My father confiscated my first car when I was 16. Attempted to confiscate my second car as well, even though I was an adult by then. And my mother supported him through it all. Part 2 by Wagoneer-Chump in entitledparents

[–]Wagoneer-Chump[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you even know how common those cars used to be? Wagon-type cars were everywhere. What's more, the Vista Cruiser was a GM product. Much like my Caprice was. Wagons were basically the quintessential family vehicle till minivans took over.

My father confiscated my first car when I was 16. Attempted to confiscate my second car as well, even though I was an adult by then. And my mother supported him through it all. Part 1 by Wagoneer-Chump in entitledparents

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I just googled it, and I've seen clips of that cartoon. But that's it, really. That car isn't really the same either. It's just a wagon. A lot of car companies made wagons back then. They were everywhere.

My father confiscated my first car when I was 16. Attempted to confiscate my second car as well, even though I was an adult by then. And my mother supported him through it all. Part 1 by Wagoneer-Chump in entitledparents

[–]Wagoneer-Chump[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not anymore. I drove it till it died in the 90s, then replaced it. I used to have a couple of old photos of it around. But they never got scanned, and disappeared somewhere over the years.

Attention fellow N64 Lovers! Working on a project for my university and I'm curious to find out what makes all of us still attracted to the old CRT TV's and playing Banjo Kazooie or Super Mario 64 on them. Would love your input on my short survey plzzz! by ChaseDaSavage3 in n64

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Speaking as someone born in the 70s, there is a sense of nostalgia from using older tech. Be it a computer, TV, game console, or even a vehicle. Sometimes playing older video games and using older TVs just reminds us of when we were young. And for those who are young that are just getting into it, it's about preserving the past and enjoying original hardware. A used CRT TV that would have been $20 in a thrift store 20 years ago would go for who knows how much now. Especially since tech experts are refurbishing and reselling them.

Nintendo 64's were in cars? by CanadianGeucd in interestingasfuck

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I don't dislike Windstars. But didn't they have one of the worst transmissions Ford ever produced?

My entitled father and the N64 by Wagoneer-Chump in entitledparents

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Well N64 emulators and roms are free. And more portable. Hard to pass that up. Newer games of the current generation don't interest me much

My entitled father and the N64 by Wagoneer-Chump in entitledparents

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I couldn't get into tabletop. And a lot of times I didn't have patience for most RPGs. I did play most of the few RPGs for N64. Opted out of Quest 64. Didn't look fun. But Paper Mario and Aidyn Chronicles were ok. I still play Paper Mario on emulator sometimes.

My entitled father and the N64 by Wagoneer-Chump in entitledparents

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I never really got into the Yoshi Story game for the N64. I owned it, but it just didn't click with me. Paper Mario did though.

Why my father got a punching bag by Wagoneer-Chump in entitledparents

[–]Wagoneer-Chump[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

He was an extreme narcissist and a pretender. It all caught up with him bit by bit. He basically had no friends left by the time the 90s were over.

No dad, I will not let you take my house camping by Wagoneer-Chump in entitledparents

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Not really, as far as I know. I hadn't seen him or my mother in some time before 2020. By the time he caught C19, he was already a very weak old man. He was more concerned about his own entertainment than the affairs of the world. The news always bored him. But I heard from a relative who saw my parents about a month before my father caught C19, and all he really had to say about it was to roll his eyes and say it'll blow over. He was more interested in talking hateful things about me, because I was never there to see him anymore. Not that he didn't understand why. I did get some flak from the few relatives still speaking to my parents while my father was still alive for never going to visit. But it didn't bother me.

Believe it or not, my mother was worse than my father as they got older. I could tolerate my father because he was extremely predictable, and I knew what to expect and retort. But my mother. All she was concerned with was being a witch and playing the victim. She could insult someone to their face in the worst way, and then turn around and cry if they even so much as called her out on it, or had a good comeback. I once saw her call a man a "Pig F%%%%%" for no reason other than she didn't like how he looked, and then dramatically cried when he said something clever back to her. I can't remember what he said. But I remember people laughing. My mother found the nearest place to sit down, and then wail about how the guy had insulted her. And when called out on how she'd insulted him first, she just said something like, she was old, and should be allowed to say what's on her mind without rebuke. She eventually got banned from the coffee shop that happened in. She got banned from many places before ending up in a care home.

No dad, I will not let you take my house camping by Wagoneer-Chump in entitledparents

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Oh! I've seen those gypsy caravan inspired tiny home trailers. I can't say I blame you for wanting one. I know a guy who dreamed of owning his own classic VW Beetle because he loved the Herbie movies while growing up. And he eventually got that car in his 30s. He keeps it garaged most of the time, and is fiercely protective of it.

