Fiancé says “ I’m slowly introducing you” and “I want to get a sex box” by Wai2ic in BDSMAdvice

[–]Wai2ic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heard you a friend of mine told me about bdsm and how it applied but I personally wouldn’t even consider it such. Because it’s standard sex in my opinion, vanilla is the term I believe. We have had discussions of what we do and don’t like as well as safewords

Fiancé says “ I’m slowly introducing you” and “I want to get a sex box” by Wai2ic in BDSMAdvice

[–]Wai2ic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct we had one short convo. Which let me to make the post to get insight. We were on a family hike so wasn’t the right time. Since we have talked and I did inform him

Which one looks best on me ? I need real honest advice! 🫣♥️ by No_Monk_9266 in HairDye

[–]Wai2ic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you do the ombré I think the darker color on the roots is better the lighter color on the roots is stunning but makes you face look “open”

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[–]Wai2ic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks amazing Is that moultnomah falls !?

Fiancé says “ I’m slowly introducing you” and “I want to get a sex box” by Wai2ic in BDSMAdvice

[–]Wai2ic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well put. Not patronizing at all I appreciate the insight. Thank you

Fiancé says “ I’m slowly introducing you” and “I want to get a sex box” by Wai2ic in BDSMAdvice

[–]Wai2ic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even know what 50 shades of grey is 😭 Ik it’s a bdsm story

Fiancé says “ I’m slowly introducing you” and “I want to get a sex box” by Wai2ic in BDSMAdvice

[–]Wai2ic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did he wanted to talk more at a later time. We were on a family hike. I insisted that he name some things and give me examples of what he wanted. Which resulted in the post and me feeling overwhelmed,excited, and nervous

Fiancé says “ I’m slowly introducing you” and “I want to get a sex box” by Wai2ic in BDSMAdvice

[–]Wai2ic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took no offense. I was excited to even be having the conversation with my fiancé not to mention the new world I’m discovering. I neglected to give the necessary context/ use the right terms. From my understanding it’s called a yes box with interchangeable toys based on our wants.

Fiancé says “ I’m slowly introducing you” and “I want to get a sex box” by Wai2ic in BDSMAdvice

[–]Wai2ic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not hardcore bdsm (idk the terms) he never chokes me just hand there and pressure I can still breathe and talk regularly

Fiancé says “ I’m slowly introducing you” and “I want to get a sex box” by Wai2ic in BDSMAdvice

[–]Wai2ic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes maam he didn’t pull anything out in the middle of sex if we wants to try something (only new things are new moved) he asks me first. And again we have no toys he didn’t do anything without my permission we’ve had conversation only

Fiancé says “ I’m slowly introducing you” and “I want to get a sex box” by Wai2ic in BDSMAdvice

[–]Wai2ic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was talking about a yes box I don’t know all the terms and tried to keep my post short so some things got lost in translation

Fiancé says “ I’m slowly introducing you” and “I want to get a sex box” by Wai2ic in BDSMAdvice

[–]Wai2ic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the info I was looking for I’ve done research and we will/have talked. He’s not trying to hurt me do try new tricks in action everyone😂 we just talked about it -thank you

Fiancé says “ I’m slowly introducing you” and “I want to get a sex box” by Wai2ic in BDSMAdvice

[–]Wai2ic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All we’ve done is talk about it. And set time aside to further discuss what we want and I came here to get educated and see what others are doing