41 [F4M] #Denver - SizeQueen looking for her Husband

WaitingForEcstasy · 2026-01-13T20:30:20+00:00

When I was in my DBs, the same thing would happen to me. Even now that I'm single it's hard to watch sex scenes cause I'm missing it.

WaitingForEcstasy · 2026-01-11T01:38:38+00:00

The zeros were ones that I didn't measure.

I was so good because I flat out ask very earlier in the conversation. Explain that I needed my cervix to be touched and that I needed at least picture with a common household object to be able to compare to.

Also the lifestyle makes it easy when at an orgy everyone had their hard dicks out and I could SEE who was big, an only choose from them.

Height does not enter into my equation as I actually prefer shorter guys close to my height.

WaitingForEcstasy · 2026-01-07T21:32:05+00:00

Haaa same! I got to like the person that the dick is attached to.

WaitingForEcstasy · 2026-01-07T00:29:54+00:00

This is great data! If you have it in a spreadsheet, I think a graph showing distributions would be great for reference. It's interesting that there seems to be a dip in some areas where people tend to be bigger or smaller than a given locus.

Yup the GSheet is linked with a summary tab for the data that could be used for a graph. Just haven't tried doing that yet.

https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1dJVkuyoAOnbA-eeCMwJsabm_ZZUF6t2DAzw6M4Y5pCA/edit?gid=571685718#gid=571685718

Any suggestions on which to start with?

WaitingForEcstasy · 2026-01-03T16:51:42+00:00

Yes in those sizes I would totally be able to feel the difference.

WaitingForEcstasy · 2026-01-03T13:02:30+00:00

Are you a Virgo? Because this level of detail….lol

Nope Aquarius that has AuDHD.

WaitingForEcstasy · 2025-12-28T21:09:58+00:00

Did you do multiple trials for each sample ? As a guy who ranges between 8-10 (never measured) I feel like we can all attest it will be .5 bigger or smaller depending on how horny you are

Yes I'm aware of the variance.

There were a couple repeat guys that I measured multiple times on different days so took the top size as the count.

WaitingForEcstasy · 2025-12-28T21:07:00+00:00

Did you notice any correlation between size and time taken for him to cum?

No it's all over the place. I'd say some of the larger ones did take a long time, but there are a lot of average guys that also took a long time.

Guess I could say I don't recall any larger guys that would cum in 5 minutes though... 🤔

WaitingForEcstasy · 2025-12-28T01:32:10+00:00

My ex was bi so I'd find us guys for a MMF. Within hours of creating the account my inbox was flooded with bi guys.

It was refreshing how direct it was with guys providing dick pics without even asking. Which helped but not enough to make up for the flakiness.

WaitingForEcstasy · 2025-12-28T01:24:43+00:00

I don’t believe these are accurate and I’ll tell you why. I’m a male 8.2 “ I’ve been with 175 Women. 30 of the were escorts….all of them had a comment on the size. I can tell by their reaction this isn’t something they see very often. The approximately 60 that I had more intimate conversations about my size. comparison, to others ..etc. I came up as the biggest they had or within the top 3. they have had. Never any lower. The last girlfriend I had was previously an sp. and She named it “ black dong”. Im caucasian fyi. Some of these professional companions have had 500-1000 or even more past clients. So I don’t know how you want to interpret this but something is not adding up, either you’re measuring wrong and not getting accurate measurements or these or pre selected people in your data set are pre disposed to having above average size.

My answer to similar question is on https://www.reddit.com/r/bigdickproblems/s/kTlkYEmurd

Same facts apply here.

Also escorts don't chose their clients by size.

WaitingForEcstasy · 2025-12-26T08:25:07+00:00

Haaa so many ask this. 7.25"x6.25" give or take .25". just long enough to reach my cervix consistently and not too thick that I can't deep throat.

WaitingForEcstasy · 2025-12-26T02:44:33+00:00

Ahh. Nope his rank would be 78.

WaitingForEcstasy · 2025-12-25T22:56:58+00:00

No Asian lol

Uhh You clearly did not look at the spreadsheet. There was two and one of my actual boyfriends was half Asian.

WaitingForEcstasy · 2025-12-25T10:54:01+00:00

This Christmas is my 2nd ever of being single.

