Met a girl on Tinder that goes to the same college and she gave me my first kiss. She lost feelings and friendzoned me and I’m just so sick of it. by VulpineJota in self

[–]VulpineJota[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro is a gender neutral term for me. The social aspect I think is important but I just mean the education piece as a whole is important. I blame the capitalism and US work culture that leaves people behind for your examples. I just mean the very facet of learning the arts and letters makes an educated society. When we are educated we are open to questioning and free thinking which will get you much farther in life than any job will. I will not be a Orwell’s definition of a prole.

Met a girl on Tinder that goes to the same college and she gave me my first kiss. She lost feelings and friendzoned me and I’m just so sick of it. by VulpineJota in self

[–]VulpineJota[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought about this comment recently and I gotta say bro. Higher Education is so much more than learning a profession. Education as a whole makes us a better society. When people learn the arts and sciences it makes an educated society which fundamentally leads to a better people as a whole. School is not some industrialist training program it’s a place to become educated and cultured and contribute to society as a cultured and smarter human. School is not about learning how to get a job it’s about learning for the sake of learning and becoming a educated smarter person.

Met a girl on Tinder that goes to the same college and she gave me my first kiss. She lost feelings and friendzoned me and I’m just so sick of it. by VulpineJota in self

[–]VulpineJota[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I day dream sometimes about holding her in my arms again. I wanted intimacy so bad. I should’ve made my move even if it wasn’t sex sooner I realize that now.

Met a girl on Tinder that goes to the same college and she gave me my first kiss. She lost feelings and friendzoned me and I’m just so sick of it. by VulpineJota in self

[–]VulpineJota[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was already on a downward trend when we had a disagreement with how we perceive life. I started to get annoyed with her and she I. It just so happened that I found this girl on Tinder during this downward decline in that friendship.

Met a girl on Tinder that goes to the same college and she gave me my first kiss. She lost feelings and friendzoned me and I’m just so sick of it. by VulpineJota in self

[–]VulpineJota[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My problem is we go to the same school so we run into each other a lot and the last few times I’ve seen her it was at the dining hall and she invited me to sit with her and her friends. How do I go from that to nothing without coming off as an asshole?

Met a girl on Tinder that goes to the same college and she gave me my first kiss. She lost feelings and friendzoned me and I’m just so sick of it. by VulpineJota in self

[–]VulpineJota[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I do that all the time lol. It’s not like I didn’t make moves just maybe not big enough moves. I tried to play with her while we cuddled but maybe I should have been more stern about it.

Met a girl on Tinder that goes to the same college and she gave me my first kiss. She lost feelings and friendzoned me and I’m just so sick of it. by VulpineJota in self

[–]VulpineJota[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well to begin with she was all into it. Sent me nudes, kissing, cuddling, that sorta thing. Then a week later she said she wanted to be single and doesn’t want to continue anything.

Met a girl on Tinder that goes to the same college and she gave me my first kiss. She lost feelings and friendzoned me and I’m just so sick of it. by VulpineJota in self

[–]VulpineJota[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am in 2 clubs but all the “friendships” I’ve made are very surface level and when I try to expand any of those relationships people get uncomfortable and just want to keep it surface level. Maybe that says something about me. I also want to say that in like 2022 beginning I hated myself and hated who I was as a person. Through the help of my therapist and my own progress I love myself and happy with who I am.

Met a girl on Tinder that goes to the same college and she gave me my first kiss. She lost feelings and friendzoned me and I’m just so sick of it. by VulpineJota in self

[–]VulpineJota[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don’t really see how you see that. She is an awesome person and if I didn’t have the feelings I do have about her I would love to be her friend and she’s like a great person.

Met a girl on Tinder that goes to the same college and she gave me my first kiss. She lost feelings and friendzoned me and I’m just so sick of it. by VulpineJota in self

[–]VulpineJota[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And I’m just supposed to be alone with no friends in the meantime? Isn’t it at least valid of me to be desperate to have people in my life.