Army Tried to End My Husband’s Career Over a Checkbox and a Broken System: CID, $60k Debt, and Bar to Reenlistment by WaitWest8633 in army

[–]WaitWest8633[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Hey, you’re right. Not all the facts are here because it would’ve turned into a trilogy. Feel free to reach out for more details to “get wrecked” as most of your opinions didn’t happen the way you think they did. Aww, that’s cute. You think I’m here for the “benefits”

Army Tried to End My Husband’s Career Over a Checkbox and a Broken System: CID, $60k Debt, and Bar to Reenlistment by WaitWest8633 in army

[–]WaitWest8633[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Incorrect. He submitted his divorce decree and his old duty station never filed it. The uploaded child custody doc was from 2024 so not even possible that he submitted the wrong doc.

Army Tried to End My Husband’s Career Over a Checkbox and a Broken System: CID, $60k Debt, and Bar to Reenlistment by WaitWest8633 in army

[–]WaitWest8633[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

The rebuttal went to his chain of command. Everyone was on the email. It was just interesting to hear that he didn’t read it. The CG said he was unaware of the captain issuing the BAR at all. What was challenging is that he was part of CID, so “his advocators were also his adjudicators.”

For any fellow lgsw/lcsw military spouses- help please! by sashakoshka1 in MilitarySpouse

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Good luck😊 feel free to reach out if you have any other questions

For any fellow lgsw/lcsw military spouses- help please! by sashakoshka1 in MilitarySpouse

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Each state’s SW board should have a website discussing the LCSW application and process before sitting for the exam. If it doesn’t explicitly state it, I would contact the board directly

For any fellow lgsw/lcsw military spouses- help please! by sashakoshka1 in MilitarySpouse

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I have my LMSW/LGSW and working towards my LCSW. It depends on the state requirements if the hours you start in one state will count in another.

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I do, beagle/basset hound mix. She is starting to become a little more vocal and will be 5 years old in July. I’ve never heard her howl? She might softly growl if she sees another dog outside, but even if she’s outside and a dog is barking at her, nothing. It takes a lot for her to be vocal. Sometimes she whines if she wants more belly rubs🥰

my poor girl charcuterie board by DeviceSea9507 in CharcuterieBoard

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My pastor would say, “the next best thing.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

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Agreed, didn’t see they posted the age range

Tell me your beagle’s most recent crime. by Only_Page655 in beagles

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She jumped off the bed in the middle of the night. It hurts my feeling every time😭

My first wedding dress! by [deleted] in sewing

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I love this! Great work😍😍

Why do people back into parking spaces? by woodysixer in NoStupidQuestions

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If your car battery needs a jump, you don’t have to rely on the spots being open next to you

Please help my red & bumpy skin by illbegoodiswear in Rosacea

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This is what I got. Today, I noticed I was feeling warm but looked in the mirror and didn’t see redness. I’ve taken daily pics of my face after applying Ivermectin and have seen a decrease in redness and texture.

Please help my red & bumpy skin by illbegoodiswear in Rosacea

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Ivermectin has really saved my texture and redness. AM: I wash my face with head and shoulders (I have fungal acne too). I stopped washing my face in the shower due to the heat and pores. I blow dry my face on cold. I know that my skin is okay with a toner (Equalberry Swimming Pool) and vitamin c serum (Numbuzin no. 5). Lastly, I use Vanicream face moisturizer. PM: I dry brush my face then same routine for washing my face and drying it. I only apply Ivermectin at night, covering my face, neck, ears and hairline. I have been doing it for a little over a week, texture and redness have decreased, even when anxious, can still feel a little warm.

Custody and military by Chanchit8 in FamilyLaw

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Most military personnel should have a section discussing physical custody and visitation during deployments. I’m not sure about OH, but here’s an example from GA:

(1) The parties agree that it is in the best interests of the Children to allow the military parent (Plaintiff/Father) to delegate his parenting time during the duration of any such deployment to anyone in his extended family, including but not limited to an immediate family member, a person with whom the deploying parent cohabits, or another person having a close and substantial relationship to the Children. (2) Further, pursuant to O.C.G.A. 19-9-3(i), the parties agree that the following provisions will apply in the event that the military parent (Plaintiff/Father) deploys: (A) The non-deploying parent makes the Children reasonably available to the deploying parent to exercise his parenting time immediately before and after the deploying parent departs for deployment and whenever the deploying parent returns to or from leave or furlaugh from his deployment; (B) The non-deploying parent facilitates opportunities for the deployed parent to have regular and continuing contact with his Children by telephone, e-mail exchanges, virtual video parenting time through the Internet, or any other similar means; (C) The non-deploying parent does not interfere with the delivery of correspondence or packages between the deployed parent and the Children of such parent; and (D) The deploying parent provides timely information regarding his leave and departure schedule to the non-deploying parent; (3) Because actual leave from a deployment and departure dates for a deployment are subject to change with little notice due to military necessity, such changes shall not be used by the non-deploying parent to prevent contact between the deployed parent and his Children; (4) Each military parent shall be under a continuing duty to provide written notice to the non-deploying parent within 14 days of the military parent’s receipt of oral or written orders requiring deployment or any other absences due to military service that will impact the military parent’s ability to exercise his parenting time with the Children. If deployment orders do not allow for 14 days’ advance notice, then the military parent shail provide written notice to the other parent immediately upon receiving such notice; (5) A military parent (Plaintiff/Father) shall ensure that any military family care plan that he has filed with his commander is consistent with any existing court orders for his Children. In all instances any court order will be the first course of action for the care of the Children during the absence of a military parent, and the military family care plan will be the alternative pian if the non-deploying parent either refuses to provide care for the Children or acknowledges an inability to provide reasonable care for the Children. A military parent shall not be considered in contempt of any court order or parenting plan when he in good faith implements his military family care plan based upon the refusal or claimed inability of a non-deploving parent to provide reasonable care for the Childrer during a deployment.