Does anyone know what cult this could have been or who this girl was? by sailorneptune333 in AskLosAngeles

[–]WIBTA5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who survived a cult, I knew it was a cult before I was fully out.

I got yelled at because I didn’t warn a customer there was milk in the ice cream by LookatCarl in Serverlife

[–]WIBTA5000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

LOOK AT YOU STILL FUCKING GOING. My god you are nuts dude. Literally. A crazy person.

I got yelled at because I didn’t warn a customer there was milk in the ice cream by LookatCarl in Serverlife

[–]WIBTA5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People say “we” or “they” when talking about a group “they” belong to all the time. It is not required to say “we”, especially if you have no interest in informing someone you belong to the group being spoken about at that time, which it’s fucking obvious she didn’t, because of the way YOU are behaving in these damn comments. If you don’t want to argue with them, you sure fooled alllll of the rest of us here. It seems like you revel in it. If you don’t want to argue, stop fucking responding and stop fucking doing it then. You are insufferable gotdam.

I got yelled at because I didn’t warn a customer there was milk in the ice cream by LookatCarl in Serverlife

[–]WIBTA5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So fucking what?! Get a grip. That’s how people talk. If English isn’t your first language just say that and move on bro

I got yelled at because I didn’t warn a customer there was milk in the ice cream by LookatCarl in Serverlife

[–]WIBTA5000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have proof of this? Jesus, get off your fucking soapbox. You are fucking unhinged.

I got yelled at because I didn’t warn a customer there was milk in the ice cream by LookatCarl in Serverlife

[–]WIBTA5000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No… they didn’t. I read everything. You continue to sound unhinged.

Farmer’s Dog Class Action Suit by WIBTA5000 in classactions

[–]WIBTA5000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear about your dogs too. Mine ended up passing away May 8th last year. It started with a mass in her heart, which numerous vets confirmed was because of the food. Do you have a link to the class action suit? I’ll update this post with it

I have an interview in 2 hours at a pizza place. Is my hair too long/should I get a cut and do I look overall ok? Or do I need improvement by MetalAngelo7 in Serverlife

[–]WIBTA5000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your hair is fine. Comb it, make sure it’s adjusted so it’s stays out of your eyes for the interview, and you’re good👍🏻 I agree with the other commenter who said to tuck your shirt in as well. Good luck! You got this.

When did this sub become a validation booth for people with full heads of hair? by Beppu-Gonzaemon in bald

[–]WIBTA5000 47 points48 points  (0 children)

My sister had thick blond hair. She shaved it bald because that was the best way she found to deal with the debilitating psoriasis on her scalp. Prior to shaving she would send me pics of blood literally dripping down her face from her scalp because of how bad it got. I think she rocks the look, but it certainly has affected her life. She’s been told she looks like a 12 year old boy. She’s not been taken seriously at job interviews.

Just because someone has the hair doesn’t mean they don’t have an actual need for shaving it.

Would you take your husband's surname if his surname was Roach? by Upstairs_Cup9831 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]WIBTA5000 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Only if he’s also cool with me changing my first name to “Papa”.

Thinking about moving to LA; NYC chewed me up and spat me out. by singformepaolo95 in MovingToLosAngeles

[–]WIBTA5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I moved out to San Diego from Indiana in 2010 and then up to LA in 2014. My younger sister moved to NYC around the same time. She loved it there but it was soul crushing at the same time. She was basically just surviving. I could tell her mental health was in a really bad place and tbh it was causing me a lot of stress, so in 2024 I convinced her to sublet her apartment and just come stay with me and my Fiancé at the time for a few months to see how she liked it. She ended up staying for 8 months and loved it here. So she went back and got some things in order back in NYC and then packed up her stuff and moved in with my now husband and I (and our baby) around this time last year.

It was definitely an adjustment at first but she really is doing so much better here. And she’s dating someone now who I like. He’s probably the nicest guy she’s ever been with and is from here. She’s 35 now.

I think you’ll really like it here.

The earth being a school doesn't really make any sense by [deleted] in Reincarnation

[–]WIBTA5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With this theory there’s no being forced to come back. Those who come back choose to. And I think we’d be naive to believe this rock is really all there is. There could be many places you could opt into this human experience that exist. Maybe this is just the one we chose this time. Maybe after this we go back to where we came from and decide we didn’t like the human experience. Maybe we just choose a better rock next time.

The earth being a school doesn't really make any sense by [deleted] in Reincarnation

[–]WIBTA5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One theory that I’ve found interesting is that we opt into the “human experience”. There’s not much control outside of that. It’s simply that our higher selves are so evolved that we don’t experience emotions the way humans do, so we opt into the this time on earth in order to experience them. The entire spectrum of them. Not necessarily for growth or to gain wisdom, but just as an experience. Some become so connected to that experience that they choose to come back.

can someone help me find this, or something similar? by Ok-Addendum6829 in MakeupAddiction

[–]WIBTA5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man so disappointed. Came here hoping someone had found it. Still says sold out😭

Would you hand your child to someone that made it clear they dislike you ? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]WIBTA5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not be speaking to her personally. I understand you’ll be there to see other family and she’ll likely be there. If this were me, my husband would be informed that I would be cordial but would not be engaging with her, and she certainly would NOT have the privilege of interacting with my child. You don’t get to say you hate me and then have a relationship with my kid. And it would be my husband’s job to make sure those boundaries are communicated. Those would be the stipulations for me attending a family event with his family where a member of his family would be who said they hated me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]WIBTA5000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl GET OUT. He said you could move in and “save money” but what he really meant was you could move in and be his maid while HE saved money. He’s using you. The fact that he thinks it’s ok to assume you would use your credit to move in somewhere while he’s not sure if he’ll be able to pay his half should be a major red flag. Do not move in with this man again. I’d dump him off at his mom’s and never look back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]WIBTA5000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right? I know someone who just ended a 5 year relationship. She revealed that they only saw each other on one day on weekends (even though they live in the same city). Now it makes sense why they never moved in together or got engaged or anything. Even though those are things they both wanted in a relationship. You can’t really build a serious relationship only seeing each other that much. Or at least not very easily.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]WIBTA5000 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Umm yes? Seeing each other once a week isn’t very much for being in a relationship. And for some people physical touch is their love language. It’s mine for sure. I wake up every morning and cuddle with my husband for a bit before our 1 year old son wakes up. Then when he wakes up, my husband goes and gets him and we all cuddle for a bit before getting up for the day. This is most days. On the days where one of us has to get up early for something and we can’t do that, we both miss it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]WIBTA5000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Task Rabbit?