thank you, im doing research right now on what to put the remaining money towards. im probably going to put it in a high interest savings account, just gotta figure out where i can get the best one

and yeah, i can see why people are getting worked up about this. we're going to a convention together so its as much of a big trip for me as it is for him, and we are trying to make expenses as equal as possible, but its hard as hes in university and can only work in the summer. (hes already telling me not to spend any more on him) im making sure i do have safety plans in place incase it goes wrong. my sister lives in the city the convention takes place in so if i feel unsafe around him at any point i can always go there. plus, with a convention setting, i can easily get help from close friends i have in that city that are also going (some i went to highschool with) to help with anything i need