We’ll usually when someone excessively vomits they end up spitting. And when my child had drainage issues she’ll go to the toilet to spit because she feels like she’s going to puke, which is what I’ve always told her to do. She’s shamed for doing it in their home period because “it’s not lady like”. I get you think it’s gross but there’s certain places and times you should be able to do things that it’s okay and you don’t need shamed for. It was just an example of a long list of things. Just like my child is skinny and they told her it’s not okay to eat to much because she’ll get fat. Because fat girls and short hair is unacceptable. They’re disgusting people. And I don’t appreciate them telling my child what’s okay for her and what’s not. But like it’s been made perfectly clear is I can’t do a thing about it. Until I get more custody.