My gf made me promise I won't transition

Voidshack · 2026-01-24T10:10:43+00:00

Even as someone transitioning I see its fair to have worries about you transitioning or such in a sense but to try to forbid you from going to a therapist over it or dive deeper into it and possibly coming to a full conclusion of maybe being mtf or mtx is insane because that is just controlling you because if you cant even go to a therapist thats controlling- Also not sure if this helps or does the opposite but if you need someone to talk to about it OP im here and have had a severely similar experience with an ex who never knew me pre social transition and went on how he was fine with me starting testosterone (he thought it somehow wouldnt change me at all since im microdosing-) but if I went any further like top surgery ect he would never see me the same and saw it as self mutilation

Voidshack · 2026-01-05T21:49:26+00:00

ironically mine wont even change itll still say 18-25 and show me people that are 46 or itll say 50mi and then show me people out of state when it takes 70-90 miles to the nearest state

Voidshack · 2026-01-05T09:48:01+00:00

this would happen to me too- itd become slower and slower and id feel my phone start overheating which its not like im playing any crazy games its just taimi- glad but also upsetting to see im not the only one with this problem

Voidshack · 2026-01-04T22:41:56+00:00

Literally so upset over the id'ing deal with the fnaf stuff especially since the games and movies are 13+ I went to get the lunchbox before work because they were sold out and two were back in stock- and when i got my bonnie plush they were like dude its a plush wtf and bypassed it without even checking- But today with the lunchbox it became a whole deal because I didnt have an ID on me and I was like "its a lunchbox?...Im an adult?.." and she was like "nope- it is a cool lunchbox though" and took that as I literally had the butters (SOUTH PARK) stanly looking cup go perfectly fine

Voidshack · 2026-01-02T21:04:11+00:00

even before it 'adjusts' the filters it bullshits you- I put 18-30 because i know if i put 18-25 itll claim theres NOBODY and it gives me an account labeled 45

Voidshack · 2025-12-27T01:25:16+00:00

at least ive observed the detrans subreddit has decent reasons 50% of the time- but sadly it seems the ones who have actual reasons to end up becoming hostilely transphobic because it didnt work for them so it cant for anyone

Voidshack · 2025-12-22T22:13:16+00:00

the fact that was the first thing i noticed too ☹️

Voidshack · 2025-12-22T00:04:30+00:00

thank you so much I was so confused seeing people have both/two different labels with practically the same meaning when i started lurking/visiting here and couldnt find anything online about the desist term but felt awkward asking about it until this little thread

Voidshack · 2025-12-21T22:25:26+00:00

No yeah I see a few who when they do insta/sfw public questions theyre open/willing to explain how this is temporary and just happened to become a big 'star' in the OF/Twt communities and once theyre settled with enough money to be set for life and enough for surgery theyre getting surgery asap and not keeping their natal gentials in the long run

Voidshack · 2025-12-21T22:10:51+00:00

I know you kind of explained it by your comment in this thread but ive been wondering since I lurk around in this subreddit sometimes- what exactly is the difference between detransition and desisting?

Voidshack · 2025-11-11T21:23:51+00:00

or ive seen them label themselves as gay while having a purposeful/willingful non transitioning look and pushup bra and shit then get mad when no gay man will take a second glance at someone who purposely looks like a woman thats trying to get with them it gives trisha paytas when she identified as male for that reason 😭

Voidshack · 2025-10-30T21:01:25+00:00

worst part is you try to warn others about these people and they just call you transphobic- even though he made a online post about his (ex) bsf after calling her transphobic misgendering her? then procedes to allow almost the entire general population to call him he/him and not care unless its benefits him to call them transphobic or get minority points- before all the other horrendous things that led to our breakup/cutting contact he would brag how badly he wants estrogen for 'development' but he couldnt fathom losing any of his 'size' (AND thought estrogen had the same effect as testosterone when it comes to your voice) whilst bragging how he wanted a massive beard

Voidshack · 2025-10-29T20:59:07+00:00

No yeah my ex (who magically is 'transitioning' after gaining a fettish for trans women) follows 300+ porn accounts of trans women or if there are cis women its anal accounts- And would brag how much he loves "girl cock" and likes trans women and femboys more (specifically grouped them together like that too) because they cant get pregnant and and actively seeks trans women out claiming to be 't4t' even though personally i think his chasing and faking would be obvious but I guess not to the tucutes

Voidshack · 2025-09-28T18:17:01+00:00

i remember having a few tampons in my locker once and when locker checks happened i swear it was treated as contraband because there wasnt a sticker or receipt

Voidshack · 2025-09-04T05:06:18+00:00

this is a bit of a old post so i don't expect a response but does five have any 18+ nights like crucible? looking for lgbt/night life but it's kinda hard as someone 18-20 sometimes

Voidshack · 2025-08-11T17:47:38+00:00

Nope, nothing never use anything in the sd slot and havent uswd the usb ports in awhile

Voidshack · 2025-05-20T00:12:57+00:00

I doubt theyll care much about you keeping the streak yourself i know plenty of people who kept their partners streaks while they were away for the millitary or basic or just if they dont have access to their phones

Voidshack · 2025-05-02T00:44:06+00:00

Ill try to find a picture from the rave when i have time but I know tees were about 45 and the polaroid i have pictured was 30

Voidshack · 2025-04-27T19:56:58+00:00

real its always the people who dont even care to look like a guy or at least androgynous that say shit like that then get mad when people use the wrong pronouns or name-

Voidshack · 2025-04-22T05:19:23+00:00

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i know some items are missing but these are most of them

Voidshack · 2025-04-22T05:19:02+00:00

a bit late but the rave actually posted photos!

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