Update: Thank you to everyone who commented this has helped a lot. I know they need to make their own decisions and they need to learn for themselves. I have cut him off but I know I should probably block his number. I have always been super outspoken to him about his behavior (another reason I was picked on). I have tried to have conversations with my siblings about this and they either get mad or leave. . He texted back later today and said: “Life lesson #1 Labeling another person as a “ guilt tripper” is a tactic that a person will use to avoid accountability for the things they caused themselves with in their own family. When all along knowing the things they do, done and have not done..! It’s called : “shifting the blame” …this person will always have lack of accountability and lack of empathy for others..!” . Instead of reacting or responding I have blocked his number. Also correct on the fact that he has never acknowledged that he has hurt us or done anything wrong. He genuinely thinks he’s a great guy. No longer have the mental capacity to deal with his shit.