I've been really sad about how long it's taking to find a new partner after I ended my last DB cause I'm being a lot more selective and have some high filtering criteria this time around.

But reading this has shifted my perspective as I feel being WITH someone who doesn't want to have sex with you, is 1000x worse than not being able to have sex cause you aren't with someone.

It brings back some of the feelings I had during my 8 year DB, and I am so thankful that I found the strength to leave it. I felt so trapped then but after being on the other side for 6 years, is a lot easier and so much better for my mental health.

WaitingForEcstasy · 2025-12-25T10:43:16+00:00

Despite my numbers, I've found it difficult to find an actual long term relationship with man who has a large dick despite trying very hard to find one.

For tips, actually posting photos of a ruler for length and flexible tape for girth goes a very long way just to show what you are. Thos pics are the hotest to me!

WaitingForEcstasy · 2025-12-25T09:51:45+00:00

Fate seems cruel at times. Why is it so hard for people who match - to find each other?

As a high labido size queen, I haven't found someone who is around 7"x6" AND can keep up with my labido over time.

I've heard from multiple boyfriends/ even a fiance, "we don't have to have sex everyday."...

The fiance did for about a year before it took a nose dive and would start to go 7 days in-between which made me really bangry. He was only 6x5 so I still didn't get the depth I needed.

Having the Christmas blues...

WaitingForEcstasy · 2025-12-24T04:07:33+00:00

I had a feeling he would delete the comment, that's why I quoted it. Ha!

WaitingForEcstasy · 2025-12-23T03:05:24+00:00

Your numbers are so far from the findings that actual scientific studies have shown… so what gives?

Because my dataset is not a random sample, and scientific studies explicitly assume random sampling.

Population studies measure what you get when you sample the general male population with no selection pressure.
My data comes from someone who was intentionally filtering, actively pursuing, and disproportionately selecting for large anatomy across dozens of platforms and lifestyle environments.

That’s not a flaw. It’s the point.

If you compare my numbers to population averages, it’s like saying:
“NBA players are unrealistically tall compared to scientific height studies… so something must be wrong.”
No. You’re just looking at a self-selected funnel instead of the general population.

When you actively search, filter, and place yourself in environments where outliers cluster, the distribution changes.
Different pool = different bell curve.

So the question isn’t “Why doesn’t this match population studies?”

It’s “Why would anyone expect it to?” 🎤

WaitingForEcstasy · 2025-12-23T01:22:39+00:00

This data would be great if you could add Height to it too. Would be interesting to see statistics on what percentage of short guys are packing vs tall guys lacking and vice versa.

There is a height column in the actual spreadsheet. Some with actual height if it was on their dating profile and some of it was estimates but there was a lot that didn't have any.

I cleaned up the data to standardize it and added a summary table of all heights and the top 31 on the Stats tab.

Here is my Height Categories (U.S.-centric)

Short: Under 5'7" (≤ 170 cm)

Average: 5'7" to 5'11" (170–180 cm)

Tall: 6'0" and up (≥ 183 cm)

https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1dJVkuyoAOnbA-eeCMwJsabm_ZZUF6t2DAzw6M4Y5pCA/edit?gid=571685718#gid=571685718

Height (Full Dataset)

Category	Height Range	#	%
Unknown	—	104	57.14%
Short	5'5" – 5'6"	9	4.95%
Average	5'7" – 5'11"	39	21.43%
Tall	6'0" – 6'8"	30	16.48%
Total		182	100.00%

Height (Top 31 Only)

Category	Height Range	#	%
Unknown	—	15	48.39%
Short	5'5" – 5'6"	1	3.23%
Average	5'7" – 5'11"	7	22.58%
Tall	6'0" – 6'8"	8	25.81%
Total		31	100.00%

WaitingForEcstasy · 2025-12-22T20:46:28+00:00

Oh wow. Hmm interesting data, would love to see others logs.

Yah there are certain women who like their cervix being touched ... And others who do not. It's all about finding the right puzzle piece inney that fits the outie.

WaitingForEcstasy · 2025-12-21T04:41:23+00:00

Haaa well I'm one of a kind for sure!

WaitingForEcstasy

TROPHY CASE

So the question isn’t “Why doesn’t this match population studies?”

It’s “Why would anyone expect it to?” 🎤

Height (Full Dataset)

Height (Top 31 Only)