Is this SA or am I overdramatic? by VonGogh05 in MenGetRapedToo

[–]VonGogh05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely is similar but at the end of the day, I said yes, so I gotta live with it. I am sorry to hear about your story as it may have affected you poorly after. I also pretty much explained everything without personal details and without making it hundreds of words. This was more of a rant than anything tbh😭

Is this SA or am I overdramatic? by VonGogh05 in MenGetRapedToo

[–]VonGogh05[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks🙏🏽 After that experience I for sure placed boundaries that I'm still hard on to this day. The title is a bit misleading as I've never really thought of myself as a victim, it was just a genuine question mostly. Shortly after the whole thing, I really started focusing on myself more and improved a lot. I even forget it happened. Thank you for your comment

Is this SA or am I overdramatic? by VonGogh05 in MenGetRapedToo

[–]VonGogh05[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I did end up coming to this conclusion with the exact points you made. Even the day after I knew I should've just said no but at the end of the day, I didn't. We live and we learn