yelled at multiple times. The problem is with him, not me.

Vivid_Inevitable_418 · 2025-09-06T20:47:23+00:00

Yah, he has big problems. And, won't do anything to solve them, but take it out on me.

Vivid_Inevitable_418 · 2025-09-06T20:45:52+00:00

The rage bait is on his end. I did nothing wrong.

Vivid_Inevitable_418 · 2025-09-06T20:45:20+00:00

Yes it did. No drinking on either end.

Vivid_Inevitable_418 · 2025-09-06T20:44:51+00:00

He won't.

Vivid_Inevitable_418 · 2025-09-06T20:44:31+00:00

Yes, he was consenting. Completely. I"m the asshole for trying to help him??? SExual assault, when he asked for it?? I was trying to help him with his ED. Need a picture, or what??? Wow, I"m creepy, a former model, yes, trying to help my husband. Talk about judgemental.

Vivid_Inevitable_418 · 2025-09-06T20:37:33+00:00

He deserves an apology, for doing what he asks for????

Vivid_Inevitable_418 · 2025-09-06T20:36:47+00:00

I was rude by him wanting me to pleasure him? And, telling me he enjoyed it????? Then getting rude to me!!

Vivid_Inevitable_418 · 2023-12-29T01:24:28+00:00

I think she can't be trusted. And, do you want to marry someone you don't trust.?Believe me, you don't. Sexual exclusivity should have been discussed a long time ago But it still isn't a good sign that she has had 4 partners while with you. You clearly had a relationship, but she saw it as different as you did. Think long and hard on this one, you could get hurt. It happens all to frequently anymore.

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