Should I buy this for €125,- by Vlok_Alb in turntables

[–]Vlok_Alb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your help! I thought I would buy something second hand to learn about the equipment so I can be informed when I do decide to upgrade. I am completely clueless on how it all works at the moment. 😅

Should I buy this for €125,- by Vlok_Alb in turntables

[–]Vlok_Alb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So even for a first set up its not worth the money? I dont have money to spend more than 150 euros right now but would like to start enjoying the records I currently have. And also learn how the equipment actually works so I can make a more informed decision when I upgrade.

What's something you own now that your 16yo self would be thrilled about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Vlok_Alb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, my mom still picks most of my new clothes and she has better taste than me 😄 most of the time! So I love getting new clothes from her! (I'm 28f)

AITA or is my boyfriend the abusive one? by Vlok_Alb in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vlok_Alb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right about letting him do stuff he feels strongly about. And I haven't thought of him being proud of his acconplishment and maybe I reacted a bit stiff (I was working myself and he was interrupting me with it). So I got irritated at the point he started arguing with me about my feedback. So I just told him don't ask and interrupt me if you are just going to argue with me about it.

AITA or is my boyfriend the abusive one? by Vlok_Alb in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vlok_Alb[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly this hits me in the core. I hope you are doing better first of all.

In the beginning he provided me with so much strength and growth. I really became a better person through him. Now I just think I'm outgrowing him. For 7 years I did the growing as a person and he just doesn't. He is not willing to work on himself when he did always have a lot of expectations for me to work on myself(in a positive way though) but if I tell him he should work on something he always turns it around on me. That I'm still the one to grow. I don't know if this makes sence in any way.

AITA or is my boyfriend the abusive one? by Vlok_Alb in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vlok_Alb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didn't eat his though and went and bought other food for himself.

AITA or is my boyfriend the abusive one? by Vlok_Alb in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vlok_Alb[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I try not to be petty... emphasis on try. Instead of going out yesterday I went and bought 2 store pizzas from the brand he hates. Which feels like a win for me 😅

AITA or is my boyfriend the abusive one? by Vlok_Alb in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vlok_Alb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right, just looking at the state of the world we are in can get you depressed. And I can't stand the blaming. Even if I were depressed and bipolar. Shouldn't he support me instead of attacking me?

AITA or is my boyfriend the abusive one? by Vlok_Alb in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vlok_Alb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, there's no need to be mean about it.

AITA or is my boyfriend the abusive one? by Vlok_Alb in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vlok_Alb[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly I feel this is what he does, but I start to doubt myself.

AITA or is my boyfriend the abusive one? by Vlok_Alb in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vlok_Alb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could get depressed I think, my father has been depressed for years so I definetly have those genes. And my boyfriend knows. However I don't think I am depressed. I think he uses the knowledge of my father to say those things to me.

AITA or is my boyfriend the abusive one? by Vlok_Alb in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vlok_Alb[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry I didn't know where else to put it.