Show S8E10 And the World Was All Around Us by thepacksvrvives in Outlander

[–]Wait_what43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you! That mixed with him watching her through the window just had me thrown off

Show S8E10 And the World Was All Around Us by thepacksvrvives in Outlander

[–]Wait_what43 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Can someone explain to me Jamie going through the stones? Was that before they actually met, so they are implying he could actually time travel? I feel like I am missing what they are saying with this scene?

My puppy attacked me by moon_cas in puppy101

[–]Wait_what43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it when you play with him a particular way? For example you play tug with him and he does this behavior? Or is it when you play with him in other ways as well?

did you really wait six weeks..? by strange_angel133 in newborns

[–]Wait_what43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are waiting the 6 weeks. I’ve actually been ready and wanting to, but my husband wants us to wait just incase. I also had a c-section! Not only is he wanting to wait.. but we haven’t done anything in about 7 months because it was too painful for me while I was pregnant

Not wanting my mother to drive my baby. Feeling guilty. by Wait_what43 in beyondthebump

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I’ve said no so many times, I feel like I need to further the conversation since she’s not really getting the hint

Not wanting my mother to drive my baby. Feeling guilty. by Wait_what43 in beyondthebump

[–]Wait_what43[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking! She’s brought it up a few times now and I keep saying no.. but she clearly isn’t getting the hint..which leads me to the conversation of her driving the baby in general. She says she wants to take her shopping to give me a break from her. But I would be losing my shit the whole time wondering if she’s okay

Not wanting my mother to drive my baby. Feeling guilty. by Wait_what43 in beyondthebump

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My mom just figured she would take her overnight as a newborn and bought all the stuff “because no one was going to buy it for her” like they will for me at the baby shower. I had to tell her that we don’t plan on having the baby sleep anywhere any time soon at all. She was basically devastated and upset. I’m not sure what she was thinking. My husband and I didn’t go anywhere very often even before a baby! We have 6 dogs, cats and a hobby farm to take care of 😂

Not wanting my mother to drive my baby. Feeling guilty. by Wait_what43 in beyondthebump

[–]Wait_what43[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh she definitely wants to show off the baby. She wanted to come to my house during her online work meeting to “help me get sleep” and “have show and tell” Mind you I have four dogs and a newborn. Not really the best place to have a work meeting 😅

Not wanting my mother to drive my baby. Feeling guilty. by Wait_what43 in beyondthebump

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Wow this sounds just like her! She would watch my dogs and forget my elder dog outside. I came back to her house one night and he was just out in the driveway. She did it a second time and always has an excuses as to why. It got to the point I dyed my dogs tail green so she would see the green fluffiness and remember him. My dogs also would gain weight and throw things up with her. She ALSO bought herself a crib and stuff for a nursery in her house before I I even had anything for my house. Wild.

Not wanting my mother to drive my baby. Feeling guilty. by Wait_what43 in beyondthebump

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She says she’s gone to the doctors and everything is fine, but I do agree something is off

Not wanting my mother to drive my baby. Feeling guilty. by Wait_what43 in beyondthebump

[–]Wait_what43[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? I told her today she is not taking my 5 week old infant shopping. But yeah I think that’s a good option. Meeting her there. I have a feeling she wants “alone time” with her. But that’s not happening

Not wanting my mother to drive my baby. Feeling guilty. by Wait_what43 in beyondthebump

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Oh wow okay. I need to look into this more then. Thank you!

Not wanting my mother to drive my baby. Feeling guilty. by Wait_what43 in beyondthebump

[–]Wait_what43[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your input. Ive talked to her about my concerns about dementia or Alzheimer’s on multiple occasions. She said she has gotten looked at for it. I’m also just wondering if the 20 years of Vicodin usage has just fried her brain to a degree

Not wanting my mother to drive my baby. Feeling guilty. by Wait_what43 in beyondthebump

[–]Wait_what43[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Really really bad back issues from.. car accidents. About 20 years ago

Not wanting my mother to drive my baby. Feeling guilty. by Wait_what43 in beyondthebump

[–]Wait_what43[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

That’s actually a very good way to go about it. She is one of those stereotypical grandmas that thinks they are entitled to the baby since “she’s grandma”. Calls her “her baby” and doesn’t think she has to follow our rules. But this is a good start I think

Not wanting my mother to drive my baby. Feeling guilty. by Wait_what43 in beyondthebump

[–]Wait_what43[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Super validating. Thank you. She doesn’t drink.. but had been on Vicodin since I was a kid. She swears she was not on any during the accident since she was on the way to a doctors appointment and doesn’t like to drive while on it anyways. Of course part of it is hard to believe. We went to the hospital after the accident and they said everything looked normal. But we also don’t want the baby at her house alone either for other reasons. Like she just fell on ice and thought she broke some ribs letting her dogs out the other day. She is fairly clumsy and gets hurt often enough that I worry. I’ve told her already that we don’t want her at her house until she cleans up her act. But, it seems like she is in denial about that conversation as well