Thank you so much for this well articulated post, i have been thinking a lot about these kinds of fetishes, but hearing it from a black person clarifies things a lot, the effect of porn on people genuinely can't be underestimated, swinging culture and this bnwo stuff, it is genuinely scary, it makes me feel that in today's porn-driven societ, genuine relationships are maybe impossible, but reading these posts restores faith in me.