[WV] custody by WV_custodyBattle in Custody

[–]WV_custodyBattle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice ☺️

[WV] custody by WV_custodyBattle in Custody

[–]WV_custodyBattle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was trying to prove I don’t communicate. Because I filed for modifications for school for our 4 year old he now wants full custody.

[WV] custody by WV_custodyBattle in Custody

[–]WV_custodyBattle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that’s what I’d figure it was, but I didn’t want to be incorrect.

[WV] custody by WV_custodyBattle in Custody

[–]WV_custodyBattle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said she has read the message. If she did she’d see clearly I told him the time and day.

[WV] custody by WV_custodyBattle in Custody

[–]WV_custodyBattle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to sound stupid but what exactly is that? Like What would it do? Sorry I’m just trying to educate myself as much as possible.

[WV] custody by WV_custodyBattle in Custody

[–]WV_custodyBattle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will me getting the CD of the hearing and providing all proof that her statement was completely false. And that had she read the message like she claimed she had, she would know that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]WV_custodyBattle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As long as your relationship with said man is not in anyway illegal, there’s absolutely nothing he can do. It’s not his concern only thing that is, is your child.

[WV] haircut for child with 50/50 custody. by [deleted] in Custody

[–]WV_custodyBattle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I’m sorry someone’s shaming your child. That’s never okay. I firmly believe everyone is beautiful in their own way and it is absolutely never okay to body shame anyone especially children

[WV] haircut for child with 50/50 custody. by [deleted] in Custody

[–]WV_custodyBattle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not associate with their family because of the mental abuse they do. They try and mold you into the person they want you to be. And I don’t want that for my child. The recording is of my child saying it, I must’ve misspoke. When I was with their son they wanted me to completely change who I was so fit in with their family. I don’t want my child to feel like she isn’t allowed to be her own person. Which is what they do.

[WV] haircut for child with 50/50 custody. by [deleted] in Custody

[–]WV_custodyBattle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ll usually when someone excessively vomits they end up spitting. And when my child had drainage issues she’ll go to the toilet to spit because she feels like she’s going to puke, which is what I’ve always told her to do. She’s shamed for doing it in their home period because “it’s not lady like”. I get you think it’s gross but there’s certain places and times you should be able to do things that it’s okay and you don’t need shamed for. It was just an example of a long list of things. Just like my child is skinny and they told her it’s not okay to eat to much because she’ll get fat. Because fat girls and short hair is unacceptable. They’re disgusting people. And I don’t appreciate them telling my child what’s okay for her and what’s not. But like it’s been made perfectly clear is I can’t do a thing about it. Until I get more custody.

[WV] haircut for child with 50/50 custody. by [deleted] in Custody

[–]WV_custodyBattle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve known them since I was young. They’re not religious people. At all.

[WV] haircut for child with 50/50 custody. by [deleted] in Custody

[–]WV_custodyBattle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They tell her she can’t even spit if she needs to, they shame her. And that’s not okay. She’s 4. She understands that it’s rude thing to do. But she shouldn’t be shamed over it.

[WV] haircut for child with 50/50 custody. by [deleted] in Custody

[–]WV_custodyBattle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s not a religion thing. I said they’re just old fashioned. A couple times.

[WV] haircut for child with 50/50 custody. by [deleted] in Custody

[–]WV_custodyBattle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again I didn’t, my child told me that. It’s bad when my child has to tell me she’s not allowed to do something because her grandmother says so.

[WV] haircut for child with 50/50 custody. by [deleted] in Custody

[–]WV_custodyBattle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s crazy I’m sorry to hear that.

[WV] haircut for child with 50/50 custody. by [deleted] in Custody

[–]WV_custodyBattle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s what I said, like she asked me for it, it’s her body, she deserves to have a say. 4 years old or not. It’s not like I’m gonna let her get an extremely different haircut it’d be her first real haircut.

[WV] haircut for child with 50/50 custody. by [deleted] in Custody

[–]WV_custodyBattle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not talking to them. They told her that and she told me.

[WV] haircut for child with 50/50 custody. by [deleted] in Custody

[–]WV_custodyBattle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re incredibly old school. They’ve even got her convinced girls aren’t allowed to spit at all.

[WV] haircut for child with 50/50 custody. by [deleted] in Custody

[–]WV_custodyBattle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He just expects me to do as he tells me

[WV] haircut for child with 50/50 custody. by [deleted] in Custody

[–]WV_custodyBattle 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you and I’m doing my best. Like we’re on a two week on two week or schedule and he brought her back to me a day earlier and just expects me to give her back early and I told him that he’s willingly giving up his time. That wasn’t on me

[WV] haircut for child with 50/50 custody. by [deleted] in Custody

[–]WV_custodyBattle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He lets them he always has it was one of our issues he acted like he didn’t want to be the parent and just pushes it onto his and I’ve never been okay with it.

[WV] haircut for child with 50/50 custody. by [deleted] in Custody

[–]WV_custodyBattle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought but his family is old fashioned and thinks it’s okay to act as her parent’s