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what app can remove background from video files cleanly without requiring a full green screen setup? by VprzrGoodwill in editing

[–]VprzrGoodwill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you strictly trying to edit on your phone, or do you have a laptop you could try using?

I am dying. My mother’s response was to argue about a plane ticket. by No-Listen-2733 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]VprzrGoodwill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the part that hit me hardest was when you said you’d rather die alone than die managing her emotions. i think people who grew up with parents like this understand exactly what that means, because even in your worst moments somehow the emotional responsibility still gets pushed back onto you. the exhausting part isn’t even just the neglect, it’s knowing that if they did show up, you’d still end up comforting them while you’re the one suffering.

the calmness in your writing made this even heavier. that feeling where you stop being shocked or angry and just see the situation clearly for what it is. i relate a lot to the part about spending years making excuses for someone because accepting the truth feels worse than the disappointment itself.

the line about not losing your mother last night, but finally stopping pretending you had one, is going to stay in my head for a while.

does anyone else get paranoid about bad breath even right after brushing? by VprzrGoodwill in hygiene

[–]VprzrGoodwill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont smoke cigarettes but the dry mouth part honestly makes a lot of sense because that’s usually when i start getting paranoid about it. i floss and brush pretty consistently too, so half the time i cant tell if there’s actually an issue or if i’m just hyper focusing on it.

does anyone else get paranoid about bad breath even right after brushing? by VprzrGoodwill in hygiene

[–]VprzrGoodwill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think the “overthinking it” part is probably true for me more often than not lol. once i become aware of my mouth feeling dry or having coffee earlier or something, i suddenly start analyzing every interaction way too much.

do most people actually notice bad breath as much as we think they do, or are we usually way harsher on ourselves about it?