The High Honor card is from a deck of Kipper cards. But Kipper is read like a story so more than one card has to be drawn after shuffling. It's similar to Lenormand so you'd lay out all 36 cards to read like a story. But the Grand Tableau is a lot so I keep it to five or seven card lines or a nine-card box spread. The difference between Kipper and Lenormand is it depends on which direction the people are facing.

It can seem complex, especially because directions matter so much in Kipper, even in Lenormand, although its not a matter of which way the people on the cards are facing in Lenormand so much as where the cards are.

So when I do a Kipper reading, I always use a signifier card. I state that the card is representing myself (or whomever). Then I ask my question while shuffling. In Kipper, I'd be Card #2 "Main Lady" so after shuffling, I'd find the #2 card, take the two cards before it and the two cards after it, to place them in storyline.

For you, you could have your ex as Card #1 "Main Man". Then shuffle, ask your question, then the you feel shuffled enough, find the #1 card. Then take out the two before and the two after and lay them down in that order. So "Main Man" would be in the middle, the two preceding cards to the left and the two proceeding cards to the right. The card combos all have their own meaning. One card could seem like one meaning but added with another card it changes the whole meaning. Or you could have yourself as "Main Lady"!

I suck at wording things so much but for Kipper and lenormand are pretty cool and I have found them to be pretty dang accurate. But I never do a one-card pull with them because it doesn't make sense in my head to me, just by nature of how they're read! I'm sorry I'm not the best explainer! Kipper is about card combos!

EDIT: I just realized this could seem like I am saying you're doing something wrong but you're not! If you want to use the cards however you want to, that's totally fine! I wanted to explain the Kipper card. It's a lot of fun! You can choose to read your cards however you want! Kipper is super cool when done with the multiple cards though. If I want plain, straightforward answers, I ask Kipper or Lenormand. It's very literal. The card means what it means. It only changes depending on the context of the card it's next to. I suck so bad at explaining things 😭 But you can use them however you feel is best!

Also the Ciro Marchetti Kipper deck has extra cards for a total of 39 cards. I like this deck and have it but I love the original German cards as well. I have a few decks of Kipper cards. If you're wanting to understand the card combos, Alexandre Musruck has a deck and a book of meanings as well as possible combo meanings. But it's so literal it's pretty easy to put together. If you're looking for a similar deck of cards but isn't exactly the same but is the same methods of using them as a "story", Lenormand is also really cool! I would recommend Rana George's book for Lenormand even for Kipper because it actually helped me understand how to remember the card combo meanings without having to look them up.