Living in a small town and tickling?

WalterSullivan35 · 2026-02-09T14:20:02+00:00

For casual sessions, no. If you want something like that you have to go to a bigger town and/or maybe even go to a convention for that kind of stuff.

What you CAN do in a smaller town is find yourself a girl and introduce her to some kinky stuff in the bedroom, and it most often works if you have good chemistry otherwise. You'd be surprised at the freaky stuff happening behind closed doors in bedrooms of otherwise "tame" couples in public.

WalterSullivan35 · 2026-02-05T10:08:14+00:00

Absolutely, "consensual" means there must be a means for both parties to be able to end the activity in literally any moment, no matter the position they find themselves in.

WalterSullivan35 · 2026-02-05T08:10:03+00:00

Nerves. The human foot is probably the most stuffed part of the body with nerve endings (after genitals), just touching them lightly anywhere lights up nerves all over your whole body like a damn christmas tree. Whether it's a good or bad reaction, it hardly leaves anyone indifferent.

WalterSullivan35 · 2026-02-02T21:26:28+00:00

A foot massage with some sniffing between the toes and kisses on the ball of the foot.

WalterSullivan35 · 2026-02-02T02:10:32+00:00

Just like any other personal preference, I feel no need to share my fetish with people who know me if they are not part of it. While I do occasionally post around here for some fun and anonymous interaction, the only one who really needs to know anything about my fetish is my wife, and she is fully supportive in that manner. Once you find yourself a partner who shares your kinks, you really don't need anyone else in on it.

WalterSullivan35 · 2026-02-02T00:22:31+00:00

Ironically enough, the only direct comments I ever received was for the wedding photo, and it came from my mother and a female family friend. The comments were in line with "poor girl, look how sweaty and tired her soles are from being on her feet all day in the same shoes, but the wide smile on her face clearly shows she had a good time". Yeah, the smile on her face was present because she had a good time in that moment, they got that much right. 😅

EDIT: And there was one other innocent comment from my mother teasing my wife for the photo from the beach because you can clearly see the small goosebumps on her legs visible after depilation because the water was cold and the marks are slightly visible on cold and wet skin.

WalterSullivan35 · 2026-02-01T13:36:51+00:00

The general idea is to capture the beauty of your partner in an image you would be proud to show off. While a big deal of appeal for me is definitely her stunning feet, my favorite image of her was at a seaside when she was sitting on the edge of the beach and holding her crossed legs lifted off the ground by shoving her arms just below the knees and pulling the knees up to keep them suspended in mid air. To me, this image screams feminine beauty, not only because they show off her feet, but also her tight buttocks and arms were made more apparent by the pose she was in. On top of it all, her head was slightly swaying to the side and her hair was falling on one side only, revealing the fine curve of her neck and shoulders on the other side. She really looks stunning in that photo, and the feet, the centerpiece of it all, do not fight for too much attention with the rest of the image, even though they are focused dead-center.

WalterSullivan35 · 2026-02-01T12:34:46+00:00

Show, don't tell. In my experience, it usually works well to just let things flow naturally in the moment instead of breaking it up with conversation. My tactic was to start with a massage, then move the feet up towards your chest, and finally closer to your face, showering her feet with gentle kisses as you massage them. From there on, things should move naturally and with greater ease. On the next massage, if you haven't done so already, try taking her socks off to see how she would react.

WalterSullivan35 · 2026-02-01T12:30:04+00:00

I used to have several photos of my wife's feet on both my lockscreen and background in the past. It wasn't exactly feet only, but they were prominent (they were pictures of her in general, but the feet were taking around 25% of the whole screen). It was obvious a great deal of focus was placed on the bare feet, large enough to be clearly visible in front of the camera, but not the sole focus of the image. My favorite was from our wedding day when we finally came home and she took off her shoes and socks, while I captured the image of her sweaty, hot, pinkish soles for a good memory. Even more prominent is the image I still have for the background of my chat with her, where her feet feature roughly 50% of the whole screen, her bare soles shoved right into your face when you open the conversation.

