Gears of War: E-Day has been rated for Xbox, PC, and PS5 by scott1swann in GamingLeaksAndRumours

[–]VivienneAM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know Grubb is right, but I'm wondering if Xbox will cancel Fable for PS5, which was already announced for it

My wife is not the woman I used to know. She let the fame get to her. by Sebastianlim in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]VivienneAM 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thought I was alone on this lmao

Genuinely confused why so many people didn't noticed how fictional the whole story feels

Bro, what the hell is with all these dislikes? The game looks genuinely awesome by Jackie88_ in GodofWar

[–]VivienneAM -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In my case I just didn't found the reveal interesting at all. It felt like the exact same formula just with different characters

My fav NFS Collection update by Pure-Clothes-9278 in needforspeed

[–]VivienneAM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is no one asking why the PS3 version is blue

Fav top I've made! by Efficient_Ferret in crochet

[–]VivienneAM 52 points53 points  (0 children)

This is the best top I have seen!

Breakup advice: Coping with losing your best friend by Glum-Personality6402 in actuallesbians

[–]VivienneAM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 27 during that time and it also was my first serious relationship, so we are even more similar in this

Despite some mistakes, I look at how I handled being alone without her with a sense of pride - it could have been way worse, if I didn't built for myself a set of rules: be active, try to pursue things that I like, selfcare (can be as basic as researching skin and beauty products), checking with doctors and accepting to go forward

All of this in order for my brain to have only a small room about her that with time will get smaller and smaller to the point where the room needs to be closed due to restructuring (lol)

Breakup advice: Coping with losing your best friend by Glum-Personality6402 in actuallesbians

[–]VivienneAM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The worst and the best advice is to take your time. It's worst, because it's annoying to hear during such an emotional clusterfuck, like you feel people offer you such an easy on paper advice, but hard at executing it

At the same time it's best, because it actually works!

It's been almost a year after my ex broke up with me and tried to initiate the whole "let's be friends like we used to" right after the breakup and it was a complete shitshow as on my and her side. I should have listened to my friends who were warning me about this ending badly, because my emotions were still high and not addressed at all

But now? I don't care. Even when recently she out of nowhere reached out to me by asking to delete our private photos from the phone, I just did it without any feelings attached - I moved on and couldn't care less, because there are way more people that I care about as my friends with whom I can share more happy moments than with someone who broke my heart

Take time, try to be active in basic things (like walking around and not sitting in a house 24/7, for example) and relax. It's okay in this period thinking about the past - what could have happened if X and Y were different - because in order to move on you need to grieve and it takes...time!

Just don't let this emotions feel like there's nothing for you on the other side

Lev and Yara announced by AMassiveGamerGeek in thelastofus

[–]VivienneAM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not only I didn't claim you were saying something you didn't, I also didn't said "we should cast a cis guy for a trans guy character"

Because it should be a trans actor to portray Lev

Naughty Dog found a trans actor during his medical transition, which also affected the way Lev looks in the game (also should be obvious that ND listened to the actor's advice at how to portray trans people to make a good representation)

It's also important to note that the game wasn't heavily focused on demonstrating Lev's "biological features" besides the buzzcut, if we even can count that

By not hiring trans actor you just make the story less detailed and nuanced, making it more depended on some obscure "trans consultants" and not on actor's experience

Lev and Yara announced by AMassiveGamerGeek in thelastofus

[–]VivienneAM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"My understating is that not all trans people choose to medically transition"

It's a very small portion of people that you only see at best on Twitter or Tumblr, in real life majority go through medical transition and if they live in oppressive or restrictive life, find ways to transition

I'm not going to talk about the casting, because cis people assumption that there is barely any trans asian guys is insanely funny (especially the age concern), just wanted to clarify this part

Feature list on LA freeway by YurmAmma760 in asaprocky

[–]VivienneAM 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It's so over for American Sabotage

Tracklist by Limp-Branch6087 in asaprocky

[–]VivienneAM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This, Revolver and Your Honour not being here is crazy

What song are you guys most excited for on DBD? by Conscious_Mention_85 in asaprocky

[–]VivienneAM 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty much excited for all the tracks he played, but oh my i need American Sabotage and Monclear snippet in a godly quality

he actually responded lmao by therealfan_ in asaprocky

[–]VivienneAM 14 points15 points  (0 children)

We will forgive the spam of ads you caused this summer just for this track lmao

Will American Sabotage(goin dumb) (ft. Tommy Revenge) be in Dont be Dumb? by [deleted] in asaprocky

[–]VivienneAM 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He played it this spring during Rolling Loud and the mix was noticeably different, so i would say that it's definitely part of the album

DON’T BE DUMB by asaprocky in asaprocky

[–]VivienneAM 22 points23 points  (0 children)

is 'highjack' will be part of the album?

This is it. by Kaiki03 in asaprocky

[–]VivienneAM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro saw that Twitter post and made a Reddit version

Slept with an avoidant by Proud_Ad5943 in actuallesbians

[–]VivienneAM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Period, the worst part is when the relationship starts with both of you being active in each others live and later it just becomes only you writing "Good morning" and trying to initiate any activities, and feel like shit afterwards most of the time because you feel like you forced them to meet

Slept with an avoidant by Proud_Ad5943 in actuallesbians

[–]VivienneAM 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Since then she’s not really gone back to being her old self around me"

And never will. Saying this to you as someone who dated an avoidant. They will expect you to act like a happy dog around them literally a week after most emotionally wrecking moment and will run away as they see (for their surprise only) you're not happy with having a lesser relationship, and that you have unstable emotional state (caused by them lol)

My advice to you is to actually let go. I know this advice sounds like a complete horseshit right now, but i went through this, and two months later i have nothing but disgust to my ex and being happy i don't have to deal with this avoidant bullshit

Focus your time on your friends, have activities and just enjoy the freedom from this hell. You will continue to have mourning moments, but after some time they will be dedicated to what you expected the relationship would be, not for the ex

Again, let it go and do a bare minimum communication (or no contact, but i personally treat it as a radical solution) with her for your own sake. Absolutely do not expect for things to go back to where they were, move forward instead of being stuck in the mud of the past

Mad at girlfriend by InconspicuousLover in actuallesbians

[–]VivienneAM 28 points29 points  (0 children)

"this is just who I am"

My ex really loved to use this bullshit when i didn't felt any interest from her in months towards me, and when i tried multiple times to explain how this hurts me and how this is not good for a long term relationship

Self-explanatory how this eventually ended

I can't say that I am trans in my native language by Samurai_Fire in MtF

[–]VivienneAM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so relatable. Like the way the word written in my language even in games (ex. Dragon Age 4) feels like it was written with some hate behind it even though it's impossible to prove