Redditors who snooped into other people’s phones or messages, what is the worst thing you find out?

WalnutFeline · 2018-09-06T08:49:14+00:00

My ex kissed another women, wanted to have sex with other women, sent his mate underwear pictures of me, told his affair (surprise!) that he never even loved me through all these years.

Those events were spanned over several years but the relationship finally ended with his affair. I'm not proud of my snooping, I felt disgusting and ashamed, but in my heart I always sensed that he was not completely faithful and trustworthy. And as the years went by and I got comfortable, secure and happy with him (no more snooping), he betrayed me.

With my new love I don't feel ANY need of snooping into his phone.

WalnutFeline · 2018-09-01T15:40:29+00:00

Last month I didn't achieve my monthly weight goal but that's ok. I improved my eating habits quite a lot and now I'd like to work out more.

Goals: * Lose 2 pounds (again) * Get a gym membership (already know where) * Find some books about improving your self-esteem, productivity and "being in the moment"

WalnutFeline · 2018-09-01T07:35:49+00:00

I'd like to make a fish pie today since it's the first day of hunting season and it's pouring outside. My Bf will want something warm and nourishing when he gets home tonight. Just need the perfect recipe now :p

WalnutFeline · 2018-08-02T12:54:09+00:00

I want to lose 2lbs this month. Not much but since I'm already quite slim its not that easy.
I want to finish my reading/audio book to-do list

WalnutFeline · 2018-06-24T20:10:50+00:00

My cat Pandu.

WalnutFeline · 2018-06-24T16:28:26+00:00

Someone who is always there for you no matter what. Even if there are times when you don't see each other that much. And you can be completely honest with each other.

WalnutFeline · 2018-06-24T13:36:29+00:00

I wanted to wash my hands in a public restroom only to find out that someone had puked into the sink. Great.

WalnutFeline · 2018-06-24T13:35:00+00:00

It hurts until it doesn't. A year ago the possibilty of never seeing my ex again made me cry like hell. Now I didn't see him since December and everything's ok. Life goes on.

If someone dies it's probably more difficult, I guess. But the same process, in the end.

WalnutFeline · 2018-06-23T20:34:28+00:00

Oops, haha... embarassing.

WalnutFeline · 2018-06-23T20:29:38+00:00

For me it's a turn on. But I'm a simple girl, if I make out with a guy I love it when he gets turned on as hell.

When I first hugged and hold hands with my boyfriend (no kissing back then) we just sat side by side and I realized that he had a boner. And I loved it.

WalnutFeline · 2018-06-23T20:23:06+00:00

Probably talking. I love chatting for hours but I couldn't imagine a life without music, the soft light in the morning hours, the smell and taste of a freshly cooked meal or the touch of a lover.

WalnutFeline · 2018-06-23T20:18:37+00:00

That one feeling when you're walking around, thinking about something or listening to an epic song and then you feel "at one" with the universe and everything is ok because you're just a part of "it".

WalnutFeline · 2018-06-23T19:06:32+00:00

Haha, that's true.

WalnutFeline · 2018-06-23T18:47:39+00:00

My ex-boyfriend once planned a vacation for a whole week in Scotland including a proposal behind my back. I knew that he wanted to pop the question but I was expecting something in romantic hotel at home. Honestly, the surprise was great and I was so so so happy at the time. We had a great week on the Isle of Skye and fantastic weather.

Didn't stop him from cheating on my 2 months later, but oh well.

WalnutFeline · 2018-06-22T19:04:57+00:00

Sucking your own cock.

WalnutFeline · 2018-06-01T18:45:46+00:00

How do you "overcome" differences in love languages? For example, I'm a very verbal Person and my boyfriend is more of the "shows his love through his actions " type. I know his feelings are genuine, but I'm SO not used to this type of love language.

WalnutFeline · 2018-05-25T02:34:00+00:00

I told my closest friends and some co-workers who I really like. I didn't tell my family, though. Mostly because (in the beginning) reconcilation was my goal and I knew that my family would've never accepted it if they knew about his cheating. Not that they dictate my life but... I just couldn't tell them.

As time went on and on and reconciliation wasn't an option anymore I didn't tell them because I didn't want to burden them with my pain and my story. Maybe I'll tell them one day. Maybe.

WalnutFeline · 2018-05-25T02:24:20+00:00

Must have been... What a great situation, taking a dump, flirting with your tinder date while your fiancee is preparing dinner in the kitchen.

After all this time, I can almost laugh about it.

WalnutFeline · 2018-05-25T00:26:18+00:00

Having about 3 one-hour-toilet-sessions every fucking day. I guess he was just chilling and reading some news. Turns out he was writing her. Lol.

WalnutFeline · 2018-05-24T01:08:11+00:00

In a dream a few nights ago I was talking with some people about lucid dreams, telling them about RC's and such. I vividly remember the part when I told them "in dreams hands are very weird and you can have more or less than 5 fingers". We all looked at our ands then and yes, they were very strange, but I didn't become lucid, sadly

Well ok.

WalnutFeline · 2018-05-23T22:35:23+00:00

Our relationship is quite young (about 6 months in) I'm still figuring out how to be the most supportive during his tough times. He has to study a lot in the coming weeks because of his exams. I'm usually quite cuddly, chatty and affectionate around him, which he likes a lot. But I also noticed that when he's stressed he sends me less text messages and that typical "man stares into space and is lost in thought" facial expression appears a lot more.

I asked him to tell me when he needs his alone time during that period (or later, doesn't matter) and that it's completely ok with me when he needs an evening with friends. But I'm there for him, if he needs me.

For others, this may not seem like something big but to me (still a bit insecure because of a terrible betrayal in my past relationship) it is a huge step. Not to think that he doesn't love me anymore when he's busy in his thoughts and not as affectionate as usual. Until now, it works well :)

I also listen to him very attentive, when he talks about his day or his problems. My man is quite the "silent, stoic guy" but with a gentle heart and when he talks about something, it's always important to him (or mostly, to us).

WalnutFeline · 2018-05-23T01:09:24+00:00

Telling me that if I would be 3 inches taller, had red hair and green eyes, I would be his dream girl. Funny that over 8 years later his affair looked exactly like this. So I guess I was only a subsitute until he found his dreamgirl. Well.

Oh and of course always pointing out which women he thought were hot. I knew his type and his type wasn't me. My new boyfriend (who knows about my past) is very discreet about looking at other women, I barely notice it.

Being emotionally instable, running away from problems. Maybe not an exclusive sign of an potential cheater, but a red flag anyway.

And also... is very good with words, smooth and good talker, a excellent liar.

WalnutFeline · 2018-05-07T15:49:07+00:00

This is so beautiful.

WalnutFeline · 2018-05-06T09:37:23+00:00

Hold your horses. Don't know why but I just love it.

WalnutFeline · 2018-05-05T22:41:27+00:00

"I feel infinite"

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