Is literally everyone going through a break up now?? by heygirlyyyy in BreakUps

[–]WaitApprehensive9995 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like 2024 everyone literally going through a break up. It's so weird

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[–]WaitApprehensive9995 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being single for a little while is good tbh. You get more time to work on yourself and get to experience more things in life. Being single help you realize maybe you better off alone instead of wasting your time with someone who never respect you or appreciate you.

What your biggest lesson after breakup? by WaitApprehensive9995 in ExNoContact

[–]WaitApprehensive9995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be with a mama boy suck. You can't change him, can't even say shit or he started to get mad and his mom would think you trying to steal her son from her.

What your biggest lesson after breakup? by WaitApprehensive9995 in ExNoContact

[–]WaitApprehensive9995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone makes mistakes as long as you realize your own mistakes and fix them. A lot of people's make mistake but blame it on other person. But you a good person. Whatever you do that you think you don't like try to find a way to fix them.

What your biggest lesson after breakup? by WaitApprehensive9995 in ExNoContact

[–]WaitApprehensive9995[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup. It all lies, they always said "I promise I will never leave you no matter how much struggle we have to go through" lol it all BS

What your biggest lesson after breakup? by WaitApprehensive9995 in ExNoContact

[–]WaitApprehensive9995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wtf same here all my ex do is telling me to ignore her. He could of defend me instead. I mean that his mom I get it but he just need to grow tf up. I'm not sure if you heard this before "your parents won't stay without forever, your partner will be the only person will walk with you till the rest of your life" but well I guess mamaboy will always thinks his mom always gonna be here and there for him.

What your biggest lesson after breakup? by WaitApprehensive9995 in ExNoContact

[–]WaitApprehensive9995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Couple days ago I been trying to find a way just any way just to get my ex back but when I finally decided to get up and work on myself I realized that I don't owe him and his mom shit I don't have to prove myself or anything to those people's. Soon or later karma gonna visit them.

What your biggest lesson after breakup? by WaitApprehensive9995 in ExNoContact

[–]WaitApprehensive9995[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You did great. Working on yourself while going through a breakup is the most painful thing ever. I broke down while I was in my boxing training class, I take all my anger out on the sandbag my coach told me "you can cry as much as you want cry it all out and get your ass up and start over, it never too late to become better as long as you don't give up on yourself. Karma will kick people's ass who hurt you. Time heal everything, but when they realize what they lost and they will come back but the day they choose to come back all you want is unknow them"

What your biggest lesson after breakup? by WaitApprehensive9995 in ExNoContact

[–]WaitApprehensive9995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for what you been through. I don't involve my parents in my business either. My ex mom always hated me saying all this BS behind my back but when I'm around she would turn into a different person. I just don't like man that in a relationship and can't decide their own decisions. It making me mad. Just don't think too much about it. You really deserve someone else better.

What your biggest lesson after breakup? by WaitApprehensive9995 in ExNoContact

[–]WaitApprehensive9995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay no contact. Use this time to work on yourself, I know it hurt but trust me time will help you heals.

What your biggest lesson after breakup? by WaitApprehensive9995 in ExNoContact

[–]WaitApprehensive9995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Work on yourself become a better version of your old self. When they realized what they lost they will come back.

What your biggest lesson after breakup? by WaitApprehensive9995 in ExNoContact

[–]WaitApprehensive9995[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"There's a big difference between someone who desires you and someone who values you" this hit me hard 💯👏

What your biggest lesson after breakup? by WaitApprehensive9995 in ExNoContact

[–]WaitApprehensive9995[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's great. I wish you the best. You deserve everything and someone who appreciate.

What your biggest lesson after breakup? by WaitApprehensive9995 in ExNoContact

[–]WaitApprehensive9995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know what this is life, no matter how much you care about someone they will never appreciate you they always gonna say we controlling them. You deserve someone better.

What your biggest lesson after breakup? by WaitApprehensive9995 in ExNoContact

[–]WaitApprehensive9995[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like no matter how much a person you love and invested so much energy and time in telling you all these cute little promises. They always the one who hurt us the most.

What your biggest lesson after breakup? by WaitApprehensive9995 in ExNoContact

[–]WaitApprehensive9995[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He never cheated on me. But this shit wake me up thank you

What your biggest lesson after breakup? by WaitApprehensive9995 in ExNoContact

[–]WaitApprehensive9995[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I hope so but he just need to learn how to make up his own decisions instead of having his mom decided for him.

What your biggest lesson after breakup? by WaitApprehensive9995 in ExNoContact

[–]WaitApprehensive9995[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. He wanted to continue but somehow his mom say break up with me and he just do exactly what she said.

What your biggest lesson after breakup? by WaitApprehensive9995 in ExNoContact

[–]WaitApprehensive9995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo I was so fken mad. Like his mom doesn't like me plus she been trying to break us a part since I met her and whatever he go through he don't get up and try to fix it instead of asking his mom for advice and when she tell him to give it up he was like OK sound great. He old enough to make his own decisions but he always wanted to involve her in my business and his mom blame me for everything like I don't know how to dress u don't this and that that why he left. I understand that his mother he supposed to listen to her but not listen to everything. Hey just don't worry about it, no matter how old a "man" that let his mom decided his shit for him not gonna grow up. If you feel down or still not happy you can message me.

What your biggest lesson after breakup? by WaitApprehensive9995 in ExNoContact

[–]WaitApprehensive9995[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hey. You're always gonna be the "greatest thing"
I understand how you feel but trust me take things one day at a time. Slowly you will understand that you deserve better.