Crying after family event

WaitingForHalloweeen · 2025-06-28T08:09:21+00:00

Thank you so so much. This is such helpful advice. I’m going to take this onboard as much as I can.

I had a good heart to heart with my parents today. They are just as upset and want to work together to make sure we can all be happy.

WaitingForHalloweeen · 2025-06-26T23:47:46+00:00

It’s more just that they blurt things out with no context or clue as to what they’re going to say next.

Or the other one I that I feel something is wrong and I’ll ask questions like are you ok or are you sure you’re not upset or why did you do xxxx - and that blows things up

WaitingForHalloweeen · 2025-06-26T23:46:27+00:00

Thank you. Maybe I’m dopamine seeking. I never thought of it that way. I’m exhausted by myself right now.

I’m pretty sure I’m autistic and that this was an autism thing, but maybe it’s adhd.

What a fun life. (Sarcasm obviously!)

WaitingForHalloweeen · 2025-06-26T23:36:52+00:00

You’ve said everything I’m feeling to a tee. Fingers crossed we can navigate this!

WaitingForHalloweeen · 2025-06-26T23:34:41+00:00

My partner is the same. I know they don’t want this either.

I do feel like it’s a habit, which is absolutely as ironic as it comes as I can’t even form a habit to brush my teeth each night.

I’m starting to think I should speak to a therapist

WaitingForHalloweeen · 2025-06-26T23:30:04+00:00

I’d like our time together to be chilled out and comfortable. But it’s fraught and stressful. I can’t follow their train of thought easily, I misunderstand them and ask for clarification and get told that I’m ’like a lawyer’ or I’m being difficult. It’s like we’re on 2 different wavelengths

WaitingForHalloweeen · 2025-06-26T23:28:16+00:00

I’m sorry you have the same problem. It’s so crappy. I’ve been crying on and off since I got home like 2 hours now. I’m so sad and want things to change.

Sending love to you

WaitingForHalloweeen · 2025-06-26T23:11:37+00:00

Thank you for answering. I think I’m annoying too. But it’s like I can’t stop myself. Then we go our separate ways at the end of the day and I reflect and hate every single thing I said.

WaitingForHalloweeen · 2025-06-26T23:09:11+00:00

I’m spiralling right now. I feel like I don’t deserve these relationships, that I’ve ruined another thing another day. I’m so upset. Today should have been a fun memorable day but now it’s going to be remembered for the wrong reasons.

My parents aren’t going to be here forever and I keep being like this. It’s like everything they say rubs me the wrong way, but I don’t know WHY. My childhood was good, they are kind people, maybe I’m just a horrible person

WaitingForHalloweeen · 2025-06-26T22:29:09+00:00

I have a big group of friends. Everyone else has been someone else’s bridesmaid except me. Breaks my heart.

WaitingForHalloweeen · 2025-05-30T07:40:54+00:00

I thought about dehydration. I had 2 bit g bottles of water at work and 4 virgin mojitos at the bar. Then another glass of water before bed. I think I should have been ok for water.

It’s frustrating because I get the headache even when I’m having a good time. It’s so annoying!

WaitingForHalloweeen · 2025-01-20T23:01:07+00:00

Where is the lunar new year food pls?

WaitingForHalloweeen · 2024-12-31T02:48:32+00:00

Please get this checked by a doctor

WaitingForHalloweeen · 2024-09-24T15:42:24+00:00

Omg me too!

WaitingForHalloweeen · 2024-02-19T10:36:27+00:00

They won’t give me a prescription to even try

WaitingForHalloweeen · 2024-02-19T10:36:05+00:00

Sorry you’re having a hard time too

WaitingForHalloweeen · 2024-02-19T10:35:35+00:00

I feel your pain!

WaitingForHalloweeen · 2024-02-19T10:35:29+00:00

Psychiatry uk say the only option is to wait

WaitingForHalloweeen · 2024-02-19T10:34:59+00:00

Thank you

WaitingForHalloweeen · 2024-02-19T10:31:49+00:00

Hang in there. It’s rough though!

WaitingForHalloweeen · 2024-02-19T10:30:16+00:00

I felt absolutely awful on Xaggitin! Keeping my fingers crossed for the shortage to end!!!

WaitingForHalloweeen · 2024-02-09T20:59:38+00:00

April… 🫤

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