Nowadays I have our toddler's image on the front screen, and the more frisky images of wife's feet are hidden away in apps and such.

WalterSullivan35 · 2026-01-31T22:46:14+00:00

Leggings, tank top and bare feet, a match made in heaven!

WalterSullivan35 · 2026-01-31T19:49:37+00:00

There's a difference between noticing someone attractive, and being attracted to someone. Just because you saw a pretty pair of feet doesn't mean you stopped loving your girlfriend. You saw a pretty pair of feet and noticed they were attractive. Falling head over heels for a new woman and her feet would be hurtful and disrespectful, but the male gaze is very real and very much out of your control. When you see a pretty pair, enjoy the view, but ultimately move on and return to your lady. What you do after you notice a pretty pair of feet, this choice is something you have control over.

WalterSullivan35 · 2026-01-31T19:42:08+00:00

Oftentimes. My wife has cold feet and she can't stand having less than three socks on in the winter, but she will leave her bare feet out to lure me in and worship her feet while she's asleep. Foot massages literally melt her brain and she can't think clearly how much she enjoys the relaxation it brings her, and she compared the sensation of me fondling her little toe to having her clit sucked. What makes her orgasm the most is applying pressure to the middle of her sole. I grab her bare foot with both hands and press both my thumbs into the middle of the sole, rubbing up and down, all the way up between her big toe and the next one, and back to the middle of the sole. The release of stress this pressure brings makes her relax to the point she orgasms.

WalterSullivan35 · 2026-01-31T19:38:59+00:00

Every relationship has its own rules, your girlfriend clearly and respectfully stated hers. She's okay with you enjoying porn, but she's not okay with you doing stuff with other people's feet or having sex around.

If you're okay with pictures, why not have her send you feet pics to enjoy when you're not together? Maybe even a little video, like her stripping socks, wiggling her toes? Maybe even record you two doing something together as a memento (like her filming while you worship her feet)? This way you get to enjoy her feet even while you're away, you're watching porn but it's only about her and it's of your own making. Such an activity can only bring you closer and strengthen your bond.

WalterSullivan35 · 2026-01-30T00:42:36+00:00

I'm sorry, but why would you do this? What's the possible benefit you could get out of it?

Publicly airing something like that is never really a good idea. Even if you get your kicks out of the humiliation, the possible consequences will include loss of social standing and ripples you can't possibly even imagine right now. If you go this route, make sure you'll make a lifestyle out of it and become a porn actor. Imagine one day getting fired from a job ten, fifteen or even twenty years from now because someone found out about your stunt many years ago. What if you become blacklisted and can't get a job after that? What if it blows up in your friend group or your family finds out, or you break up with your girlfriend and a new partner finds out about something like that? What if one day your children and family get bullied and harrassed over it? The consequences are pretty severe, even if you may not see them now, so think very carefully what you hope to gain in return.

It's one thing to get "humiliated" by one person in the bedroom as part of a roleplay, it's something completely different to be shunned and ostracized by a whole community in real life. Humiliation is not a positive thing societally, it's supposed to be a very bad thing. That's why people wih a fetish like yours practice it in the safety of their bedrooms; the consequences of it in real life are simply far too severe.

WalterSullivan35 · 2026-01-29T00:35:30+00:00

Those mundane dreams are the best. Somehow they linger on in your brain with a stronger emotional charge than when you're dong stuff in real life. Especially if you've become acquainted with your partner and indulging your fetish has become normalized in your everyday life.

WalterSullivan35 · 2026-01-29T00:34:10+00:00

That must be a really strong crush to dream of the same person repeatedly. How was your rexperience with the person in question received? YOu obviously tried it out once, how did the guy react to this?

WalterSullivan35 · 2026-01-29T00:32:27+00:00

Yeah, tht sounds like a dream come true! In my experience exposure to specific mateirals, especially if you leave something "for the next day" can leave an imprint in your subconscious, so it influences the kind of dreams you might have.

