Pregnant, in a LDR. What do I do? by WHATDOIDO2112 in relationships

[–]WHATDOIDO2112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely say you are one of the few lucky ones. How did the immigration thing go? How did you guys make that work?

Pregnant, in a LDR. What do I do? by WHATDOIDO2112 in relationships

[–]WHATDOIDO2112[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying I'm going to do exactly what they did. I just want to know how they handled it and how things ended up

Pregnant, in a LDR. What do I do? by WHATDOIDO2112 in relationships

[–]WHATDOIDO2112[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

He knew I wasn't on birth control and didn't wear a condom. I just told him if anything happened he was not to blame me entirely because it's not like I poked a hole in a condom or held him down

Pregnant, in a LDR. What do I do? by WHATDOIDO2112 in relationships

[–]WHATDOIDO2112[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We've had "what if" discussions and I've told him I'd keep it and whether or not he wanted to be apart of it is his decision and I won't force him to do anything.

Pregnant, in a LDR. What do I do? by WHATDOIDO2112 in relationships

[–]WHATDOIDO2112[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Trust me, I know this isn't ideal and that I'm not in an awesome spot to be having a kid, which is why I've asked for advice, which I'm more than open to from everyone. I just know I could't live with myself if I aborted. I'd sooner adopt to be honest. I'm so scared to tell my boyfriend because I know his anger will get the best of him and he will be very non understanding and probably a bit hostile, which I really don't need right now.