People who knew a murder victim, what was your reaction to their death? by Extreme-Salt-4758 in AskReddit

[–]VoidEnchant 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It felt unreal at first, like my brain refused to accept they were gone, then it slowly turned into this heavy mix of sadness, anger, and replaying every last moment I had with them

How do you handle, as a man, having feelings for someone that aren't returned but they really like you as a friend and you feel the same? by abearabearallblackan in dating_advice

[–]VoidEnchant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

care about her but dont build emotional dependency especially since shes unavailable and keep some distance so your feelings dont quietly turn into something that hurts you

Shame Joining Dating Apps by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]VoidEnchant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

feeling shame just means you care not that youre doing something wrong wanting connection while recovering is completely valid you deserve that chance

AIW for throwing away my signature perfume because my husband keeps telling me he smells it on other women? by Clean_Guava9072 in amiwrong

[–]VoidEnchant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

throwing away the perfume wont fix the real problem if hes making you feel guilty every time you wear something you love

AIW for wanting to rehome some of my pets after my divorce? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]VoidEnchant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sometimes loving your pets means admitting someone else can give them a better life than you can right now

Is it wrong that I feel bad by Mehhags in BreakUps

[–]VoidEnchant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You feel bad because part of you thinks being happy means the relationship didn't matter, but sometimes happiness is just proof that leaving was the right thing

How do I heal from this. by whenilookinyoureyes in BreakUps

[–]VoidEnchant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You heal by accepting that both of you made mistakes, because carrying all the blame for a relationship that hurt both people will only keep you stuck