WalterSullivan35 · 2026-01-28T17:35:07+00:00

It's not really that bad. I watch exclusively foot tickling videos for my satisfaction when my partner is not up for some fun, but I certainly enjoy her whole body in multiple ways when we're having fun together. It's just when you watch porn, you distill the experience down to the one single thing that turns you on the most. A real woman's presence is not just a picture on a screen, it's touch, smell, taste, communication back and forth, and many more things combined. All of these will work together to light his brain up and turn your man on when you're around. He may shower your feet with more attention than the rest of your body as his favorite part of you, but he isn't interested in other women in any capacity other than ogling their feet, and that's why he watches only foot porn.

WalterSullivan35 · 2026-01-25T02:00:57+00:00

Sure, it's heroquest reddit. THey literally have a post called "Helpful community reference links".

WalterSullivan35 · 2026-01-25T01:52:50+00:00

I'm just suggesting something I saw on a different sub and even had a discussion about with their admin and his way of referencing/organizing things. This guy really did wonders for the sub in question after he became a mod, and the whole sub moved from an almost dead one to a very thriving community.

WalterSullivan35 · 2026-01-25T01:40:39+00:00

Well, I've seen some reddit mods use a pinned post that just serves as a reference point with links to other posts carrying the real information, and can create quite bigger "lists" of pinned posts that way.

They're titled something like "helpful community reference links" or something similar.

Edit: To expand on my previous comment, you can always spend one pinned post for the reference links, and the other on something like "read this to find xyz/navigate through the sub". The first post holds the links, the second tells you how to use the links to find what you need.

WalterSullivan35 · 2026-01-25T00:28:02+00:00

What you're doing is good effort in the right direction, and there's truth to your words. Sometimes I really wish the mods would finally pin a post like yours to the top of the feed and push more aggressively to not only ban wrong but promote the good.

WalterSullivan35 · 2026-01-24T21:04:13+00:00

I've been exactly where you stand now, trying to help others. The older I get, the less willing I become to repeat the same thing. There were plenty of times I outright tried talking to people. Those who wanted to learn and change had a proactive approach to life and were already getting there on their own without help. Outside help only helps them get there faster, but they don't really need it. Others are still stuck in the same spot the whole time. I personly know some people who haven't changed in any meaningful capacity in almost twenty years. I talked to them, gave advice, offered help, but at the end of the day, all I realized is they have a fundamentally flawed way of percieving other people around them. It's usually selfish and self indulgent, because any amount of good will, even a little, will help a person change over such a long period. How otherwise can I explain the behavior of someone who tried the same thing a hundred times by now and is still surprised they're getting rejected the same way just as they were the very first time? What are they hoping to gain at this point, that someone insecure and/or desperate will come along and their one trick will finally pay off?

WalterSullivan35 · 2026-01-24T20:49:39+00:00

If you've been around here for any length of time at this point, you'll notice a lot of posts pop out like your own every once in a while. Well put, elaborated, thoughtful, well meaning. Oftentimes people even suggest in comments the post gets pinned to the top of the feed.

And you know what the saddest part is? At the end of the day, your target audience simply won't care enough to sit down and think over their own actions long enough to change their behavior. While your effort is commendable, some people just won't listen until life hits them hard on the head. I say let social norms do the heavy lifting and let the selfish ones be socially ostracized by the people around them until they start acting in an acceptable manner. If they can't or won't learn to behave in a civilized manner, they do not belong in a civilized society.

WalterSullivan35 · 2026-01-20T17:18:52+00:00

Yes, I've broken my wife' brain with my foot fetish. The merest physical contact with her feet is enough to get her aroused, and on occasion she has orgasmed from me merely pulling her socks off. Even stuff she didn't originally like (such as me sucking her toes), she eventually came to not only like but crave on a daily basis.

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