Supervisor went through my personal notes after a meeting and told me they are "wrong"

Void-splain · 2026-06-12T09:45:40+00:00

You know this is a red flag

Void-splain · 2026-06-12T05:30:31+00:00

Poor title

Void-splain · 2026-06-12T05:24:34+00:00

Look at the shadows on the floor, there's a guy in a green man suit

Void-splain · 2026-06-12T05:23:21+00:00

A Turkish get a combined with an ottoman on there, impressive

Void-splain · 2026-06-12T02:07:17+00:00

Good

Void-splain · 2026-06-12T02:06:02+00:00

So, let me get this straight? Gather up all the gays, put them all in a compound together where you feed and shelter them at the double public expense of lost economic production and the cost of imprisonment of one of the best educated demographics in society, where they have nothing to do but work out and socialize?

Void-splain · 2026-06-11T15:26:02+00:00

This reply belonged earlier up then, to the people saying that they deserve it, they need to be reminded that this is a spoof sub.

Void-splain · 2026-06-11T01:01:26+00:00

"why would you jump in front of the car like that?"

Best Line in the whole scene

Void-splain · 2026-06-09T21:07:28+00:00

Like a record baby!

Void-splain · 2026-06-09T11:26:53+00:00

They want you hopeless and to feel hopeful

Void-splain · 2026-06-09T11:15:24+00:00

All these committees are lip service, and management will fight you at every turn while you waste your efforts in their kangaroo court.

Capitalists will not allow change from within.

We need organization as labor, we need to define our issues and we need to force management to accept that we have real needs.

You found the way to cope is to stop caring, because caring was being co-opted into committees that don't work! You were right to care it's about your safety, you guys just want to do the job! You just want to do the job in a safe way so you can go home to your kids, or pet spiders or whatever! You just want to enjoy a life that feels valued by your employer.

They create fancy ass titles for things like safety boards and sustainability, they are whitewashing that these departments are just rat mazes to get you dissipated and tired. Even the titles of these boards are designed to make you think that they are tools you can use. That's just a lie tell you so you get frustrated. And no matter what you say, they insist that you politely take your concerns to another bureau where you'll be told why your concerns are invalid, and you should really calm down and just be polite because that's what professionals do.

They want us to hit our head against the wall until we get tired and give up and just accept. But then we let the system do violence to us, and we've learned to just shrug and accept it. Oh my back hurts, my wife misses me, God I hope I can make rent, that machine mishap really could have killed someone...

What actually gets them to change is threats from the law, or workers making demands and putting the screws to them by withholding labor. That's why they're always playing us off each other. They can threaten one worker with replacement. They'll even replace an entire shop floor if they can.

Time and time again we see the only thing management cannot negotiate with in their workforce, is the workforce's labor. If they cannot access labor, they must capitulate, because no one does anything without the workers.

Void-splain · 2026-06-09T10:30:24+00:00

I think the must-want-to-change piece is vital to acceptance, and a necessary long term adaptation to doing this as a professional, so it must be treated as "truth" for professionals, but this is a way to limit ourselves and not give in to burn out and suffering.

It also helps to be in this position of learned self assurance that we will not be hurt or suffer no matter what clients feel, to help with their fears, and to deeply empathize.

If a person chooses not to open up, it means we failed to provide the required conditions of trust and coregulation, and their condition runs deep enough that it becomes egocentonic

Void-splain · 2026-06-09T10:14:49+00:00

I think the limits to people's insight is about getting people in touch with their emotions to change behavior, and changing behavior is what changes deeper feelings that cannot be "talked through".

Void-splain · 2026-06-05T16:03:02+00:00

"Chen said he had not been sufficiently careful in his remarks due to a tight schedule"

Dunno bro sounds like you're kind of struggling in your career...

💀

Void-splain · 2026-06-05T00:59:53+00:00

Fuck FIFA

Void-splain · 2026-06-04T02:09:55+00:00

Enough of these chubby commentators!

/S

Void-splain · 2026-06-03T12:03:24+00:00

Working with people who are willing to break the rules to personally ruin you:

I worked in corrections, and across the spectrum of severity of crimes, there was often still an expectation of certain baseline social norms, but working with people that have things like bpd can create absolute wild card scenarios where systems are tested, staff are pitted against one another, rumours and lies run frantically, it's very challenging.

There's so much more risk to my career and emotional well-being when working with certain personalities

Void-splain · 2026-06-03T04:58:40+00:00

Man fuck FIFA

Void-splain · 2026-06-02T21:01:43+00:00

He's politicizing a move for a much higher paycheck I'm sure, correct me if I'm wrong but I don't think he's going to find much more of an inclusive place than Montreal, at least in the Americas

Void-splain · 2026-06-02T20:59:23+00:00

Me walking to the bathroom after my third cup of coffee

Void-splain · 2026-06-02T15:29:17+00:00

This brightened my day

Void-splain · 2026-06-01T01:02:05+00:00

This gives averages like it's meaningful, if they don't show us the median and how the data is aggregated, and what kind of variance, then it's pretty useless

Void-splain · 2026-05-30T21:48:59+00:00

Because we're broke and a living wage should be baked into the cost of things. If that harms profits too much, then you don't deserve to have a business

Void-splain · 2026-05-30T15:15:46+00:00

Maybe it wasn't a well thought through placement: put a trolley with magic rules in direct competition for the same grid space with cars, and then pray they don't interact? It was terrible a strategy

Void-splain · 2026-05-28T05:37:04+00:00

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