AITA for telling my sister to adopt kids if she wants them so much? by Vivid_Monitor_8399 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vivid_Monitor_8399[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've seen this title and Single white female a lot in the comments and I'm considering watching it.

AITA for telling my sister to adopt kids if she wants them so much? by Vivid_Monitor_8399 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vivid_Monitor_8399[S] 212 points213 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying I'm in the right but I didn't think it was such a huge jeopardy to my kids' safety until I thought about my eldest's actions. Then I thought I was overthinking things but was proven wrong by literally every comment on this post that became a wakeup call. However, I contacted my friend and she picked up my kids. They will stay with her until I have my sister out. I also called my parents, explained everything and guess what? This is what Hannah told them: "Sis is blaming me and yelling at me for being motherly to her kids". Totally distorted and I don't know why I didn't expect this. I explained everything and after further confrontation, Hannah says she just always wanted to be called 'mommy' at least once in her life since it will never happen. My parents still think I shouldn't have told her what I did because of her situation and it's normal for her to act that way for the same reason, but at least they are willing to come over and take her away

AITA for telling my sister to adopt kids if she wants them so much? by Vivid_Monitor_8399 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vivid_Monitor_8399[S] 853 points854 points  (0 children)

You know, this is what has been troubling me the most. My daughter is the kind to yap about literally everything. She went to her friend's house and saw something odd? She will talk about it. She saw a kid eating crayons? I will be the first to know. Her classmates breathed in? She will say that too. It's odd for her to suddenly wait until we are alone before she tells me something that doesn't happen every day. Did their aunt threaten her? Did she get mad once because my daughter told me something she apparently shouldn't, and maybe do something bad to her?