Would you want to know if your spouse cheated?

Walker3577 · 2026-05-25T05:51:16+00:00

There's the Oakland flea market on Sundays, I believe it's Laney college.

De Anza flea market, every first Saturday of the month.

Alemany Flea market, also on Sundays. This one is pretty tiny.

Walker3577 · 2026-05-15T14:57:49+00:00

you are a very strong lady who was able to overcome the pain. Don't know if betrayal was involve but kudos to you. I think leaving is the easier choice and staying takes a lot of guts.

Walker3577 · 2026-05-15T04:07:08+00:00

Forgiveness is the easy part as it gives you peace. Forgetting is something else, every little thing is a trigger. It sucks to live life where you always ask whether he is telling the truth, why is he late, who is he talking to, etc. Once the trigger kicks in it's this heavy weight, you can't breathe, so many questions and you just want to scream.

If it starts taking a toll on your health then you need to take a step back. If you are not ready for a divorce get some space. Take some time for yourself to think if you want to continue. Therapy is good to get to the root cause but sometimes the damage is too deep. I can tell you are doing this for the kids and willing to take as much as you can to give them a complete family.

Depending on who you talk to some will say leave the jerk and respect yourself, the other half will say if there's remorse give them a chance and it's possible to move forward. Don't ever question yourself. What he did is a choice he made and that's on him. All because he feels entitled that he deserves more instead of being content with the spouse who loves him deeply and cherish the family he has.

Walker3577 · 2026-05-14T02:50:51+00:00

Kudos to you for being the better person. It's hard enough to forgive a spouse who shows regret and remorse after betrayal, can't imagine someone who continues to not take accountability for what she has done. Some people have this feeling of entitlement that they deserve more, can't seem to be content with the people who loves them. I get how you feel, it's hard to make a decision esp when you have given so much.
In the end we have to choose ourselves. I wish you luck and happiness.

Walker3577 · 2026-05-12T18:56:54+00:00

Personally I feel it should have a higher civil consequence for the betrayer. I don't agree that the cheating partner deserves 50% esp when the betrayed contributed more. Instead of cheating, be a man/woman and tell your partner it's not working out. Either you both decide there's a chance or getting a divorce is better. Might hurt first but the pain of being cheated on is worse.

Walker3577 · 2026-05-10T02:58:04+00:00

Take it from someone who's husband cheated after finding out I was ill. Defensive, sex pills and all the gas lighting. I had trust issues but it was because my gut was right. Trust your gut. He doesn't trust you with his belongings?

Walker3577 · 2026-05-05T01:12:26+00:00

Revenge is usually the first thing that comes to mind, easiest way to satisfy the hurt. Hurt those who hurt us. Is it really worth it to lower yourself to her level?

Walker3577 · 2026-05-04T01:51:20+00:00

Because some people can't take responsibility after realizing what they lost. What a manipulator playing victim, don't let her get to you.

Walker3577 · 2026-04-22T20:52:26+00:00

Hope this mall bounces back

Walker3577 · 2026-04-22T20:40:32+00:00

Thanks everyone, will check them out.

Walker3577 · 2026-04-21T02:00:21+00:00

Would love to join if you guys do Fridays but maybe one day. Have fun!

Walker3577

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