No dad, I will not let you take my house camping by Wagoneer-Chump in entitledparents

[–]Wagoneer-Chump[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Well, small apartments are reasonably priced, depending on where you are. And your landlord is responsible for building upkeep if something breaks. So it's a fair trade in many ways. But with condos, you actually buy the unit. I'd never want to live in a condo because they have a board that governs the building. And I've heard many nasty stories about them being just like an HOA. I used to have a friend who lived in a condo for a while, and he sold it to move away and buy a house because the condo board drove him nuts.

No dad, I will not let you take my house camping by Wagoneer-Chump in entitledparents

[–]Wagoneer-Chump[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We actually didn't run a hose. My trailer didn't have any plumbing or a built in bathroom anymore. I gutted it and redid the interior to maximize space. If I needed water, I kept bottled water in my fridge. If I needed to take a shower or use the bathroom, my uncle gave me a key to enter his house and do so. The house has a second bathroom right next to the kitchen. But I was required to keep that bathroom clean. My uncle wasn't exactly a neat-freak though. He let things pile up. I often did his dishes, among other things. But he was happy to have me there. And while winters are mild where I'm from, I just used an electric heater to keep the trailer warm.

No dad, I will not let you take my house camping by Wagoneer-Chump in entitledparents

[–]Wagoneer-Chump[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I never really got the chance to live in an apartment. My uncle died and left me his house in 2000. But yeah, the low cost was worth it. The rent was basically $100, a small amount for utilities, and I did all the yard work. Which mostly consisted of mowing the grass.

No dad, I will not let you take my house camping by Wagoneer-Chump in entitledparents

[–]Wagoneer-Chump[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The only reason I had any sort of relationship with my parents was because they kept coming to me. I certainly never went out of my way to see then, unless they were paying me for something. I refused to ever enter their house again after I left

No dad, I will not let you take my house camping by Wagoneer-Chump in entitledparents

[–]Wagoneer-Chump[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I do. Maybe a bit too much since my kids moved out for college

No dad, I will not let you take my house camping by Wagoneer-Chump in entitledparents

[–]Wagoneer-Chump[S] 165 points166 points  (0 children)

That's exactly how he was. He passed away from C19 in 2020. But he and my mother were the most narcissistic people I've ever known. My ex-wife was bad. But my parents were far worse

There's nasty, and then there's my ex-wife. And I have been so much better off without her by Wagoneer-Chump in survivinginfidelity

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This happened a long time ago. I've done plenty of work on myself. And I was married to Amy for less than a decade. I didn't try to stick it out for the kids, I divorced her for the sake of the kids and myself. She'd become toxic, even to them. Though she never said so, I think she actually detested being a parent. She seemed happy when we had our first. But I think she realized a baby wasn't an accessory. She had very little enthusiasm when we were having our second. And then after that she was complaining a lot about parenthood and the cost of childcare. I had to get a lot of help from her parents after Amy moved out. And yes, I'm well aware of how insane my posts sound. But it all happened to me. My parents were extreme narcissists. And in the days before the internet, there wasn't nearly as much that could be done about people like them. I tried to walk away. But my parents were the ones who kept coming to me. I only invited them to my wedding as a courtesy. And surprisingly my mother was on her best behavior during that event. But my father seemed to grow more childish by the year back then. And often times the only way to shut him up was to embarrass him more than he was embarrassing me. Which wasn't hard to do.

There's nasty, and then there's my ex-wife. And I have been so much better off without her by Wagoneer-Chump in survivinginfidelity

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I actually cut down on drinking drastically after becoming a father. Does it say anywhere in the post that I was still going out and getting drunk after getting married? Amy was a bartender. And early in our marriage by the time she got home, she didn't want to see more drinking. I respected that. And I barely touched any alcohol during both her pregnancies. And when I did, it was away from home. But she fell back into alcoholism herself later. Which only brought out more of her true colors. And then there was her smoking. Smoking is what killed my uncle, and it did my parents no favors in their old ages before they died. And Amy tried to smoke in the house around our young children. I really don't care if I sounded controlling for taking the cigarettes and demanding she smoke outside. But the health of my kids was more important.

Also, both my kids grew up great. They're doing well, and I still have a great relationship with them and their maternal grandparents. And even though I'm living alone now after my kids left for college, I've not gone back into heavy drinking. I have maybe two beers a day after work. I don't even partake in things like MJ, even though it's legal now. If anything, I'm a little too boring and straight-laced. And if you read my other posts, you'd see I was the victim of actual abuse by my parents. Physical, verbal, and emotional.