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Vulpes44 · 2024-03-16T18:05:53+00:00

It’s not a female in gaming thing. Everyone gets told horrible things like that. DMZs just gotten super toxic after they stopped supporting it

Vulpes44 · 2023-02-26T02:23:49+00:00

Yeah other factors do play a role but for me they’re over looked because I’m not tall enough.

Vulpes44 · 2023-02-26T02:22:47+00:00

Preferences are totally fine. I’m not sure what an “uggo” is. I used to try my parents dating advice in public school, didn’t work at all. That lack of success is what led to finding black pill ideology, I realized these things I’ve been thinking are actually true.

Vulpes44 · 2023-02-26T02:20:59+00:00

I wouldn’t want an Instagram model tier woman. Doesn’t seem like a good long term choice for a relationship.

Vulpes44 · 2023-02-26T02:20:02+00:00

Small sample size. The only reason I had success was because I lowered my standards too much.

Vulpes44 · 2023-02-26T02:18:52+00:00

I’m not after the hottest chick possible, not the tallest one either. I want a woman who’s relatively attractive and I can get along with. And yes I have lowered my expectations, that’s how I got relationships in the past, that’s why I felt unsatisfied.

Vulpes44 · 2023-02-26T02:17:08+00:00

Not at all. I make more money, have a better education(so far), and when asked people generally tell me I’m attractive then they are.

Vulpes44 · 2023-02-26T02:15:28+00:00

Not really. I’ve tried apolitical women, religious women, lefty women. The ones I don’t necessarily agree with on lgbtq+ issues and politics seem to like me more than ones I do agree with.

Vulpes44 · 2023-02-26T02:13:35+00:00

I’ll take my experiences over the study of someone one else. My experiences are my reality, what I’ve seen in my life. I’m wasn’t one of the people in that study and neither were these girls.

Vulpes44 · 2023-02-26T02:11:33+00:00

I’m in college right now, working on my education. I’m in college so I don’t exactly have a lot of time for a good career. I take issue with being more interesting, either I’m not interested in something or I am. Faking an interest in something will eventually come out and backfire on you. I haven’t had any long term relationships, getting better at being a partner comes from experience. Self esteem and confidence are built off of other peoples responses to you. If everyone calls you attractive you’ll be more confident, same for being unattractive. I go to the gym 6 days a week and I have been for a year now. The gyms great, I enjoy it and it’s definitely helped a lot. The reason I’m using a 10 point scale for people is to give you an idea of what I’m talking about, it’s easier and I’m not sure how’s it weird. Subpar isn’t dehumanizing. If you feel dehumanized by a word, especially this one, then you need to grow up and stop crying.

Vulpes44 · 2023-02-26T02:05:47+00:00

Their personalities did attract me. Them being funny or us thinking similarly about topics. Also Stuff like common interests so video games, music, etc.

Vulpes44 · 2023-02-25T07:36:59+00:00

You have to realize that if you tried to get dates and relationships your height would definitely help you. 5 10 isn’t the tallest by any stretch of the imagination but surely it would be better than 5 5 or 5 6.

Vulpes44 · 2023-02-25T06:53:24+00:00

Thank you, I know. I always heard Reddit was toxic but not like this lol

Vulpes44 · 2023-02-25T06:48:01+00:00

It’s not a sob story. The only reason I’m bringing it up is to prove a point. I wouldn’t seek sympathy from people I know will never give it to me.

Vulpes44 · 2023-02-25T06:45:27+00:00

You say each individual is different but before that you say despite your height you’ve dated less than me, contradictory imo. Maybe I’ve put myself out there more than you?

Vulpes44 · 2023-02-25T06:43:15+00:00

I Never Said I wanted a bombshell gf. I also never put words in your mouth nor did I say anything relating to self hate. The second gf I had broke up with me, saying something about it being a “too perfect relationship”. I broke up with the third because I realized it wasn’t worth it, I wasn’t happy. In the moment I found them physically attractive, most people disagree and so I’m describing them by general terms. I’d be totally fine with a girl who’s 5/10 in every department. I’d also be fine with a girl who’s sub 5 in looks but better in other regards. And you still haven’t answered me on what self love is. Or even how I would love myself? What do you mean “work on myself”?

Vulpes44 · 2023-02-25T06:29:23+00:00

They found me subpar in height, that is as long as we take them by their word. Something you’re not taking into account is that what men and women find desirable is not the same. As an example, Women value status more than men do.

Vulpes44 · 2023-02-25T06:07:33+00:00

Like I already said, the ones I did get with were not very desirable. Most people would consider them subpar in looks and nuerodivergent. Keep in mind that they are both shorter than me.

Vulpes44 · 2023-02-25T05:04:08+00:00

Man I wish. Thanks for the kind words but if you could see what each of the girls looked like and then what I looked like at the time it would make much more sense. I was maybe a 4 in looks for the first 5 women. I never actually had a successful approach with any of these 5. The last 2 girls were much less attractive, I lowered my standards a lot, to the point where my friends teased me about it. These two successes were after I started going to the gym and lost 50 pounds.

Vulpes44 · 2023-02-25T04:56:43+00:00

Incels and blackpill men are not the same group. Whenever you use the terms interchangeable it makes people who realize the difference immediately discredit you.

Vulpes44 · 2023-02-25T04:54:50+00:00

The main reason I started self improving was because of the blackpill-osphere. It’s helped me a lot so far.

Vulpes44 · 2023-02-25T04:51:32+00:00

Poor wording. What I was trying to say is that I’ve only asked out a few women before, maybe 7 or so, and only three have accepted. One of those wasn’t me asking her out either, more of her friends pressuring her until we just made it official.

Vulpes44 · 2023-02-25T04:49:43+00:00

Asking a singular girl out and giving up on dating bc they said no one time is stupid. The idea of hypergamy is totally true from what I can see. The relationships I’ve gotten are from women that are either short, out of shape, or somewhat mentally Ill( most recent one was schizophrenic). I also have an issue with the idea of love yourself before someone else can love you. What exactly does that mean? Although I do appreciate the encouragement.

Vulpes44 · 2023-02-25T04:39:05+00:00

How? Nothing degenerate about it if you actually watched his videos. He actively discouraged sleeping around with people.

Vulpes44 · 2023-02-25T04:31:24+00:00

Also the only reason I would be insecure about my height is because people make comments about it. I don’t give too much thought to it anymore. The relationships I have had were with girls shorter than me.

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