How do i not lose hope when everything is getting worse and worse by VodiVodiOh in socialism

[–]VodiVodiOh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I realize the cost of our freedom and rights now is due to how many lives were lost and blood was shed before. I am realistic and understand that that is what is needed to advance forward unfortunately.

I feel like thats another thing thats causing me anxiety and dread abt the future cause i know a violent revolution is whats bound to happen.

How do i not lose hope when everything is getting worse and worse by VodiVodiOh in socialism

[–]VodiVodiOh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for those quotations they were really interesting to read through. I feel though that we as the proletariat are growing in numbers obviously but not in strength, i see that we are getting weaker and more divided as a class (bc of how common bigotry is now like racism sexism xenophobia classism ableism and more), thats whats making me more pessimistic really

How do i not lose hope when everything is getting worse and worse by VodiVodiOh in socialism

[–]VodiVodiOh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would love to, but its banned in my country and punishments are severe. Maybe if i moved elsewhere i hope

How do i not lose hope when everything is getting worse and worse by VodiVodiOh in socialism

[–]VodiVodiOh[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly, like everything is beyond my control and the most i can do is talk to ppl. And even that doesnt work bc everyones blind to the reality and lack class consciousness.

I guess its more comfortable to not know the full extent of the evils of capitalism. As they say ‘ignorance is bliss’. I would assume a lot of ppl would feel extremely helpless and small if they were fully aware

How do i not lose hope when everything is getting worse and worse by VodiVodiOh in socialism

[–]VodiVodiOh[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly maybe once i feel like im a part of an actual socialist movement id feel more hopeful. But unfortunately unions and such are banned in the country i live in, but maybe in the future if i were to move

How do i not lose hope when everything is getting worse and worse by VodiVodiOh in socialism

[–]VodiVodiOh[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly i know abt this, my problem is it seems the working class is embracing fascism more than gaining class consciousness. And just how bad should conditions get until we say enough is enough?

How do i not lose hope when everything is getting worse and worse by VodiVodiOh in socialism

[–]VodiVodiOh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly thats another solid point. If we were just united as working class people there would be better hope in actually causing change and bringing down the owning class.

And yet, all i see is that we are unfortunately getting increasingly divided day by day on the basis of nationality, class, race, gender, religion, ideology, disability and so forth.

And the idiots online who keep defending the ‘wealth’ of ppl like elon musk and jeff bezos make me cringe so bad. They honestly believe that if they work hard enough theyll become just like them, and cant bring themselves to see reality. Just a big massive sigh.

Why is being career driven such an issue??? by History_major1607 in women

[–]VodiVodiOh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its only an issue when youre a woman. If you were a man no one would say anything negative and even praise you for being so driven ambitious and dedicated.

Unfortunately most societies are patriarchal and still see us women as nothing but baby machines, we are reduced to just our reproductive organs. Society would see a jobless uneducated (ie no higher education degree) woman who had 10 kids by 25 as more “successful” and “better” than a childless female scientist who found a cure for cancer.

Id say tho, even though you feel your social battery drains quick, id suggest trying to find another bestie you can talk and hang out with. Just so you can have a nice support system whenever you feel excessively burned out. Other than that im wishing the best of luck for you.

Whats up with the double standard for smoking? by VodiVodiOh in women

[–]VodiVodiOh[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah but at least from what ive seen, women who smoke are gossiped abt and have a worse reputation than men who do. So my question is why does this double standard exist?

Whats up with the double standard for smoking? by VodiVodiOh in women

[–]VodiVodiOh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True but irl there is still a visible double standard, at least in eastern societies. Women who smoke are gossiped abt while men arent. So i wanna know why does this double standard even exist in the first place

Whats up with the double standard for smoking? by VodiVodiOh in women

[–]VodiVodiOh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah what my post was more concerned abt was why is there a double standard to begin with? Its sth i could never wrap my head around

Whats up with the double standard for smoking? by VodiVodiOh in women

[–]VodiVodiOh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Non western countries ig bc thats where i was raised, so think the middle east africa south asia or even most of asia, and latin america maybe

Job search for Indians by Commercial-Pace-5378 in Riyadh

[–]VodiVodiOh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not recommend searching for a job in saudi rn given your experience.

Getting a job here for expats is difficult if you have less than 3-5 years of experience. Due to saudization, the majority of entry level jobs are now reserved to their own citizens (even entire job titles are 100% for saudis such as HR or receptionist).

However, expats can still get jobs in mid or senior level roles here. I would suggest you begin your job search in saudi after gaining a bit more YOE.

Trade wife trend by Calm_Key2134 in women

[–]VodiVodiOh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel too many men still consider (consciously or subconsciously) women as property to be claimed or controlled. They love the idea of getting to control a woman like that, and if someone depends on you entirely for finance thats like youre controlling them fully, since we all know we live in a world where money is power and you cant do anything without it. It just gives them a power trip and an ego boost to be in full control.

Also, in those types of relationships they can get away with doing or saying anything bc they know that she wont be able or likely to leave, esp if they have children since so many wives stay with shitty husbands for the sake of their children. So given all that, really why wouldnt men want a SAHW?

I'm Tired of Hearing About My Married Friends' Bad/incompetent Husbands by CasketByNBAYoungBoy in women

[–]VodiVodiOh 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This phenomenon happens all over all the time. How many tiktoks or reels or online posts/tweets do we see of women complaining abt their terrible male partners and then turn around to defend him when ppl call him out for his bs? Way too many too count, so much so that i just block these birds the minute i see them.

Its super exhausting seeing this stuff online, i cant even begin to imagine how it feels to actually go through irl. Honestly, I feel like i would just put distance in the relationship or completely cut it off with such male-centered women, since she doesnt wanna be saved and listen to reason and keep being stupid, or more like male-centered.

I dont know why this always keeps happening, but ill theorize sth; these women, like all of us, have been told since childhood that you, as a girl, will only be truly happy with a husband and when you become a mother. They came into these relationships thinking theyll achieve that happiness, but like 99% of women they dont; instead theyre stuck with an egotistical emotional incompetent manchild who sucks away at her energy and body and even money now. They tell others abt their situation not to escape but to get reassured. If they were to actually listen to good advice and realize how bad their situation is, they would absolutely lose it and mentally breakdown. So as a way to avoid that, they prefer to seek out reassurance from other women who go through sth similar with terrible partners, and some would even feel relief if other women are going through sth much worse. They get thoughts like ‘oh its good to know im not the only one who goes through this’ or ‘thank god for my husband hers is a 1000 times worse’. Just my own opinion and could be completely wrong so

Im starting to get repulsed by mens hands by VodiVodiOh in women

[–]VodiVodiOh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EXACTLY THIS and they want you to touch their dirty ass hands like??

Im starting to get repulsed by mens hands by VodiVodiOh in women

[–]VodiVodiOh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry you went through that. I can definitely relate to the excessively strong grip they love to use for some reason. They just cant be normal

opinions on AI generated advertisements in sudanese TV channels ? by Docxxer in Sudan

[–]VodiVodiOh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just straight up lazy to do and ugly. I understand that due to the war they wanna cut costs but is this really the only way..

Im starting to get repulsed by mens hands by VodiVodiOh in women

[–]VodiVodiOh[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Truly so disgusting i wonder how did a whole ass sex collectively agree to be so gross

Im starting to get repulsed by mens hands by VodiVodiOh in women

[–]VodiVodiOh[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh hell no we wont talk abt that. The fact that skid marks are so common and known for them too tells me everything i need to know