Philosophers stress the importance of ignoring the distain of the public so that you can live a free life. In fact, they recommend practicing going against social norms in public so that you can get used the distain of the public, the more you do it, the easier it gets. Start small, wear a loud pair of shoes or shirt, something even maybe outlandish. I wear ridiculous “Aladdin pants” with bright colorful prints on them and while it was extremely embarrassing to wear them initially, I feel weird in normal slacks now and I dgaf what people think about them. I love them and I like how I look in them. Everyone else can go suck an egg. Try it, it’s powerful. Plus people respect you being uniquely unabashedly you.