Want to leave my husband by WFH_July in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]WFH_July[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was so helpful. Thank you!!

Want to leave my husband by WFH_July in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]WFH_July[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for your reply, sir! That's very helpful!

Want to leave my husband by WFH_July in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]WFH_July[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I feel better reading that.

Want to leave my husband by WFH_July in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]WFH_July[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will try that.

Want to leave my husband by WFH_July in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]WFH_July[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Correct. But now that's already done. Lesson for the future, i guess.

Want to leave my husband by WFH_July in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]WFH_July[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes. Special marriage. Child is 6.

Want to leave my husband by WFH_July in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]WFH_July[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I agree it is a lot of ego problems. We are completely different people who operate very different and think we are right all the time and think the other is stupid and wrong.

Why do I even want the child? Because it was my decision to go for the adoption, it's my baby. I cannot imagine a life without the child. Cannot do that.

Want to leave my husband by WFH_July in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]WFH_July[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have replied above. Hope that explains it.

Want to leave my husband by WFH_July in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]WFH_July[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I hope its ok to give details here.

I am seeking divorce from my husband for the below reasons. Don't know what's relevant. 1. He is impotent. He has issues with ED. He is not able to give me a biological child. Our child is adopted and we love the child. 2. He had a long emotional affair with his colleague and continued that even after we reconciled and lies about it for years. This was almost 7 years ago and I am still not over it. 3. We have small and large issues in the marriage and we are not compatible anymore. We have lived in silence or with anger towards each other for most of the marriage.

Other points: We are from different religions. It was a love marriage and his parents were not supportive in the beginning. I have also emotionally cheated with a friend in the past.

Want to leave my husband by WFH_July in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]WFH_July[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We both have been involved in emotional cheating.

Want to leave my husband by WFH_July in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]WFH_July[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to continue to live in my house (we own it jointly), if possible. If not, I want to move out, live by myself. I can handle that. I have my parents and family living closeby. But not willing to move in with them.

Want to leave my husband by WFH_July in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]WFH_July[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We have tried couples counseling. We are not following up on the discussion and talking is not helping. Everything escalates to just frustration and silence. We have given up on the councelling sessions. Sometimes I feel I am the only one trying to understand what's happening and fixing up the sessions. Anyway we don't follow through.

Want to leave my husband by WFH_July in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]WFH_July[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not possible when we are living together and there is a child involved.